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Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children

Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children

By: Laine Lawson Craft
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Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children Laine Lawson Craft brings hard-earned wisdom to the world of warfare parenting. As a mother who experienced the near-dissolution of her marriage and the heart-wrenching struggles with prodigal children, Laine intimately understands the challenges many parents face with teens and adult children. Through her personal journey of marriage restoration and family healing, Laine discovered profound strength and purpose. Today, she is a beacon of hope for parents navigating their turbulent waters, especially those grappling with prodigal children. Her approach combines compassion with practical, faith-based strategies for families in crisis. Laine is a best-selling author, and her newest book, “The Parent's Battle Plan,” won the 2023 Nonfiction Book of the Year award. As an accomplished media host, she extends her message of hope and transformation to a broader audience, offering guidance to parents facing seemingly insurmountable odds with their teens and adult children. Drawing from her experiences in warfare parenting and spiritual insights, Laine equips parents with the tools they need to fight for their children's futures. She believes in the power of unwavering faith and strategic action to overcome even the most daunting family challenges, from troubled marriages to wayward children. What to Expect Raw Reality, Real Solutions: Dive deep into parental anguish with practical strategies for fighting back and reclaiming your family's peace. Spiritual Warfare Unveiled: Discover the battle for your child's soul and learn to wield the weapons of faith effectively. Wisdom from the Frontlines: Gain insights from experts and hear inspiring testimonies from parents who've overcome similar struggles. A Band of Warriors: Join a supportive community of parents fighting the good fight alongside you. Each series tackles the unique challenges facing today's young adults and adult children head-on. We'll navigate the treacherous waters of social media pressure, addictive behaviors, and a rapidly changing cultural landscape. Empower yourself to guide your child towards truth, freedom, and purpose in an increasingly complex world. The enemy doesn't fight fair, but neither do we. Join Laine Lawson Craft on the Warfare Parenting Podcast and unlock the spiritual arsenal you need to reclaim your child's destiny. It's time to turn the tide of battle—your family's future hangs in the balance.2024 Christianity Ministry & Evangelism Parenting & Families Relationships Spirituality
Episodes
  • Boundaries That Heal: How to Love Your Adult Child Without Losing Yourself
    Jun 27 2025

    Feel like you’re walking on eggshells or being taken for granted? This episode reveals why setting boundaries isn’t rejection—it’s redemption. Learn how to set limits with love, stop enabling dysfunction, and build a stronger, more respectful relationship with your adult child through faith-filled courage.

    Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children with your host Laine Lawson Craft and special guest Kathy Cunningham. Join us as we dive into setting healthy boundaries with adult children, overcoming guilt and fear, and using faith as a roadmap to lasting peace in your home.

    Resources & Links Mentioned

    • LaneLawsonCraft.com – Free resources, book: Warfare: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child (first 10 days free)
    • Sign up for Laine’s Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com
    • Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net
    • Kathy Cunningham on Instagram
    • Parents of Addicted Loved Ones (PAL group): palgroup.org

    Kathy Cunningham

    is a seasoned Christian coach, ministry leader, and boundary-setting expert with over 30 years of experience helping parents navigate tough relationships with their adult children. Drawing from her personal journey and years of professional coaching, Kathy specializes in equipping families with biblical, practical tools for healthier, more respectful connections. She leads support groups for parents of addicted loved ones and recently launched an online community for parents seeking guidance and mutual support. Kathy’s mission is to empower parents to stand in love, foster independence in their children, and restore hope in families by setting boundaries grounded in faith and compassion.

    Key Talking Points

    • Boundaries protect relationships, not damage them—why clarity and love go hand-in-hand
    • Common boundary issues: finances, living arrangements, and emotional involvement
    • How healthy boundaries foster respect, responsibility, and growth in adult children
    • Steps to set and communicate boundaries effectively, especially after years of loose limits
    • Managing parental guilt, fear of conflict, and emotional pushback when boundaries are enforced
    • Handling manipulative behaviors and staying consistent to build trust
    • Boundaries as a foundation for healing in addiction and recovery
    • Common mistakes: moving too fast, using boundaries to control, or being inconsistent
    • The importance of community and support for parents

    Timestamps

    00:00 - Introduction: Why Boundaries Matter 2:19 - Why Parents Must Set Boundaries With Adult Children 3:38 - How Boundaries Build Mutual Respect 4:30 - First Steps to Setting Healthy Boundaries 5:30 - Communicating Boundaries Effectively 6:44 - Examples: Financial, Living, and Emotional Boundaries 8:48 - Navigating Negative Emotions: Guilt & Fear 11:22 - Responding to Pushback & Manipulation 13:12 - The Power of Consistency 14:51 - Tracking Progress & Adjusting Boundaries 16:28 - Boundaries Build Independence & Growth 17:31 - Boundaries in Addiction & Recovery 20:05 - The “Guardrail” Analogy 20:46 - Misconceptions About Boundaries 23:12 - Common Mistakes to Avoid 24:37 - Healthy Parents Raise Independent Adults 25:37 - Kathy’s Community and Support Resources 27:44 - The Importance of Support and Community 28:24 - Conclusion: Faith, Boundaries & Hope 29:02 - Where to Find Kathy Cunningham & Free Resources

    Conclusion

    Setting boundaries is not a sign of rejection but an act of profound love that brings healing and hope to families. By embracing faith-filled courage and consistent action, you can foster respect, clarity, and lasting independence in your adult child—while finding peace in your own heart. Remember, you’re not alone on this journey.

