
The Defining Decade
Why Your Twenties Matter - and How to Make the Most of Them Now
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $19.48
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
Meg Jay
-
By:
-
Meg Jay
About this listen
New York Times best-selling psychologist Dr. Meg Jay uses real stories from real lives to provide smart, compassionate, and constructive advice about the crucial (and difficult) years we cannot afford to miss.
Our "30-is-the-new-20" culture tells us the 20-something years don't matter. Some say they are a second adolescence. Others call them an emerging adulthood. Dr. Meg Jay, a clinical psychologist, argues that 20-somethings have been caught in a swirl of hype and misinformation, much of which has trivialized what is actually the most defining decade of adulthood.
Drawing from almost two decades of work with hundreds of clients and students, The Defining Decade weaves the latest science of the 20-something years with the behind-closed-doors stories from 20-somethings, themselves. The result is a provocative listen that provides the tools necessary to make the most of your 20s, and shows us how work, relationships, personality, social networks, identity, and even the brain can change more during this decade than at any other time in adulthood - if we use the time wisely.
The Defining Decade is a smart, compassionate and constructive book about the years we cannot afford to miss.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2012 Meg Jay (P)2021 Hachette AudioListeners also enjoyed...
-
Supernormal
- The Untold Story of Adversity and Resilience
- By: Meg Jay
- Narrated by: Meg Jay
- Length: 10 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Clinical psychologist and author of The Defining Decade, Meg Jay takes us into the world of the supernormal: those who soar to unexpected heights after childhood adversity. Drawing on nearly two decades of work with clients and students, Jay tells the tale of ordinary people made extraordinary by these all-too-common experiences, everyday superheroes who have made lives out of dodging bullets and leaping over obstacles, even as they hide in plain sight as doctors, artists, entrepreneurs, lawyers, parents, activists, teachers, and students.
-
-
too triggering - such a soul-torturing book
- By Yigosh on 01-03-18
By: Meg Jay
-
Atomic Habits
- An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
- By: James Clear
- Narrated by: James Clear
- Length: 5 hrs and 35 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
No matter your goals, Atomic Habits offers a proven framework for improving - every day. James Clear, one of the world's leading experts on habit formation, reveals practical strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones, and master the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results. If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change.
-
-
Author went overboard hawking his site
- By CHughes on 06-25-19
By: James Clear
-
Everything I Know About Love
- A Memoir
- By: Dolly Alderton
- Narrated by: Dolly Alderton
- Length: 8 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The wildly funny, occasionally heart-breaking internationally best-selling memoir about growing up, growing older, and learning to navigate friendships, jobs, loss, and love along the ride. When it comes to the trials and triumphs of becoming an adult, journalist and former Sunday Times columnist Dolly Alderton has seen and tried it all.
-
-
Loved it
- By Jessica on 04-02-20
By: Dolly Alderton
-
How to Not Die Alone
- The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love
- By: Logan Ury
- Narrated by: Logan Ury
- Length: 8 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives - they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.
-
-
Not a good buy
- By Brandon Prescott on 02-10-21
By: Logan Ury
-
The Four Agreements
- By: don Miguel Ruiz
- Narrated by: Peter Coyote
- Length: 2 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In The Four Agreements, don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, the The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.
-
-
Incredible!!!
- By R. Baker on 05-25-05
By: don Miguel Ruiz
-
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
- A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
- By: Mark Manson
- Narrated by: Roger Wayne
- Length: 5 hrs and 17 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For decades we've been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F*ck positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let's be honest, shit is f*cked, and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn't sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is - a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is his antidote to the coddling, let's-all-feel-good mind-set that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.
