
How to Be an Imperfectionist: The New Way to Self-Acceptance, Fearless Living, and Freedom from Perfectionism
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Daniel Penz
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By:
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Stephen Guise
About this listen
I remember when I aimed for perfect workouts: 30 minutes was the minimum.
I was in lousy shape.
I remember when I aimed for perfect dating: it couldn't be awkward, forced, or uncertain.
I didn't talk to women I was interested in.
I remember when I aimed for perfect writing: I wanted 1,000+ words of quality material per day.
I played video games instead.
I carefully avoided mistakes, endlessly ruminated about what I didn't do, and what I did do wasn't enough.
Then, I became an imperfectionist.
Everything changed. I had fun stories to tell, like the lesbian pizza incident and the most nervous "Hi" ever spoken by a human being. I learned more. I laughed more. I lived more.
I got in great shape, read more books, and improved my social skills. I wrote Mini Habits, which is being translated into a dozen languages.
I found I could mess up and still win.
Perfectionism is a naturally limiting mindset. For example, kids are taught to color inside the lines, and any color outside the lines is considered a mistake that must be corrected. Imperfectionism frees us to live outside the lines, where possibilities are infinite, mistakes are allowed, and self-judgment is minimal.
While the freedom of imperfectionism is impactful, it does not preclude us from having problems. Imperfectionists aren't so ironic as to have perfect lives, they're just happier, healthier, and more productive at doing what matters.
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How does a musician with acute hearing loss, a refusal to perform live, and no industry connections carve a path to millions of followers and lucrative royalty checks? In Make Your Own Rules, Andrew Huang shares stories from his two decades as a music industry misfit and offers advice on both the artistic and business sides of working as a creator in our digital era.
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Insightful, relevant and actionable
- By DavidG on 03-16-24
By: Andrew Huang
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Creative Calling
- Establish a Daily Practice, Infuse Your World with Meaning, and Succeed in Work + Life
- By: Chase Jarvis
- Narrated by: Chase Jarvis
- Length: 8 hrs and 32 mins
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Life isn’t about “finding” fulfillment and success - it’s about creating it. Why then has creativity been given a back seat in our culture? No longer. Creativity is a force inside every person that, when unleashed, transforms our lives and delivers vitality to everything we do. Establishing a creative practice is therefore our most valuable and urgent task - as important to our well-being as exercise or nutrition. The good news? Renowned artist, author, and CreativeLive founder, Chase Jarvis, reminds us that creativity isn't a skill - it's a habit available to everyone.
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- By kimberly on 12-18-19
By: Chase Jarvis
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The Magic of Momentum
- Escape Any Rut. Build Winning Streaks. Use Forward Motion to Change the Trajectory of Your Life
- By: Stephen Guise
- Narrated by: George Acevedo
- Length: 4 hrs and 51 mins
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Your power to change one moment can create life-changing momentum. In The Magic of Momentum, international best-selling author Stephen Guise reveals how momentum works differently in our behavior and lives than it does in other areas. Behavioral momentum, however, is far more powerful than other forms of momentum. It’s not the “string of successes” we often perceive it to be. Behavioral momentum is layered and exponential because every action you take changes how your brain interprets that behavior.
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A great book, whether or not you have read Guise’s previous work
- By Bigkids on 05-09-22
By: Stephen Guise
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The Art of Asking
- How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help
- By: Amanda Palmer, Brené Brown - foreword, Jamy Ian Swiss
- Narrated by: Amanda Palmer, Ellen Archer, Jamy Ian Swiss
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In The Art of Asking, Palmer expands upon her popular TED talk to reveal how ordinary people, those of us without thousands of Twitter followers and adoring fans, can use her principles in our own lives to "let people help".
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The title is a misnomer
- By Meenakshi Dogra on 01-10-18
By: Amanda Palmer, and others
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The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control
- A Path to Peace and Power
- By: Katherine Morgan Schafler
- Narrated by: Katherine Morgan Schafler
- Length: 10 hrs and 29 mins
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We’ve been looking at perfectionism all wrong. As psychotherapist and former on-site therapist at Google Katherine Morgan Schafler argues in The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control, you don’t have to stop being a perfectionist to be healthy. For women who are sick of being given the generic advice to “find balance,” a new approach has arrived.
