United Christian Marriage | Communication, Connection, Lonely Marriage, Young Wife, Newlywed, Building Trust, Biblical Wife, Marriage Counseling, Marriage Devotional, Scripture for Couples, Arguments Podcast By Micaiah Gray | Christian Marriage Coach Marriage Counseling and Marriage Therapy Alternative Christian Wife Coach Relationship Coach cover art

United Christian Marriage | Communication, Connection, Lonely Marriage, Young Wife, Newlywed, Building Trust, Biblical Wife, Marriage Counseling, Marriage Devotional, Scripture for Couples, Arguments

United Christian Marriage | Communication, Connection, Lonely Marriage, Young Wife, Newlywed, Building Trust, Biblical Wife, Marriage Counseling, Marriage Devotional, Scripture for Couples, Arguments

By: Micaiah Gray | Christian Marriage Coach Marriage Counseling and Marriage Therapy Alternative Christian Wife Coach Relationship Coach
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Are you struggling in your marriage? Feeling alone, disconnected, or stuck in the same fights? Marriage may feel hard right now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You may feel completely disconnected and withdrawn, but being UNITED is possible for your marriage! I was married at 18, after having a baby, and had no family support while I navigated it all, yet I still was able to go from completely lost and broken, to thriving in my marriage, home, and parenthood. How? Well, this podcast is all about the first step on the journey, which is unifying your marriage. In this podcast, I will walk you through the biblical design for marriage, teach you how to be a biblical wife, and I bring my husband on occasionally so you can grab your husband and have a moment to be united as you listen to the show and grow together. Welcome to The United Christian Marriage Podcast, where we teach how to truly become ONE in your marriage. We talk about real-life issues that are keeping you feeling alone and divided in your marriage, and give you practical steps to overcome them so you can have a United Marriage. We do this by teaching self-coaching (communication) tools, biblical wisdom, and our real-life experience on how you can break unhealthy patterns, heal from past wounds, and build a Christ-centered home, by first starting with your marriage. Whether you’re searching for Christian marriage help, biblical advice, or solutions for conflict, intimacy, and communication, this podcast is for you. What you’ll find here: ✔️ Marriage solutions rooted in biblical wisdom ✔️ How to communicated well in marriage ✔️ Healing trauma & breaking generational cycles ✔️ How to reconnect with your spouse ✔️ Navigating different expectations & parenting as a team ✔️ Boundaries, submission, & serving your spouse biblically You’re not alone. Healing starts here. ➡️ Join the United Christian Marriage Facebook group: [https//bio.site/MicaiahGray]Copyright 2025 All rights reserved. Christianity Ministry & Evangelism Relationships Social Sciences Spirituality
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  • 41 | Is It Normal That I'm Struggling To Submit? Godly Advice For Newlywed Christian Wives
    Jul 7 2025
    😬 Struggling with Submission? You’re Not Alone, Sis!

    Submission is one of the most misunderstood concepts in Christian marriage, especially for newlywed wives trying to find their voice and follow biblical principles. In today’s episode, I’m sharing real-life stories (yep, even the wardrobe battles), vulnerable moments, and practical biblical truth to help you understand submission through a lens of grace, partnership, and growth.

    If you've ever asked, "Can I still be a strong woman and submit biblically?" — this episode is for you.

    Grab your coffee and journal, because this one is deep, real, and full of grace.

    💡 What You'll Learn:
    • The areas I really struggled to submit as a newlywed wife

    • What helped me move from “don’t tell me what to wear” to dressing with peace and purpose

    • How I used to bulldoze our routines—and what changed everything

    • The difference between leading with your husband vs. leading over him

    • 5 powerful results we’ve seen in our home from learning biblical submission

    ❤️ Want Support?

    ➡️ Book a free marriage coaching call with me before prices go up! Let’s discuss your real-life situation and create a custom, Spirit-led action plan tailored to you.

    ➡️ Want to go deeper? Apply for my group coaching program where I teach healthy marriage mindsets, biblical frameworks for submission and communication, and how to partner with your spouse and the Lord to restore connection.

    📚 Related podcast episodes:
      • “Do You Feel Lonely? How to Deal With a Distant Husband”

      • “What If My Husband Isn’t Interested in Working on Our Marriage?”

      • “Do You Feel Like You're Doing All The Work And He Doesn't Notice? 5 Steps To Get The Support You Need.”

      • Godly Marriage Advice For Newlyweds: 3 Things You Need To Know For A Healthy Christian Marriage
    🙌 If this helped you…

    Please take 10 seconds to click ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and leave a quick review. Then screenshot and share this episode on your IG stories so more wives can build strong, Christ-centered homes.

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    24 mins
  • 40 | Fueling Emotional Connection With Your Spouse: 3 Tips For Intimacy In A Christian Marriage
    Jun 30 2025

    Do you feel emotionally disconnected from your spouse? Like you’re living in the same house, but your hearts are miles apart? In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to reconnect emotionally in your Christian marriage. Whether you're struggling to communicate, feeling distant, or missing the deep intimacy you once had, I’m sharing a few simple shifts that helped me go from extremely lonely to feeling seen, heard, and valued in my marriage. 👇 In this episode, you’ll hear: - Why emotional disconnection often starts in our thoughts

    - The difference between men and women’s internal narratives during conflict

    - How I handled a moment of deep loneliness—and how God met me there

    - A real-life story of how playfulness restored intimacy in our home

    - The power of using systems to protect emotional connection

    - What to do when your spouse triggers you (and how mine handled it like a champ)

    - Encouragement to fantasize, play, and create joy inside your marriage

    - How to start reconnecting without forcing or manipulating your spouse 💬 If you’ve been stuck in a place where connection feels impossible, this episode will help you see new hope—and new tools—to get back on the same page. 👉 Resources & Links Mentioned: 💬 Join the free Facebook group 📞 Book your free marriage coaching call: Schedule here 🎧 Listen to more episodes: Browse all episodes ⭐️ Leave a review & share! If this episode blessed you, please leave a 5-star review and a quick comment to help other Christian couples find the show. Screenshot and tag me in your stories so we can spread the mission of healing families through Christ!

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    20 mins
  • 39 | Why Do I Feel So Alone Even Though I'm Married? Validating The Experience Of Lonliness And 3 Steps Back To Connection
    Jun 23 2025

    Did You Imagine Marriage Would Make You Feel More Loved And Connected? Ever Wondered Why You Feel So Alone Even Though You're Married? 💬 Feeling lonely in your Christian marriage? You’re not alone—literally. In today’s episode, we’re discussing the emotional isolation that many Christian wives silently carry and how to begin the journey back to deep connection. Whether you’re constantly asking, “Why do I feel so alone in my marriage?” or secretly Googling things like “lonely but married,” this episode is for you. I share my own story of loneliness, trauma, and how God led me through healing, plus research-backed truths and biblical wisdom that will encourage and equip you to reconnect—first with yourself and God, and then with your spouse. 📣 Ready for real change? If emotional loneliness has become your normal and you want a new story, I’d love to help. Book a free coaching call or apply for the Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program below. Book your FREE call with Micaiah Apply To: The Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program 🙏 If you loved this episode, don’t forget to: Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review Share it to your stories and tag me so I can thank you personally! Remember: Healthy marriages create healthy homes—and healthy homes change generations. You are not alone. I’m praying for you! Follow me on IG and Facebook: https://bio.site/MicaiahGray

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    25 mins
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