-
-
A book for 20-somethings, but not me
- By Bonny on 09-22-16
By: Mark Manson
-
Supernormal
- The Untold Story of Adversity and Resilience
- By: Meg Jay
- Narrated by: Meg Jay
- Length: 10 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Clinical psychologist and author of The Defining Decade, Meg Jay takes us into the world of the supernormal: those who soar to unexpected heights after childhood adversity. Drawing on nearly two decades of work with clients and students, Jay tells the tale of ordinary people made extraordinary by these all-too-common experiences, everyday superheroes who have made lives out of dodging bullets and leaping over obstacles, even as they hide in plain sight as doctors, artists, entrepreneurs, lawyers, parents, activists, teachers, and students.
-
-
too triggering - such a soul-torturing book
- By Yigosh on 01-03-18
By: Meg Jay
-
Atomic Habits
- An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
- By: James Clear
- Narrated by: James Clear
- Length: 5 hrs and 35 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
No matter your goals, Atomic Habits offers a proven framework for improving - every day. James Clear, one of the world's leading experts on habit formation, reveals practical strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones, and master the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results. If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change.
-
-
Author went overboard hawking his site
- By CHughes on 06-25-19
By: James Clear
-
Everything I Know About Love
- A Memoir
- By: Dolly Alderton
- Narrated by: Dolly Alderton
- Length: 8 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The wildly funny, occasionally heart-breaking internationally best-selling memoir about growing up, growing older, and learning to navigate friendships, jobs, loss, and love along the ride. When it comes to the trials and triumphs of becoming an adult, journalist and former Sunday Times columnist Dolly Alderton has seen and tried it all.
-
-
Loved it
- By Jessica on 04-02-20
By: Dolly Alderton
-
How to Not Die Alone
- The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love
- By: Logan Ury
- Narrated by: Logan Ury
- Length: 8 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives - they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.
-
-
Not a good buy
- By Brandon Prescott on 02-10-21
By: Logan Ury
-
The Four Agreements
- By: don Miguel Ruiz
- Narrated by: Peter Coyote
- Length: 2 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In The Four Agreements, don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, the The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.
-
-
Incredible!!!
- By R. Baker on 05-25-05
By: don Miguel Ruiz
-
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
- A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life
- By: Mark Manson
- Narrated by: Roger Wayne
- Length: 5 hrs and 17 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For decades we've been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F*ck positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let's be honest, shit is f*cked, and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn't sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is - a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck is his antidote to the coddling, let's-all-feel-good mind-set that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.
-
-
A book for 20-somethings, but not me
- By Bonny on 09-22-16
By: Mark Manson
-
The Mountain Is You
- Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery
- By: Brianna Wiest
- Narrated by: Stacey Glemboski
- Length: 5 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Coexisting but conflicting needs create self-sabotaging behaviors. This is why we resist efforts to change, often until they feel completely futile. But by extracting crucial insight from our most damaging habits, building emotional intelligence by better understanding our brains and bodies, releasing past experiences at a cellular level, and learning to act as our highest potential future selves, we can step out of our own way and into our potential.
-
-
Underwelming
- By Erin on 04-20-22
By: Brianna Wiest
-
The Courage to Be Disliked
- How to Free Yourself, Change Your Life, and Achieve Real Happiness
- By: Ichiro Kishimi, Fumitake Koga
- Narrated by: Noah Galvin, Graeme Malcolm, January LaVoy
- Length: 6 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous best seller in Asia with more than 3.5 million copies sold, demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be the person you truly want to be. Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 20th-century psychology, The Courage to Be Disliked follows an illuminating conversation between a philosopher and a young man. The philosopher explains to his pupil how each of us is able to determine our own life, free from the shackles of past experiences, doubts, and the expectations of others.
-
-
Life Changing
- By Sil A. on 09-30-18
By: Ichiro Kishimi, and others
-
How to Fall in Love with Anyone
- Essays
- By: Mandy Len Catron
- Narrated by: Mandy Len Catron
- Length: 7 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What really makes love last? Does love ever work the way we say it does in movies and books and Facebook posts? Or does obsessing over those love stories hurt our real-life relationships? When her parents divorced after a 28 year marriage and her own 10-year relationship ended, those were the questions that Mandy Len Catron wanted to answer.
