Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children with your host Laine Lawson Craft and special guest Kathy Cunningham. Join us as we dive into setting healthy boundaries with adult children, overcoming guilt and fear, and using faith as a roadmap to lasting peace in your home.

• LaneLawsonCraft.com – Free resources, book: Warfare: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child (first 10 days free)
• Sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com
• Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net
• Kathy Cunningham on Instagram –
• Parents of Addicted Loved Ones (PAL group): palgroup.org

is a seasoned Christian coach, ministry leader, and boundary-setting expert with over 30 years of experience helping parents navigate tough relationships with their adult children. Drawing from her personal journey and years of professional coaching, Kathy specializes in equipping families with biblical, practical tools for healthier, more respectful connections. She leads support groups for parents of addicted loved ones and recently launched an online community for parents seeking guidance and mutual support. Kathy’s mission is to empower parents to stand in love, foster independence in their children, and restore hope in families by setting boundaries grounded in faith and compassion.

• Boundaries protect relationships, not damage them—why clarity and love go hand-in-hand
• Common boundary issues: finances, living arrangements, and emotional involvement
• How healthy boundaries foster respect, responsibility, and growth in adult children
• Steps to set and communicate boundaries effectively, especially after years of loose limits
• Managing parental guilt, fear of conflict, and emotional pushback when boundaries are enforced
• Handling manipulative behaviors and staying consistent to build trust
• Boundaries as a foundation for healing in addiction and recovery
• Common mistakes: moving too fast, using boundaries to control, or being inconsistent
• The importance of community and support for parents

Setting boundaries is not a sign of rejection but an act of profound love that brings healing and hope to families. By embracing faith-filled courage and consistent action, you can foster respect, clarity, and lasting independence in your adult child—while finding peace in your own heart. Remember, you’re not alone on this journey.

Struggling to step back as your child steps into independence? This powerful episode unpacks the grief no one talks about, the fear of losing connection, and how to release control while staying rooted in love, trust, and God’s purpose for both of you.

Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this empowering episode, host Laine Lawson Craft is joined by Christian coach and ministry leader Kathy Cunningham to tackle the silent struggle of mom guilt. Whether you’re a working mom or stay-at-home, Kathy helps define mom guilt, reveals how social media and unrealistic expectations contribute, and shares practical faith-based strategies to reclaim peace and confidence in your parenting.

• Laine Lawson Craft’s Website & Free Resources:lanelawsoncraft.com
  • Download the first 10 days of Laine’s book Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child for free
• Kathy Cunningham’s Membership Community: Support for parents of adult children (details via Kathy’s coaching platforms)
• Local Church Resources: Community and support groups for moms in various seasons of parenting

Kathy Cunningham is a seasoned Christian coach, ministry leader, and family restoration expert with over 30 years of experience. She specializes in helping parents—especially mothers—navigate the complex emotional challenges of parenting teens and adult children. Kathy facilitates group workshops, provides personalized coaching, and runs a thriving membership community for parents of adults. Known for her deep faith, practical wisdom, and compassionate approach, Kathy equips families to find healing, restore hope, and step boldly into God’s purpose for their lives.

Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children.

On this week’s episode, “Breaking Free from the Shame That Whispers 'You Failed,'” hosted by Laine Lawson Craft. In this powerful and uplifting episode, Laine is joined by special guest Jill Savage, bestselling author and expert in overcoming perfectionism, who shares heartfelt wisdom on moving past parenting shame and embracing grace.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

• Jill Savage’s “25 Scriptures for When Life is Hard”: jillsavage.org/truth
• Jill’s Books: No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Kids, No More Perfect Marriages, Empty Nest, Full Life
• Laine’s website and free resources: lainelawsoncraft.com (First 10 days of her book Warfare Parenting free)
• Sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com
• Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net

About Jill Savage
Jill Savage is an accomplished author, sought-after speaker, and founder of Hearts at Home, an organization providing encouragement to moms worldwide. With a authentic, relatable style, Jill’s books—including No More Perfect Moms and Empty Nest, Full Life—draw from her own experiences and struggles, helping parents release unrealistic expectations and combat the “perfection infection.” Jill is passionate about guiding families to embrace authenticity, offer themselves grace, and break free from guilt and comparison, especially in challenging parenting seasons.

