
Vanilla to Kinky - The Domination Deep Dive
Real Conversations About All Things Domination
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Dan Levy
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Jonathan Wolf
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Here’s a little secret….
Want to know every sub’s biggest nightmare? An uncaring, inconsiderate, and selfish Dom. While there’s no wrong or right way to practice BDSM, there is a right and wrong way to Dom. Most subs report that the biggest headache in the BDSM community is the lack of “good” Dominants. Many subs have troves of horror stories that they collect and exchange like trading cards.
Why is that? Why is it so hard to find a “good” dominant? Are there really no good people out there? The truth is, There’s a disconnect. A lack of education. Many Doms find themselves unable to satisfy their sub when they are lacking in education and not well conditioned in deep emotional responsibility. This is where The Domination Deep Dive comes in.
With this book, you can set yourself apart from the crowd of dead-beat Doms. In The Domination Deep Dive, you’ll hear real conversations from real people from all different walks of life. We discuss:
- What subs look for in a Dom
- Common Beginner mistakes
- Why so many people are bad at Domming and how you can be a good Dom
- Misconceptions surrounding Domming
- The damages of the portrayal of BDSM in pornography, gender and its effects on a Dom as a social construct
- Introducing your partner to BDSM masterfully
- And much more!
Even if you haven’t begun your BDSM journey yet, this is a great pre-requisite for beginners. Scroll up and add click "buy now" to secure your copy!
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-24-23
Very knowledgeable
I’m already in this world, but reading this definitely gave me a better psychological take on what BDSM truly is and so I thank you for that.
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- Shanna Tidwell
- 07-24-23
Informative
Nothing I wasn’t familiar with but very education for most I’d assume. Love that so many people were quoted here and you get multiple opinions on subjects.
Dan Levy did an excellent job narrating.
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- Chris J. Garcia
- 01-20-25
Bringing in other points of views and it not being solely the author.
This wasn't entirely what I was looking for however, I'm not sure what I was looking for.
On the positive side I felt this book. It's very thorough in its review of the kink community pitfalls and pluses. Very well done.
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