-
-
For the most part, frustrating and exhausting
- By Tracy64 on 06-28-17
By: Mandy Len Catron
-
Attached
- The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love
- By: Amir Levine, Rachel Heller
- Narrated by: Robert Petkoff
- Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.
-
-
Good book - just not a good one for Audible
- By Mark on 02-01-20
By: Amir Levine, and others
-
The Psychology of Money
- Timeless Lessons on Wealth, Greed, and Happiness
- By: Morgan Housel
- Narrated by: Chris Hill
- Length: 5 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Money - investing, personal finance, and business decisions - is typically taught as a math-based field, where data and formulas tell us exactly what to do. But in the real world people don’t make financial decisions on a spreadsheet. They make them at the dinner table, or in a meeting room, where personal history, your own unique view of the world, ego, pride, marketing, and odd incentives are scrambled together. In The Psychology of Money, award-winning author Morgan Housel shares 19 short stories exploring the strange ways people think about money.
-
-
Could be summarized in one sentence
- By Alex on 05-30-21
By: Morgan Housel
-
Crucial Conversations (Third Edition)
- Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High
- By: Joseph Grenny, Kerry Patterson, Ron McMillan, and others
- Narrated by: Emily Gregory, Joseph Grenny
- Length: 7 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The book that revolutionized business communications has been updated for today's workplace. Crucial Conversations provides powerful skills to ensure every conversation - especially difficult ones - leads to the results you want. Written in an engaging and witty style, it teaches listeners how to be persuasive rather than abrasive, how to get back to productive dialogue when others blow up or clam up, and it offers powerful skills for mastering high-stakes conversations, regardless of the topic or person.
-
-
Great info; needs a cast, PDF and a website update
- By Kali on 04-25-22
By: Joseph Grenny, and others
-
How to Win Friends & Influence People
- By: Dale Carnegie
- Narrated by: Andrew MacMillan
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
You can go after the job you want...and get it! You can take the job you have...and improve it! You can take any situation you're in...and make it work for you!
-
-
This is well worth listening too! Main points are.
- By Ralph on 10-21-11
By: Dale Carnegie
-
The Magic of Thinking Big
- By: David Schwartz
- Narrated by: Jason Culp
- Length: 9 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Millions of people around the world have improved their lives through the timeless advice David Schwartz offers in The Magic of Thinking Big. In this best-selling audiobook, Schwartz proves you don't need innate talent to become successful, but you do need to understand the habit of thinking and behaving in ways that will get you there.
-
-
Seriously probably the most impactful book I have ever read!
- By Peter on 02-20-16
By: David Schwartz
-
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
- Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
- By: Stephen R. Covey
- Narrated by: Stephen R. Covey
- Length: 13 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Stephen R. Covey's book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, has been a top seller for the simple reason that it ignores trends and pop psychology for proven principles of fairness, integrity, honesty, and human dignity. Celebrating its 15th year of helping people solve personal and professional problems, this special anniversary edition includes a new foreword and afterword written by Covey that explore whether the 7 Habits are still relevant and answer some of the most common questions he has received over the past 15 years.
-
-
I don't understand these other reviews
- By Scott on 08-29-10
By: Stephen R. Covey
-
What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20 - 10th Anniversary Edition
- A Crash Course on Making Your Place in the World
- By: Tina Seelig
- Narrated by: Eileen Stevens
- Length: 5 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Major life transitions such as leaving the protected environment of school or starting a new career can be daunting. It is scary to face a wall of choices, knowing that no one is going to tell us if we make the right decision. There is no clearly delineated path or recipe for success. Even figuring out how and where to start can be a challenge. As head of the Stanford Technology Ventures Program, Tina Seelig’s job is to guide her students as they make the difficult transition from the academic environment to the professional world.
