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Big Friendship

How We Keep Each Other Close

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Big Friendship

By: Aminatou Sow, Ann Friedman
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A close friendship is one of the most influential and important relationships a human life can contain. Anyone will tell you that! But for all the rosy sentiments surrounding friendship, most people don’t talk much about what it really takes to stay close for the long haul.

Now two friends, Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman, tell the story of their equally messy and life-affirming big friendship in this honest and hilarious book that chronicles their first decade in one another’s lives. As the hosts of the hit podcast Call Your Girlfriend, they’ve become known for frank and intimate conversations. In this book, they bring that energy to their own friendship - its joys and its pitfalls.

Aminatou and Ann define big friendship as a strong, significant bond that transcends life phases, geographical locations, and emotional shifts. And they should know: The two have had moments of charmed bliss and deep frustration, of profound connection and gut-wrenching alienation. They have weathered life-threatening health scares, getting fired from their dream jobs, and one unfortunate Thanksgiving dinner eaten in a car in a parking lot in Rancho Cucamonga. Through interviews with friends and experts, they have come to understand that their struggles are not unique. And that the most important part of a big friendship is making the decision to invest in one another again and again.

An inspiring and entertaining testament to the power of society’s most underappreciated relationship, Big Friendship will invite you to think about how your own bonds are formed, challenged, and preserved. It is a call to value your friendships in all of their complexity. Actively choose them. And, sometimes, fight for them.

©2020 Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman. All rights reserved. (P)2020 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.
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Friends are the family we choose. When we’re going through hardships or have something to celebrate, our friends are often the people we turn to first. So much of literature, art, music, and film is dedicated to romantic love, but the love between friends can be just as (if not more) rewarding. Of course, plenty of authors "are" writing about friendship, in all its many forms. Here is our list of the very best audiobooks about friendship across genres.

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The Audiobook Provides An Intimate And Powerful Narrative Of The Authors' 11-year Friendship, Chronicling Its Ups And Downs, Challenges, And The Deep Emotional Investment Required To Sustain A Profound Platonic Relationship. While Some Found The Portrayal Of Their Friendship Exhausting, One-sided Or Unrelatable, Others Appreciated The Refreshing And Compelling Account Of The Complexities And Significance Of Female Friendships. The Book Offers Meaningful Anecdotes And Insights Into The Importance Of Nurturing Friendships, Though Some Felt It Lacked Concrete Guidance, Reading More Like A Memoir Than A Self-help Book On Cultivating Strong Bonds.
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Encouraging

A rare account of what it means to be in a big, platonic female friendship for decades with its lifelong rewards and challenges. As a woman who has ended several big friendships, I can see how only being in therapy with your friend would move both friends beyond a stuck place. Congrats to you both for showing what it takes to go deep and reap the rewards of a meaningful, lasting friendship with love and humor!

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Beautiful, concise, and inspiring

This book about Big Friendship will resonate with anyone who has had a deep, powerful friendship that felt like a true relationship. Ann and Aminatou tell the story of ups and downs, and provide a powerful reminder to treasure our friendships, invest in them, and honor their significance.

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So meaningful.

I’ve been thinking soooo much about relationships and especially my friendships lately. I needed this audiobook. It was beautiful. I cried. Laughed. Shook my head in recognition. I’m going to be recommending it. A LOT.

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Friendships are worthy but work is required, just like in any relationship!

Important reminders and and findings about friendship. The important ones. The ones we need but we tend to belittle. Just like in any relationship they need work, effort, and clear communication. Recommended for friends who need to clear a path, talk about realistic expectations, and define how we can show up for each other.

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Big Friendships Rule

I Love this. recommend highly for anyone looking to add more value to your friendships

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Tears! (the good kind)

Finished in one day, all the tears! Thank you for writing honestly and beautifully. This love story about your friendship is the catalyst to fight for my own big friendship that needs a little stretching. Thank you for putting words to your hearts!

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A beautiful story about the importance of BIG FRIENDSHIPS

Initially the book did not start off as I thought it would but it get better, so much better. I’m reading this book in preparation for a discussion my best friend is hosting. For me it not only prompted deep questions, easy and hard but it helped me take self inventory on the things we do well and the things we need to do better on. I highly recommend this read to anyone who intentionally has a desire to see the ripples and stretches in their friendships. May you all shine!

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Essential reading

a friendship love story for any & everyone whose friendships may need a little TLC right now (& forever)

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Interesting but...

Some interesting tidbits in this book about friendship. But I found the authors’ narration bothersome. Very flat and emotionless in most moments. I would prefer some dynamics in narration. It would have made the book more compelling to listen to.

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good read!

It's wonderful to hear from two irl friends who've been through so much together and still choose each other. Heck, they even went to counseling together!! I've never heard of that before! it was refreshing to hear about their ups and downs instead of the surface happy stories we normally hear about friendship, and having that term "big friendship" feels very reaffirming and validating. overall good read!

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