Key Talking Points:

• Understanding the “perfection infection”—unrealistic expectations and comparisons on social media (2:00 – 4:30)
• Steps to kick perfectionism and comparison: honest conversations, shifting mindset, self-grace, and accepting God’s forgiveness (4:30 – 8:30)
• Jill’s viral story about sharing real-life messiness (7:42 – 9:18)
• Warning signs when shame or guilt becomes toxic, and when to seek help (10:11 – 11:47)
• Reclaiming your identity in Christ—not in your child’s choices or behaviors (12:13 – 14:33)
• Reminders that no family, house, or child is perfect—even Billy Graham’s (14:33 – 15:17)

Time Stamps:

• 00:00 — Introduction and social media comparisons
• 01:51 — Jill explains “perfection infection”
• 04:13 — Strategies to combat comparison and perfectionism
• 05:17 — Grace for past parenting choices and accepting growth
• 07:08 — Tools for breaking the comparison trap
• 08:29 — Jill’s viral ‘real life’ social media post
• 10:11 — Warning signs when guilt turns toxic
• 12:13 — Restoring identity in God, not in parenting outcomes
• 14:33 — No perfect families: even well-known faith leaders’ struggles
• 15:34 — Resources and final encouragement

Conclusion:
Shame and guilt often whisper lies to struggling parents, but as Jill Savage and Laine Lawson Craft remind us, your child’s choices do not define your worth. By breaking free from unhealthy comparisons, embracing honest conversation, and finding your identity in faith, you can reclaim peace and joy in your parenting journey. Remember, you are not alone—God specializes in redemption stories, and your family’s story is still being written. Be encouraged, equip yourself with truth, and never lose hope.

Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this heartfelt episode, Laine is joined by best-selling author and speaker Jill Savage to offer hope and practical strategies for parents navigating the heartbreak of having a prodigal child. Together, they share raw stories, biblical wisdom, and survival tools to help you rise above fear, manage anxiety, and reclaim hope—even on the darkest nights.

Jill Savage:
Jill Savage is an author and speaker passionate about encouraging families through life’s most challenging seasons. As the author and coauthor of 14 books, Jill draws from personal experience and years of ministry to equip parents with faith-based resources and practical advice for navigating parenting struggles and personal crises.

Key Talking Points:

• The emotional toll of “2AM calls” and fearing for your prodigal child’s safety
• Importance of prayer and breath work in the midst of crisis
• What it means to “lovingly detach” from your adult child’s problems
• Practical strategies for managing anxiety and preventing burnout
• Using scripture and faith to ground yourself in hope
• Prioritizing self-care without guilt
• Building a supportive network and not facing struggles alone

Detailed Timestamps:

• 00:00:00 – Introduction: The pain of late-night crisis calls
• 00:04:04 – “You are not alone”—knowing others share your experience
• 00:06:44 – The power of breath work for calming the body
• 00:08:43 – How to lovingly detach from your child’s problems
• 00:11:40 – Avoiding enabling and practicing healthy boundaries
• 00:12:05 – Using scripture for strength and calm during panic
• 00:13:46 – The importance of self-care for parents in crisis
• 00:16:40 – Building a 24/7 support system
• 00:17:19 – Final thoughts: Permission to care for yourself and seek support

Conclusion:
This episode shines a compassionate light on the silent battles parents face when walking alongside a struggling child. Laine Lawson Craft and Jill Savage provide not only validation for the pain and panic many feel, but also equipping listeners with actionable faith-driven strategies and encouragement. From practical crisis protocols to the essential practice of self-care, their conversation is a lifeline for parents who feel isolated or overwhelmed. Remember: you are not alone, and caring for your own well-being is essential, not selfish. Take one small step today to build your support system and reclaim hope—you and your family are worth it.

Welcome to another powerful episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children, hosted by Laine Lawson Craft. In this episode, Laine welcomes best-selling author and ministry leader Jill Savage for a heartfelt conversation on breaking generational patterns, overcoming spiritual strongholds, and reclaiming hope in your family's story. Together, they share faith-driven strategies and practical tools for parents battling with prodigal children, family crisis, addiction, and more, offering biblical wisdom and real-life experiences to empower listeners on their parenting journey.

HELPFUL LINKS:

• Laine Lawson Craft’s book and resources: LaineLawsonCraft.com (first 10 days of her new book "Warfare Parenting" free)
• FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at LaineLawsonCraft.com
• Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com
• Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net
• Jill Savage’s books & resources: Jill Savage’s Website

Jill Savage
Jill Savage is a nationally recognized author, speaker, and ministry leader dedicated to encouraging families. As the author and co-author of 14 books—including "No More Perfect Kids," "Got Teens?," and "Empty Nest, Full Life"—Jill candidly shares her experiences of breaking unhealthy generational patterns and navigating parenting challenges with faith and authenticity. She is passionate about practical, grace-filled resources for moms, especially those parenting teens, young adults, or facing empty nests. Jill and her husband, Mark, also host marriage intensives, equipping couples to restore hope and connection in their families.

