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Scarlett Love
About this listen
Do you feel anxious or insecure in your relationship? This book will help you regain confidence and happiness!
If you’re like most of us, you’ve been through dramatic break-ups and painful conflicts, and you want to stop repeating the same mistakes and finally have a perfect relationship.
Do you know how anxiety and insecurity can ruin your relationships?
Do you want to control your jealousy and build a relationship based on trust?
Do you want to save your relationship and prevent a painful break-up?
If you’ve answered yes to at least one of these questions, you’ve found the right book for you!
Many relationship problems are caused by insecurity and a lack of self-esteem. For example, insecurity can make you jealous or extremely controlling, and your partner may try to withdraw from you to get some personal space, making you even more jealous. The drama escalates up to a point when neither of you can take it any longer.
But when your self-esteem is not too high and not too low, you feel secure with your partner. You love them and you’re sure that they love you too. You have no reason to be clingy or jealous, and you can solve most misunderstandings with sincere and respectful communication.
This book will teach you how to build such a relationship.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
- How to boost your self-esteem and know your true worth
- Simple but effective ways to see if a person is right for you
- Strategies to overcome a relationship crisis and prevent a divorce or a breakup
- Ways to understand and overcome your insecurity
- Bonus: How to become good at internet dating and avoid typical mistakes!
This book will help you solve most relationship problems. If your relationship can’t be saved, don’t mourn. Remember that you deserve to be loved by someone who’ll make you feel happy and secure!
Take your first step towards your relationship goals.
Scroll up, click on "Buy Now", and listen today!
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- Ammo
- 03-16-21
Horrible
Horribly written, makes no sense, couldn’t even finish chapter 1!!! I was so looking forward to this.
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-26-23
wow
Not only does it read/listen like it is a bad translation but it seems like the author decided to sound smarter and used a thesaurus in the middle of idioms. As to usefulness- she switches perspective constantly-including in the middle of a sentence/point (which the point seems to be ever changing). honestly it made me feel more insecure due to constantly flip-flop around.
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- Andrea Hafley
- 08-16-20
Maybe better is read- I used audible
The writer’s style is broken- many of the points just sound random without any follow up point- the use of he and she is annoying, and over used. Felt very outdated
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- Jessica
- 06-29-21
Very difficult to understand
I really wanted to like this book but it was hard to follow and understand, because the grammar was very poor. It sounds very broken and confusing, as if it was written by someone who didn’t understand English.
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