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The Life Changing Book I didn’t know I needed
- By S. RINCON on 04-23-23
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The Neuroscience of Selling
- Proven Sales Secrets to Win Over the Buyer's Heart and Mind (Ignite Reads)
- By: John Asher
- Narrated by: David H. Lawrence XVII
- Length: 1 hr and 48 mins
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A revolutionary way to discover real sales success and bring new value to your company! Sales is not just about logic and emotion. Extraordinary salespeople are top earners because they understand the deeper levels of the brain and how buyers think.
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- By Sadie Nie on 05-09-23
By: John Asher
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The Little Book of Talent
- 52 Tips for Improving Your Skills
- By: Daniel Coyle
- Narrated by: Grover Gardner
- Length: 1 hr and 53 mins
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The Little Book of Talent is an easy-to-use handbook of scientifically proven, field-tested methods to improve skills - your skills, your kids’ skills, your organization’s skills - in sports, music, art, math, and business. The product of five years of reporting from the world’s greatest talent hotbeds and interviews with successful master coaches, it distills the daunting complexity of skill development into 52 clear, concise directives. Whether you’re age 10 or 100, this is an essential guide for anyone who ever asked, "How do I get better?"
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buy book
- By Oscar Olivares on 04-25-20
By: Daniel Coyle
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The Motivation Myth
- How High Achievers Really Set Themselves Up to Win
- By: Jeff Haden
- Narrated by: Ray Porter
- Length: 6 hrs and 30 mins
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It's comforting to imagine that superstars in their fields were just born better equipped than the rest of us. When a co-worker loses 20 pounds, or a friend runs a marathon while completing a huge project at work, we assume they have more grit, more willpower, more innate talent, and above all, more motivation to see their goals through. But that's not at actually true, as popular Inc.com columnist Jeff Haden proves. "Motivation" as we know it is a myth. Motivation isn't the special sauce that we require at the beginning of any major change.
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nothing you haven't heard before
- By Logan on 05-22-18
By: Jeff Haden
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The Gifts of Imperfection, 10th Anniversary Edition
- Features a New Foreword
- By: Brené Brown
- Narrated by: Brené Brown
- Length: 4 hrs and 31 mins
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For more than a decade, Brené Brown has found a special place in our hearts as a gifted mapmaker and a fellow traveler. She is both a social scientist and a kitchen table friend whom you can always count on to tell the truth, make you laugh, and, on occasion, cry with you. And what's now become a movement all started with The Gifts of Imperfection, which has sold more than two million copies in 35 different languages across the globe.
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Anecdotal drivel
- By Megan M. Jeffries on 11-14-20
By: Brené Brown
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Anything You Want
- 40 Lessons for a New Kind of Entrepreneur
- By: Derek Sivers
- Narrated by: Derek Sivers, Naina Kader
- Length: 2 hrs and 2 mins
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You started a business. But why? Entrepreneurs often lose sight of what matters. Are you helping people? Are they happy? Are you happy? Are you profitable? Isn't that enough? Derek Sivers accidentally started a business by helping musicians sell their music. It became the largest online seller of independent music with over 150,000 musicians and $100M in sales. After ten years, he sold the company for $22 million and gave all the money to charity.
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Clarity of advice
- By Chad B Wickland on 04-10-25
By: Derek Sivers
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Don't Overthink It
- Make Easier Decisions, Stop Second-Guessing, and Bring More Joy to Your Life
- By: Anne Bogel
- Narrated by: Anne Bogel
- Length: 4 hrs and 28 mins
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Not only can you overcome negative thought patterns that are repetitive, unhealthy, and unhelpful, you can replace them with positive thought patterns that will bring more peace, joy, and love into your life. In Don't Overthink It, you'll find actionable strategies that can make an immediate and lasting difference in how you deal with questions both small and large. More than a book about making good decisions, Don't Overthink It offers you a framework for making choices you'll be comfortable with, using an appropriate amount of energy.
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- By staciet on 06-19-20
By: Anne Bogel
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The Third Door
- The Mindset of Success
- By: Alex Banayan
- Narrated by: Alex Banayan
- Length: 8 hrs and 42 mins
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The Third Door takes listeners on an unprecedented adventure—from hacking Warren Buffett’s shareholders meeting to chasing Larry King through a grocery store to celebrating in a nightclub with Lady Gaga—as Alex Banayan travels from icon to icon, decoding their success. After remarkable one-on-one interviews with Bill Gates, Maya Angelou, Steve Wozniak, Jane Goodall, Larry King, Jessica Alba, Pitbull, Tim Ferriss, Quincy Jones, and many more, Alex discovered the one key they have in common: they all took the Third Door.