Key Talking Points

• Recognizing and interrupting destructive generational cycles in families
• Distinguishing between correction and connection in parenting
• Breaking spiritual strongholds such as addiction, depression, and divorce through faith
• Family tree mapping to understand inherited patterns and triggers
• Leveraging prayer (including specific strategies like the "hedge of thorns")
• Simple, realistic practices for daily spiritual warfare and transformation
• The importance of new rhythms, family values, and goal setting for change
• Fostering hope for change at any stage of parenting or family life

Time Stamps

• 00:00:00 – Introduction by Laine Lawson Craft
• 00:01:13 – Jill Savage’s background and resources
• 00:03:32 – Personal stories on generational patterns
• 00:05:49 – Shifting from correction to connection in parenting
• 00:06:44 – Addressing family history of addiction and depression
• 00:10:14 – Family tree mapping and recognizing inherited patterns
• 00:13:06 – Understanding and working through trigger points
• 00:14:45 – Role of prayer and specific strategies for spiritual warfare
• 00:17:53 – Implementing new values, rhythms, and daily habits
• 00:18:48 – Setting goals and developing plans for breakthrough
• 00:19:51 – Final thoughts and encouragement

Conclusion
This episode with Laine Lawson Craft and Jill Savage is a beacon of hope for any parent struggling with generational baggage or prodigal children. Their candid discussion offers practical tools, faith-based strategies, and personal testimonies that illustrate it's never too late to change your family’s legacy. From prayer techniques to creating new family rhythms, the episode empowers listeners to become “chain breakers” for their children and future generations. Whether you’re just recognizing harmful patterns or are deep in the process of restoration, this conversation reassures you that freedom and healing are possible through intentional steps and God’s grace.

Episode Introduction

Welcome to a very special episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children, hosted by Laine Lawson Craft. In this heartfelt Mother’s Day message, Laine offers faith-driven encouragement to mothers who are facing heavy seasons—whether you're dealing with a prodigal child, family crisis, or struggling to hold onto hope. This episode is dedicated to warrior moms everywhere, reminding you that you're not alone and that God is working, even in the dark.

HELPFUL LINKS:

FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at LaineLawsonCraft.com

Also, sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com

Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net

Heartfelt Mother’s Day Message This Mother’s Day, know that your tears and prayers are seen, your battles are recognized, and your unwavering love matters. Even if today feels heavy instead of happy, you are not a failure—you are a fighter. Hope blooms in the hardest moments, and you are a miracle in progress. You are deeply loved and never alone.

Key Talking Points

• You are not a failure—you are a fighter, and your heartbreak is evidence that you’re still fighting and believing (00:00:47–00:02:35)
• The prayers you pray—no matter how silent God seems—are powerful and working behind the scenes (00:03:44–00:05:53)
• God specializes in impossible turnarounds; no one is beyond His reach, and your situation is not too broken (00:05:53–00:07:53)
• Celebrate by faith, even in pain—gratitude and faith amidst suffering open the door for hope and miracles (00:07:53–00:09:19)
• A closing prayer and blessing over all mothers enduring heavy seasons, with a reminder to parent by faith, not by sight (00:09:19–00:11:01)

Detailed Time Stamps

• 00:00:01 – Introduction and context for struggling parents
• 00:00:47 – Acknowledgment of “Heavy Mother’s Day” feelings and Laine’s personal story
• 00:02:11 – Point 1: You are not a failure, you are a fighter (Isaiah 40:29)
• 00:03:44 – Point 2: The power of unseen prayers (1 John 5:14-15)
• 00:05:10 – Personal testimony of her son’s turnaround
• 00:05:53 – Point 3: God’s power for impossible turnarounds (Luke 1:37)
• 00:07:53 – Point 4: Celebrate by faith and gratitude (Psalm 118:24)
• 00:09:19 – Prayer for mothers and closing encouragement
• 00:10:30 – Final blessings and invitation to connect

Conclusion This episode is a compassionate companion for any mother whose heart is heavy on Mother’s Day. Laine Lawson Craft brings hope, scripture, and stories to remind you that breakthrough is possible, you are not alone, and your love is paving the way for miracles.