-
-
You can earn a lot
- By Tzafrir Tiferet on 12-15-21
By: Tina Seelig
-
Quarterlife
- The Search for Self in Early Adulthood
- By: Satya Doyle Byock
- Narrated by: Satya Doyle Byock
- Length: 6 hrs and 40 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
I’m stuck. What’s wrong with me? Is this all there is? Satya Doyle Byock hears these refrains regularly in her psychotherapy practice where she works with “Quarterlifers,” individuals between the ages of (roughly) sixteen to thirty-six. She understands their frustration. Some clients have done everything “right”: graduate, get a job, meet a partner. In Quarterlife, Byock utilizes personal storytelling, mythology, Jungian psychology, pop culture, literature, and client case studies to provide guideposts for this period of life.
-
-
What the world, and I, need now
- By Amazon Customer on 07-27-22
-
Designing Your Life
- How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life
- By: Bill Burnett, Dave Evans
- Narrated by: Bill Burnett, Dave Evans
- Length: 6 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this book Bill Burnett and Dave Evans show us how design thinking can help us create lives that are both meaningful and fulfilling, regardless of whom or where we are, what we do or have done for a living, or how young or old we are. The same design thinking responsible for amazing technology, products, and spaces can be used to design and build your career and your life, a life of fulfillment and joy, constantly creative and productive, one that always holds the possibility of surprise.
-
-
Get the printed version
- By dogwood lady on 12-03-16
By: Bill Burnett, and others
People who viewed this also viewed...
-
The Twentysomething Treatment
- A Revolutionary Remedy for an Uncertain Age
- By: Meg Jay
- Narrated by: Meg Jay
- Length: 7 hrs and 50 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The author of The Defining Decade explains why the twenties are the most challenging time of life and reveals essential skills for handling the uncertainties surrounding work, love, friendship, mental health, and more during that decade and beyond.
-
-
She changed my life for the better again.
- By Thalifa Hill on 02-21-25
By: Meg Jay
-
Supernormal
- The Untold Story of Adversity and Resilience
- By: Meg Jay
- Narrated by: Meg Jay
- Length: 10 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Clinical psychologist and author of The Defining Decade, Meg Jay takes us into the world of the supernormal: those who soar to unexpected heights after childhood adversity. Drawing on nearly two decades of work with clients and students, Jay tells the tale of ordinary people made extraordinary by these all-too-common experiences, everyday superheroes who have made lives out of dodging bullets and leaping over obstacles, even as they hide in plain sight as doctors, artists, entrepreneurs, lawyers, parents, activists, teachers, and students.
-
-
too triggering - such a soul-torturing book
- By Yigosh on 01-03-18
By: Meg Jay
-
Stop Talking, Start Doing
- A Kick in the Pants in Six Parts
- By: Richard Newton - contributor, Shaa Wasmund
- Narrated by: Richard Newton, Shaa Wasmund
- Length: 2 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Have you got an itch to start your own business, go to the North Pole, retrain, lose weight, get promoted, learn to play the ukulele? Or do you just have a nagging sense that there must be more to life? If there is something you really want to do, but secretly fear you'll never do it, then you need this. This is your kick in the pants! To make your thing happen, you have to climb into the ring. You have to face your fears and move from talking to doing.
-
-
The push
- By Rigoberto Tinajera on 06-03-24
By: Richard Newton - contributor, and others
-
The Art of Critical Thinking
- How to Build the Sharpest Reasoning Possible for Yourself
- By: Christopher Hayes
- Narrated by: Brandon Ison
- Length: 3 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Do you want to improve your brain power by thinking critically in your daily life? Are you interested in deepening your understanding without judgement, bias, or manipulation? Are you seeking confidence in your arguments and wish to think more efficiently? If you find yourself wanting to know more about critical thinking strategies, you’ve found the perfect solution. This workbook is for the individual who wants to think clearly and organized - for the person who wants to make the best decisions for themselves. Critical thinking is a mindset more than a technique.