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    30 mins
  • Letting Go Without Losing Them: The Faith-Filled Path to Releasing Your Adult Child
    Jun 22 2025

    Struggling to step back as your child steps into independence? This powerful episode unpacks the grief no one talks about, the fear of losing connection, and how to release control while staying rooted in love, trust, and God’s purpose for both of you.

    Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this empowering episode, host Laine Lawson Craft is joined by Christian coach and ministry leader Kathy Cunningham to tackle the silent struggle of mom guilt. Whether you’re a working mom or stay-at-home, Kathy helps define mom guilt, reveals how social media and unrealistic expectations contribute, and shares practical faith-based strategies to reclaim peace and confidence in your parenting.

    Resources & Links Mentioned

    • Laine Lawson Craft’s Website & Free Resources:lanelawsoncraft.com
      • Download the first 10 days of Laine’s book Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child for free
    • Kathy Cunningham’s Membership Community: Support for parents of adult children (details via Kathy’s coaching platforms)
    • Local Church Resources: Community and support groups for moms in various seasons of parenting

    About Kathy Cunningham (Bio)

    Kathy Cunningham is a seasoned Christian coach, ministry leader, and family restoration expert with over 30 years of experience. She specializes in helping parents—especially mothers—navigate the complex emotional challenges of parenting teens and adult children. Kathy facilitates group workshops, provides personalized coaching, and runs a thriving membership community for parents of adults. Known for her deep faith, practical wisdom, and compassionate approach, Kathy equips families to find healing, restore hope, and step boldly into God’s purpose for their lives.

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    24 mins
  • Breaking Free from Mom Guilt: How to Parent with Peace, Not Pressure
    Jun 13 2025
    Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this empowering episode, host Laine Lawson Craft is joined by Christian coach and ministry leader Kathy Cunningham to tackle the silent struggle of mom guilt. Whether you’re a working mom or stay-at-home, Kathy helps define mom guilt, reveals how social media and unrealistic expectations contribute, and shares practical faith-based strategies to reclaim peace and confidence in your parenting. Resources & Links Mentioned Laine Lawson Craft’s Website & Free Resources:lanelawsoncraft.com Download the first 10 days of Laine’s book Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child for free Kathy Cunningham’s Membership Community: Support for parents of adult children (details via Kathy’s coaching platforms) Local Church Resources: Community and support groups for moms in various seasons of parenting About Kathy Cunningham (Bio) Kathy Cunningham is a seasoned Christian coach, ministry leader, and family restoration expert with over 30 years of experience. She specializes in helping parents—especially mothers—navigate the complex emotional challenges of parenting teens and adult children. Kathy facilitates group workshops, provides personalized coaching, and runs a thriving membership community for parents of adults. Known for her deep faith, practical wisdom, and compassionate approach, Kathy equips families to find healing, restore hope, and step boldly into God’s purpose for their lives. Key Talking Points What is mom guilt? Why feelings of inadequacy and comparison plague all moms The harmful role of social media and unrealistic standards Societal pressures: “Perfect mom” myths vs. God’s grace-filled reality How guilt manifests for both working and stay-at-home moms The impact of chronic mom guilt on mental health and child development Effective strategies: Identifying and reframing guilt with scripture Practicing self-care without guilt Saying “no” and setting boundaries Seeking community and biblical truth Replacing criticism with compassion The difference between conviction from God and guilt from the enemy Importance of a supportive faith-based community Detailed Timestamps 00:00:01 — Introduction & defining mom guilt 00:02:37 — Kathy’s definition and real-life manifestations 00:04:14 — Social media’s impact and societal expectations 00:06:13 — Protecting mental health in a digital age 00:07:03 — Common triggers for mom guilt 00:08:25 — Working vs. stay-at-home moms: similarities and differences 00:09:39 — Health consequences of chronic mom guilt 00:10:44 — How mom guilt affects kids and family dynamics 00:11:43 — Healing strategies: recognition, community, scripture 00:13:02 — Reframing with truth, practical exercises 00:14:35 — How to manage pressure to “do it all” 00:16:04 — The power of saying “no” 00:17:01 — Addressing misconceptions about mom guilt 00:18:17 — Kathy’s support community for parents of adult children 00:19:03 — Conclusion & encouragement for moms Conclusion Mom guilt isn't from God—it's a burden created by impossible worldly standards. Kathy and Laine remind us healing begins when we replace self-criticism with self-compassion, grounded in God’s truth and grace. Remember, taking care of yourself is vital, you’re not alone, and you’re doing better than you think. Join a community, seek God’s wisdom, and parent with peace, not pressure.
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    22 mins
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Insightful biblical advice for parents of grown children in all situations. Very practical and encouraging.

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