
The Only Negotiating Guide You'll Ever Need, Revised and Updated
101 Ways to Win Every Time in Any Situation
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Peter B. Stark
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Jane Flaherty
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Discover the critical elements you need for a successful negotiation and 101 tactics to use in any high stakes business deal, when asking your boss for a raise, or even when asking your significant other to take out the garbage.
In this book, you'll discover your negotiating behavioral style through self-assessment questionnaires, gain the tools needed to deal with negotiation sharks (or bullies), learn tips for recognizing and interpreting your negotiating counterpart's body language to create beneficial outcomes, and see examples on how to counter unethical and unprofessional tactics effectively — and much more.
Using their 30 years of experience as business professionals, lead negotiators, consumers, and parents, Peter Stark and Jane Flaherty provide you with the tools you need to become a successful negotiator who builds win-win relationships.
©2017 Peter B. Stark and Jane Flaherty (P)2017 Random House AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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- Dev Nandlal
- 08-01-18
Wow so many ways
this book provides effective counters to everyday negotiations in life and business. this is a must read and review over again to get refreshed. it really makes you think about certain situations.
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- Vincent N.
- 07-22-17
Well written and excellent presentation
A great read and very helpful for negotiating in real life and work life. I almost feel sorry for the car dealer I'm going to negotiate with next month... Almost.
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A Smart, Easy to Digest, Business Book
If you could sum up The Only Negotiating Guide You'll Ever Need, Revised and Updated in three words, what would they be?
This "business" book lives up to the promise in the title. I appreciate the 20 bonus tactics as well as the general negotiating principals and guidelines. Peter and Jane are easy to listen too, and I had it at 1.25 speed and both are clear and compelling. Negotiating is a crucial skill in both personal and business interactions, and this book is a must listen if you have to deal with people in your daily life.
What other book might you compare The Only Negotiating Guide You'll Ever Need, Revised and Updated to and why?
I would say to also buy "Why Leaders Fail" if you are a business leader and want another part of the skill set that Peter offers.
What does Peter B. Stark and Jane Flaherty bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?
I don't have time (or much patience) to read business books, so I listen. This book is a good listen.
Any additional comments?
This book would be great to use in High School or College business classes.
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- GUZZI
- 05-03-18
Awesome and practical book
Great book for everyone.
Simple to understand and very practical
A must read and a great keeper
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- A. Gracia
- 06-11-24
This is childsplay compared to “Never Split The Difference”
After listening to “Never Split The Difference” by Chris Voss the material in this book feels like something you offer a Kindergartener. Perhaps if i had never heard the term “Negotiation” this book would be useful
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- Johanjohanhaha
- 02-21-18
list or outline of for instances
Would you try another book from Peter B. Stark and Jane Flaherty and/or Peter B. Stark and Jane Flaherty ?
no, it seems they have an idea of what they are doing but cannot effectively convey it
You didn’t love this book... but did it have any redeeming qualities?
all information is useful some way some how, but this information that I paid for is not worth what I paid.
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It seems to be a running reference list of things to say and instances, but there is no real instruction or theory to follow, there is no technique to practice and mold only repeated instances to back the claim that a win win outcome is best. there are other books mentioned in this one that I have read, and honestly the avocation of other books and services in a book that seem to be purposely placed is nauseating. I'm reading a book to learn something, not to be subjected to advertisements for the authors company (that I would have little confidence in after reading this). The swinging back and forth between the authors voices male and female gets confusing and lacks congruence, maybe if they did a chapter each is would be better. also I didn't appreciate the 5 minute dissertation on Obama's deal with Cuba and how the authors both are lovingly behind it, a mere mention of it like they did with Regan would have been fine. instead it points to a political view showcase that you may or may not agree to in the beginning of a book that is intended to be educational. that was just weird.
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