-
-
Wind up effective and upbeat.
- By Grey Crystaline on 03-15-20
-
Your Difference Is Your Strength
- A Guide to Accepting Yourself -- for Anyone Who Has Ever Felt Out of Place
- By: Kris Ferraro
- Narrated by: Kris Ferraro
- Length: 8 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Your Difference is Your Strength is a book for anyone and everyone who has ever felt out of place, misunderstood, or just...different. It’s the book for the kid who was too creative or too shy or too “weird” and who grew up into an adult who still isn’t quite sure where they fit in or if they even want to. It’s a book for you. In Your Difference is Your Strength, Kris Ferraro, author of Manifesting, invites the oddballs and underdogs of the world to stop hiding, minimizing, or disguising their differences and instead embrace them in a powerful new way.
By: Kris Ferraro
-
How to Live on 24 Hours a Day
- The Complete Original Edition
- By: Arnold Bennett, Joel Fotinos
- Narrated by: Bruce Kramer
- Length: 1 hr and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Arnold Bennett’s classic book, How to Live on 24 Hours a Day, has been changing the way people use and consider their time since it was first published in 1910. In the intervening century surprisingly little has changed - we still struggle to make use of our time and are often plagued by the persistent worry that we are not making the most of our lives. Bennett encourages listeners to stop merely following the rote patterns of their lives and leverage their free hours by viewing time as a commodity like money - each of us is allotted exactly 24 hours every day to spend as we see fit.
-
-
the overall message was good, dry & too slow.
- By joseph dean on 12-01-20
By: Arnold Bennett, and others
-
The Twentysomething Treatment
- A Revolutionary Remedy for an Uncertain Age
- By: Meg Jay
- Narrated by: Meg Jay
- Length: 7 hrs and 50 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The author of The Defining Decade explains why the twenties are the most challenging time of life and reveals essential skills for handling the uncertainties surrounding work, love, friendship, mental health, and more during that decade and beyond.
-
-
She changed my life for the better again.
- By Thalifa Hill on 02-21-25
By: Meg Jay
-
Supernormal
- The Untold Story of Adversity and Resilience
- By: Meg Jay
- Narrated by: Meg Jay
- Length: 10 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Clinical psychologist and author of The Defining Decade, Meg Jay takes us into the world of the supernormal: those who soar to unexpected heights after childhood adversity. Drawing on nearly two decades of work with clients and students, Jay tells the tale of ordinary people made extraordinary by these all-too-common experiences, everyday superheroes who have made lives out of dodging bullets and leaping over obstacles, even as they hide in plain sight as doctors, artists, entrepreneurs, lawyers, parents, activists, teachers, and students.
-
-
too triggering - such a soul-torturing book
- By Yigosh on 01-03-18
By: Meg Jay
-
Stop Talking, Start Doing
- A Kick in the Pants in Six Parts
- By: Richard Newton - contributor, Shaa Wasmund
- Narrated by: Richard Newton, Shaa Wasmund
- Length: 2 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Have you got an itch to start your own business, go to the North Pole, retrain, lose weight, get promoted, learn to play the ukulele? Or do you just have a nagging sense that there must be more to life? If there is something you really want to do, but secretly fear you'll never do it, then you need this. This is your kick in the pants! To make your thing happen, you have to climb into the ring. You have to face your fears and move from talking to doing.
-
-
The push
- By Rigoberto Tinajera on 06-03-24
By: Richard Newton - contributor, and others
-
The Art of Critical Thinking
- How to Build the Sharpest Reasoning Possible for Yourself
- By: Christopher Hayes
- Narrated by: Brandon Ison
- Length: 3 hrs and 3 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Do you want to improve your brain power by thinking critically in your daily life? Are you interested in deepening your understanding without judgement, bias, or manipulation? Are you seeking confidence in your arguments and wish to think more efficiently? If you find yourself wanting to know more about critical thinking strategies, you’ve found the perfect solution. This workbook is for the individual who wants to think clearly and organized - for the person who wants to make the best decisions for themselves. Critical thinking is a mindset more than a technique.