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This story saved my future...
- By Laurimar Melendez on 07-08-18
By: Alex Banayan
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I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn’t)
- Telling the Truth about Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power
- By: Brené Brown
- Narrated by: Lauren Fortgang
- Length: 10 hrs and 44 mins
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Based on seven years of ground-breaking research and hundreds of interviews, I Thought It Was Just Me shines a long-overdue light on an important truth: Our imperfections are what connect us to each other and to our humanity. Our vulnerabilities are not weaknesses; they are powerful reminders to keep our hearts and minds open to the reality that we're all in this together.
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I'm sure its great if you are a mother ....
- By Leslie A Hill on 08-09-11
By: Brené Brown
What listeners say about How to Be an Imperfectionist: The New Way to Self-Acceptance, Fearless Living, and Freedom from Perfectionism
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- MacDer
- 11-30-20
Just what I needed
This book was just what I needed during a time in my life where I'm feeling stuck and insecure. I never knew how much perfectionist tendencies limited my freedom, success and happiness. The content was laid out in a way that made sense and was useful and practical. I listened twice so that I could just digest the information the first time without feeling pressure to do the action steps all in one. I am now ready to take the necessary steps to make changes in my life. I know there is no one smoking gun but this really made me think of goals, progress, success and failure in a different light. The narration was also very good (one of the things that's hit or miss with audible). I have recommended this book to several people already.
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- Jp
- 01-25-17
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As someone who has only recently realized that perfectionism is causing a lot of issues in my life, this book has been very helpful in giving me some insight and understanding as well as concrete solutions to counteract this detrimental way of thinking.
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- Emily Honeycutt
- 04-21-16
One of the best self-help books I've ever read!
I'm a writer and this book actually gives me the tools to help me with my struggles with perfectionism, procrastination, rumination and fear. Rather than just motivation or positive thinking, this book provides dozens of easy, effective, real-world techniques such as beginning mini habits, setting timers and adjusting your standards. Taking action is actually the solution to rumination. I'll be listening to this one over and over again. I'll definitely get Stephen's other book, Mini-Habits, too. I also recommend Wayne Dyer's book, Excuses Begone! to anyone dealing with perfectionism. I've listened to it several times and while he doesn't offer the techniques that Stephen does, it is helpful in changing your mindset. Thanks so much, Stephen, for writing a life-changing book!
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- Deborah Miller
- 06-22-20
Coaching through insecurities
Content was not as concise as I would've liked, but fabulously successful nonetheless on altering my perspective on perfectionism. By listening to this audiobook, I became aware of the insecurities perfectionism can stem from. Thanks, Stephen Guise, for making imperfectionism attractive and achievable with your coaching.
Stephen Guise's stories referring to Mini Habits were one of the things I found most helpful.
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- Holly Timpson
- 09-07-22
My teenager loved it!
I listened to this book with my teenage son. Not only did l love it and find it useful and entertaining he did too! lt was interesting and gave great ideas and explanations. Things I long for my son to know. I am extremely grateful for the help this book gave to me and him!
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- Dan Kelly
- 05-14-16
Good, but not perfect. ;-)
It has some really good ideas, ones that I will work on. But, in trying to cover helpful tips fur all of the types of perfectionism, there were only a few concepts that were directly applicable to my situation.
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- Sarah DeBree
- 07-22-20
Good book
I like that this book applies to just about everyone. However, the the readers volume goes up and down as he reads and is very annoying.
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- Michael
- 07-28-18
Awesome book - must read/listen for those with perfectionist tendencies / problem
This book is really awesome - I learned a ton and started applying the principles immediately, which already helped (this is a must if you are an entrepreneur with perfectionist tendencies). The book is well organized and has clear implementation / application steps and guide - already recommended to a ton of friends with the problem.
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- Olivia
- 06-30-18
Impactful
This book actually helped me. If it sounds like I’m surprised, I am. I was hoping the book might have some helpful information but it did more than that. It gave me a different way to think about things, which is hard to do considering I am very set in my ways. Instead of my all or nothing thinking from before, I celebrate progress no matter the size. And that in turn prevents me from feeling bad about myself like I had before and then ruminating for days on end on how I messed something up. By preventing this cycle from even beginning, I feel a sense of freedom from a destructive part of myself that was only hurting my morale. This book has done the unexpected - it made an impact.
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- Sophy
- 05-16-20
Concrete advice!
This book had specific and concrete actions that helped me immediately so its been the most helpful book Ive read on perfectionism!
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