
Choosing Me Before We
Every Woman’s Guide to Life and Love
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Christine Arylo
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Full of sass, soul, and the type of empowering wisdom that no woman should live without, Choosing Me Before We is like a heart-to-heart with your closest girlfriend. And best of all, you'll discover that your closest girlfriend is your own truest self, inside you, always ready to offer wise, loving advice about what is best for you. Designed to challenge and guide women to create the relationships they want instead of the ones they often find themselves stuck in, this book is packed with stimulating questions to uncover what's true for you, powerful techniques to change old habits that sabotage your dreams, and real-life experiences shared by the author, her friends, and her clients.
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- Kimberly
- 01-30-20
Moving
This book was so moving. Tears of joy right now. Sad it ended, but will be reading again. Cheers to Me & all women learning to choose Me first.
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- Rene
- 05-05-22
Well said
Awakening moments to remember on my road to choosing me and others going through same
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- BJules1982
- 10-12-18
Best self-realization book I've found!
I REALLY wish this book came with a PDF of the questions and reflections, but I highly recommend this book to all of my girlfriends! It is so helpful to put things in a healthier perspective.
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- momo
- 11-11-17
Thanks for the confirmation ♡♡♡♡♡GOD is working.
I really enjoyed this book and the Insight that he gave me into my past as it pertains to my future. It shed light on things that I need to deal with and things that I halfway dealt with but the truth makes us free.
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- Alexis
- 06-21-20
Read Now!!
This book changed my outlook on myself, relationships, and life in general. This is NOT some cheesy self help book at all!
It’s honest, insightful, and funny. After reading this book I found her podcast and have now enrolled in a few of her classes. Do yourself a favor and get this book. If you’re on the fence about getting this book take the leap and get it!!!!
#gamechanger
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- Kaleena
- 04-22-17
Gut kicking
I loved this book. It really made me question a lot of things that I've been holding onto in bad relationships that I've had and continue to have and really reminded me to love myself first. I would highly recommend
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- Isabel Alvarez
- 02-05-18
helped me through a breakup
this book is one of the best sell help books i have read. it really teaches you the importance of self love and the relationship with yourself.
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- Kimmy L
- 10-29-23
A refresher!
I purchased a physical copy of this book several years ago but needed a refresher to put things back into perspective!
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- alicia
- 11-24-23
Knowledge at your fingertips
The reader seemed mechanical which made it hard to soak as much information as this book holds. I bought the book also to help catch other things i missed.
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- Mia
- 11-13-16
Wanted this for years -amazing for beginners
I have wanted this2009.A must for startes-journey.You will feel like Christine is your long-lost friend.
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