-
-
Wind up effective and upbeat.
- By Grey Crystaline on 03-15-20
-
Your Difference Is Your Strength
- A Guide to Accepting Yourself -- for Anyone Who Has Ever Felt Out of Place
- By: Kris Ferraro
- Narrated by: Kris Ferraro
- Length: 8 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Your Difference is Your Strength is a book for anyone and everyone who has ever felt out of place, misunderstood, or just...different. It’s the book for the kid who was too creative or too shy or too “weird” and who grew up into an adult who still isn’t quite sure where they fit in or if they even want to. It’s a book for you. In Your Difference is Your Strength, Kris Ferraro, author of Manifesting, invites the oddballs and underdogs of the world to stop hiding, minimizing, or disguising their differences and instead embrace them in a powerful new way.
By: Kris Ferraro
-
How to Live on 24 Hours a Day
- The Complete Original Edition
- By: Arnold Bennett, Joel Fotinos
- Narrated by: Bruce Kramer
- Length: 1 hr and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Arnold Bennett’s classic book, How to Live on 24 Hours a Day, has been changing the way people use and consider their time since it was first published in 1910. In the intervening century surprisingly little has changed - we still struggle to make use of our time and are often plagued by the persistent worry that we are not making the most of our lives. Bennett encourages listeners to stop merely following the rote patterns of their lives and leverage their free hours by viewing time as a commodity like money - each of us is allotted exactly 24 hours every day to spend as we see fit.
-
-
the overall message was good, dry & too slow.
- By joseph dean on 12-01-20
By: Arnold Bennett, and others
-
Clarity - How to Get It, How to Keep It, and How to Use It to Balance Your Life
- By: Steven Cesari
- Narrated by: Steven Cesari
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
People in all stages of life can be adrift, overcommitted, distracted, or just plain stuck, which can keep them from reaching their full potential. Steve Cesari understands that developing clarity, then making proper adjustments, is the first step towards leading a happier and healthier life. In his new audiobook, Cesari draws on his own personal and professional experiences to help others realize their full potential, by empowering, encouraging, and developing a clear vision to achieve desired results.
By: Steven Cesari
-
What Do Men Want?
- Masculinity and Its Discontents
- By: Nina Power
- Narrated by: Nina Power
- Length: 4 hrs and 55 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
It would be easy to write a feminist polemic denouncing men. This is not that book. Something is definitely up with men. From millions who follow Jordan Peterson to the #MeToo backlash, from men's rights activists and incels to spiralling suicide rates, it's easy to see that, while men still rule the world, masculinity is in crisis.
-
-
A long awaited gem
- By Łukasz on 03-11-24
By: Nina Power
-
Atomic Actions
- Experience Transformative Breakthroughs and Unstoppable Momentum
- By: Michael Pedersen
- Narrated by: Robert Plank
- Length: 11 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Dive into "Atomic Actions" for an unfiltered personal development and self-growth approach. Peak Performance Coach Michael Pedersen has decades of experience and knowledge on this topic. This book focuses on overcoming barriers to decisiveness, equipping you with strategies and processes for success. This self-help book is a comprehensive guide to becoming an "action-taker" in life. Your confidence and self-belief will skyrocket, resulting in success in all facets of your life.
By: Michael Pedersen
-
How Come That Idiot's Rich and I'm Not?
- By: Robert Shemin
- Narrated by: Robert Shemin
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In How Come That Idiot's Rich and I'm Not? best-selling author Robert Shemin reveals for the first time the inner-circle secrets of the mega-wealthy. Have you ever wondered why some people attract wealth while others stay financially trapped and in debt? The key is wealth-friendly, upside-down thinking. Stick with all the old moneymaking rules and stay broke. Break them and get rich. This is the audiobook that shows you how.
