When parents never apologize to their kids, it’s either because they're perfect or prideful. And since we know that every parent makes mistakes, that leaves us with only one option: pride.

In this episode, Brian and Katie explore the process of rupture and repair, and why humility, not perfection, is what builds lasting connection with your kids.

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Matthew 12:25 —“...a house divided against itself will not stand.”

In this episode, Brian and Katie explore what division looks like in parenting—from “good cop / bad cop” roles to decisions made behind each other’s backs. Whether it’s driven by insecurity, resentment, or different parenting styles, disunity sends the wrong message to your kids.

You’ll learn why unity matters, how to handle disagreements without undermining each other, and why parenting needs to be a team effort.

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"Kids will be kids," as they say — immature, loud, defiant, and sometimes downright disrespectful. But what if their behavior — especially the frustrating kind — is actually an attempt to communicate something deeper?

In this episode, Brian and Katie consider the normalcy and nature of childhood immaturity and challenge parents to take responsibility for their own emotional responses. Rather than reacting with frustration or demanding a level of maturity from our kids that we haven’t yet modeled ourselves, what if we saw these moments as invitations for our own continued growth?

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Have you ever wondered why God created both the Tree of Life and the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil? In this episode, we explore the story of Adam and Eve in Genesis, and take a biblical look at God’s design for relationship, freedom, and the human will—and how it all connects to the way we lead and love our kids.

You’ll learn:

• Why the existence of love requires the freedom to make a choice
• The deeper meaning behind the two trees in the Garden of Eden
• How God parents us through love, not force
• Why true obedience only grows in the soil of connection

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Why do kids push back, resist, or seem downright defiant when we try to get them to obey? In this episode, we explore the concept of counterwill—the instinctive resistance to being controlled—and how it plays a critical role in your child's development, autonomy, and attachment.

You’ll learn:

• Why coercion and manipulation often backfire in parenting
• How healthy attachment creates true influence
• What to do when your child resists—even over simple things
• The difference between power and leverage
• Practical ways to gain your child’s attention, respect, and cooperation without bribes, punishments, or power struggles

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of conflict, this episode will help you shift from control to connection—and rediscover the real power of relationship-based parenting.

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Words have power — not just emotionally, but neurologically. In this episode, we explore how the words we use impacts brain development, emotional connection, and relational safety. Whether you're a parent, spouse, educator, or friend, understanding the science of words can transform how you communicate and connect.

In this episode we covered:

• The forming of neural pathways
• How words affect our relational connection
• How to repair relational bonds when our words are damaging
• Why our day-to-day language matters more than we think

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The shift that needs to happen in the life of every believer is from worship of self to worship of God.

The values that the culture of the world is built upon are generally selfish in nature, and will result in people being the lord of their life, seeking to build their own kingdoms.

The values that the culture of God's Kingdom is built upon are generally focused on learning to love like Jesus and build His Kingdom.

Join Brian and Katie as they continued the conversation on the reality that much of our lives have been shaped by the values of the world, and why we need to be internal in orienting ourselves towards the ways of Jesus and His Kingdom.

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Right now you are either intentionally being discipled by Jesus, or you are unintentionally being discipled by the world. The same will be true for your kids, and there is no third direction.

Jesus didn't ask His followers to make converts - He asked them to make disciples.

A convert is willing to trust Jesus as their Savior, but sees little growth and waits to die to experience God's Kingdom.

A disciple, on the other hand, is willing to trust Jesus as both Savior and Lord, and works towards creating a lifestyle that reflects the ways and practices of Jesus in an effort to bring the Kingdom of God here and now.

Join Brian and Katie as they talk about why we'll never accidentally become more like Jesus, and why we need to be intentional in how we choose to live.

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