
When Perfect Isn't Good Enough (Second Edition)
Strategies for Coping with Perfectionism
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Mike Chamberlain
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It's only natural to want to avoid making mistakes, but imperfection is a part of being human. And while perfectionists are often praised for their abilities, being constantly anxious about details can hold you back and keep you from reaching your full potential.
In this fully revised and updated second edition of When Perfect Isn't Good Enough, you'll discover the root cause of your perfectionism, explore the impact of perfectionism on your life, and find new, proven-effective coping skills to help you overcome your anxiety about making mistakes. This guide also includes tips for dealing with other perfectionists and discussions about how perfectionism is linked to worry, depression, anger, social anxiety, and body image. As you complete the exercises in this book, you'll find it easier and easier to keep worries at bay and enjoy life - imperfections and all.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
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The Anxious Perfectionist
- How to Manage Perfectionism-Driven Anxiety Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- By: Clarissa W. Ong PhD, Michael P. Twohig PhD, Randy O. Frost PhD - foreword
- Narrated by: Erin deWard
- Length: 5 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
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The Anxious Perfectionist shines a much-needed light on the hidden costs of "being the best," and offers essential skills based in acceptance and commitment therapy to help you cope with the anxiety that is driven by your perfectionism. You'll learn how your "need to be perfect" can actually hinder your productivity and keep you from reaching your goals. You'll also learn skills to help you gain distance from negative self-talk, let go of unhelpful and self-limiting labels, and give yourself permission to make mistakes while still honoring your aspirations.
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Game Changer
- By Christina on 12-01-22
By: Clarissa W. Ong PhD, and others
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Healing Your Emotional Self
- A Powerful Program to Help You Raise Your Self-Esteem, Quiet Your Inner Critic, and Overcome Your Shame
- By: Beverly Engel
- Narrated by: Vanessa Hart
- Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
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Parents act as a mirror to show a child who she or he is. Throughout childhood there will be other mirrors, but children inevitably return to the reflection in that original mirror in order to determine their goodness, importance, and self-worth. In Healing Your Emotional Self, Beverly Engle offers her highly effective Mirror Therapy program to help you reject the distorted images your parents either intentionally or unintentionally projected onto you.
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Narrator was difficult to listen to
- By celebchatter on 05-11-23
By: Beverly Engel
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Get Out of Your Mind & Into Your Life
- The New Acceptance & Commitment Therapy
- By: Spencer Smith, Steven C. Hayes
- Narrated by: Paul Boehmer
- Length: 10 hrs and 20 mins
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Get Out of Your Mind & Into Your Life introduces Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a new approach to psychotherapy that reevaluates our most basic assumptions about mental health, and details how ACT can help you to embrace life and everything it has to offer.
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Mindfulness Psychology - But Get The Book
- By Elim.Garak on 03-29-17
By: Spencer Smith, and others
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The Mindfulness Workbook for OCD, Second Edition
- A Guide to Overcoming Obsessions and Compulsions Using Mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
- By: Jon Hershfield MFT, Tom Corboy MFT, James Claiborn PhD ABPP - foreword
- Narrated by: Daniel Henning
- Length: 7 hrs and 29 mins
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If you have obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), you might have an irrational fear of being contaminated by germs, or obsessively double-check things. You may even feel like a prisoner, trapped with your intrusive thoughts. And while OCD can have a devastating impact on your life, getting real help can be a challenge. Combining mindfulness practices with cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), The Mindfulness Workbook for OCD offers practical and accessible tools for managing the unwanted thoughts and compulsive urges that are associated with OCD.
By: Jon Hershfield MFT, and others
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The Gifts of Imperfection, 10th Anniversary Edition
- Features a New Foreword
- By: Brené Brown
- Narrated by: Brené Brown
- Length: 4 hrs and 31 mins
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For more than a decade, Brené Brown has found a special place in our hearts as a gifted mapmaker and a fellow traveler. She is both a social scientist and a kitchen table friend whom you can always count on to tell the truth, make you laugh, and, on occasion, cry with you. And what's now become a movement all started with The Gifts of Imperfection, which has sold more than two million copies in 35 different languages across the globe.
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Anecdotal drivel
- By Megan M. Jeffries on 11-14-20
By: Brené Brown
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The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control
- A Path to Peace and Power
- By: Katherine Morgan Schafler
- Narrated by: Katherine Morgan Schafler
- Length: 10 hrs and 29 mins
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We’ve been looking at perfectionism all wrong. As psychotherapist and former on-site therapist at Google Katherine Morgan Schafler argues in The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control, you don’t have to stop being a perfectionist to be healthy. For women who are sick of being given the generic advice to “find balance,” a new approach has arrived.
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The Life Changing Book I didn’t know I needed
- By S. RINCON on 04-23-23
What listeners say about When Perfect Isn't Good Enough (Second Edition)
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- Daniella
- 05-04-23
Eye opening & encouraging.. with clear, helpful advice
Damn, this one had my jaw dropped multiple times, many head nods in agreement & epiphany moments. I suppose I hadn’t considered myself a perfectionist until pretty recently, but after listening to this book, I realized just how much these tendencies have actually gotten in my way for years.
The layout of the book is perfect; a breeze to digest and straight to the point with easily actionable steps to follow. I appreciate the authors’ ability to thoroughly explain things without being unnecessarily repetitive, and I very much enjoyed the narrator’s voice. He comes across in a helpful, guiding tone, and not in a lecturing type of way.
The included PDF with samples and blank pages for personal journaling & the recommended exercises are helpful! I listened once through, making some notes along the way, now I’m ready to listen for a second time and add in the journaling component. I also want my boyfriend to listen with me this time because I feel like this book explains SO much about why I do some of the (sometimes annoying to him) things that I do.
After just listening to this audio, I already feel empowered & that I understand myself on a different level.
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- Phillip
- 12-13-24
Great help
Well researched, thorough, and practical. However, some ideas and causation was unsatisfactory. It also seemed that the author at times wrote so simply that the reader may feel stupid.
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