-
-
Pretty interesting.
- By Mottoman on 07-08-09
By: Robert Shemin
-
The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober
- Discovering a Happy, Healthy, Wealthy Alcohol-Free Life
- By: Catherine Gray
- Narrated by: Catherine Gray
- Length: 10 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Ever sworn off alcohol for January and found yourself drinking by the 7th? Think there's 'no point' in just one drink? Welcome! There are millions of us. This inspirational, aspirational and highly relatable narrative champions the benefits of sobriety with a three-pronged approach combining the author's personal experience, factual reportage and contributions from expert sources and self-help advice for anyone who wants to reduce their alcohol intake or eliminate it completely.
-
-
Best Book on This Subject!
- By Polly on 05-14-20
By: Catherine Gray
-
Unschooled
- Raising Curious, Well-Educated Children Outside the Conventional Classroom
- By: Kerry Mcdonald, Peter Grey PhD
- Narrated by: Lesa Lockford
- Length: 9 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In a compelling narrative that introduces historical and contemporary research on self-directed education, Unschooled also spotlights how a diverse group of individuals and organizations are evolving an old schooling model of education. These innovators challenge the myth that children need to be taught in order to learn.
-
-
Not for parents
- By online shopper on 05-24-20
By: Kerry Mcdonald, and others
-
The Myth of the Nice Girl
- Achieving a Career You Love Without Becoming a Person You Hate
- By: Fran Hauser, Jodi Lipper
- Narrated by: Fran Hauser
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In The Myth of the Nice Girl, Fran Hauser deconstructs the negative perception of "niceness" that many women struggle with in the business world. If women are nice, they are seen as weak and ineffective, but if they are tough, they are labeled a bitch. Hauser proves that women don't have to sacrifice their values or hide their authentic personalities to be successful.
-
-
meeeh
- By Cindy blunt on 12-04-18
By: Fran Hauser, and others
-
Mindwise
- Why We Misunderstand What Others Think, Believe, Feel, and Want
- By: Nicholas Epley
- Narrated by: Nicholas Epley
- Length: 6 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
You are a mind reader, born with an extraordinary ability to understand what others think, feel, believe, want, and know. It's a sixth sense you use every day, in every personal and professional relationship you have. At its best, this ability allows you to achieve the most important goal in almost any life: connecting, deeply and intimately and honestly, to other human beings. At its worst, it is a source of misunderstanding and unnecessary conflict, leading to damaged relationships and broken dreams. How good are you at knowing the minds of others?
-
-
Finally gave up - no real point
- By Thomas on 05-12-14
By: Nicholas Epley
-
The Gift of Forgiveness
- Inspiring Stories from Those Who Have Overcome the Unforgivable
- By: Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt
- Narrated by: Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt
- Length: 4 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Written with grace and understanding and based on more than 20 in-depth interviews and stories as well as personal reflections from Schwarzenegger Pratt herself, The Gift of Forgiveness is about one of the most difficult challenges in life - learning to forgive. Here, Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt shows us what we can learn from those who have struggled with forgiveness, some still struggling, and others who have been able to forgive what might seem truly unforgivable.
-
-
I stopped 2 hours in..
- By Alex C. on 03-13-20
-
The Laws of Luck
- The Success System That Never Fails
- By: Brian Tracy
- Narrated by: Michael Tracy
- Length: 5 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Some sav success is based on luck. But high achievers don't leave their success to chance. They guarantee their future by applying the proven laws of success. When you apply these laws, you will unlock the most potent forces in the universe. You control your luck. What's the key? If you want to succeed, do what successful people do. It's that simple. In this book, Brian Tracy shows how to put the laws of luck to work for you.
-
-
Classic Brian Tracy
- By Shawn Bethay on 12-30-23
By: Brian Tracy
-
The Leader's Guide to Storytelling
- Mastering the Art and Discipline of Business Narrative, Revised and Updated
- By: Stephen Denning
- Narrated by: Graeme Malcolm
- Length: 10 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This revised and updated edition of the best-selling book A Leader's Guide to Storytelling shows how storytelling is one of the few ways to handle the most important and difficult challenges of leadership: sparking action, getting people to work together, and leading people into the future. Using myriad illustrative examples and filled with how-to techniques, this book clearly explains how you can learn to tell the right story at the right time.
-
-
Not appealing.
- By Jiali Chen on 07-09-23
By: Stephen Denning
-
Life Is What You Make It
- Find Your Own Path to Fulfillment
- By: Peter Buffett
- Narrated by: Peter Buffett
- Length: 5 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Which will you choose: the path of least resistance or the path of potentially greatest satisfaction? You may think that with a last name like his, Buffett has enjoyed a life of endless privilege. But the son of billionaire investor Warren Buffett says that the only real inheritance handed down from his parents was a philosophy: Forge your own path in life. It is a creed that has allowed him to follow his own passions, establish his own identity, and reap his own successes.
-
-
My new all-time favorite book
- By K.Indira nagaveni on 06-06-17
By: Peter Buffett
What listeners say about The Defining Decade
Highly rated for:
Reviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Alquidaris Baez
- 03-24-21
Mind opening
I’m turning 21 soon and was heading in the same direction of some these 20 something year olds. Made me really put my life into perspective.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
2 people found this helpful
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Ken
- 12-20-21
SPECIFIC Advice (not the cliche stuff)
Wow! I’m so glad I listened to The Defining Decade. This has lots of good, SPECIFIC advice. Not the cliche “follow your dreams” stuff. I’m talking the real advice most people don’t think about. Meg Jay explains why committing to a long term relationship and ditching hookup culture in our 20s matters, and why getting engaged BEFORE moving in with our partner might be a good idea. Best of all, she backs her reasoning with data and statistics. She cites empirical research showing that people who make a few key decisions in their 20s end up far happier than those who don’t. Want to know what those key decisions are? Listen to (or read) The Defining Decade.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Cassandra
- 12-05-21
Awesome book
This entire book was great and so insightful. Wish the author could be my therapist.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Catherine Heckler
- 09-10-21
Incredible. Life changing. Relatable
This really light a fire under my ass. I’m in my twenties and feel stuck. This book helped me so much.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Mark Estrada
- 12-01-22
Needed for every 20 something
Seriously just read it. I can’t express how much I needed to hear this book.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Lucy
- 01-19-23
Helpful - practical for real life
Would recommend this book to anyone feeling lost! Was like going to therapy. Easy to keep listening.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Tea Monet
- 03-01-23
Just what I needed
In my mid 20s, trying to figure out things. This book was a great place to start. It’s not giving you the answers but giving you questions to help set your foundation👌
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Anonymous User
- 03-06-23
Wake Up Call
As an adult in my mid-twenties, this book gave me the wake-up call that I needed to intelligently walk through the remainder of this decade confidently.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Rei
- 06-06-23
“There is no better time than the present” Explained
I feel like I knew how precious time was. Yet, while reading this, i could see in my life where i took it for granted. There was a disconnect between knowing and understanding.
I feel like i have a much better grasp on how my adult-life will play out or, at least, how it could and what i should do to create the future i want. A big part of that is not joking with myself about what i want and don’t want. I shouldn’t be indecisive or leave that consideration for a later, undefined date.
I am really grateful for the guidance and clarity. While a bit overwhelming, I feel equipped to confidently move forward intentionally into the life i want.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Cristine Tozser
- 09-21-23
Best Book Ever!!!
Im 27 and I wish I read this book earlier! What a wake up call! Loved all the stories & insight & the new perspective its given me.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!