There are things to DO, things to AVOID, and things to LEARN after a breakup or divorce. People who have been through trauma or abuse tend to get stuck in their choices of partners, approach to relationships, and grieving. These tips can help you move forward even if you are a survivor of trauma or abuse. I presented this topic at the HealHer Summit. This is #157 of my podcast #Lifewithoutbaggage .0:00" Introduction to the episode2:36" Things to do: Journal strategies, attitudes and self talk, supports, and items that remind you of the relationship11:45" Things to AVOID: interactions, self-blame, media, tips for handling situations when you have kids together17:15" Things to LEARN about yourself and relationships so that you don't make similar mistakes when you are ready to find a new partner.✅ Important Links: 🎧 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V🌐 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ 🎥 Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #doctorinsights #counseling #copingsytategies #mentalhealth #podcastsforwomen #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

Your view of yourself, other people, and God develops early in life. In this interview from Dr. Kim, I explain these factors and how to overcome TOXIC GUILT. This is a bonus episode from my podcast.0:00" Introduction to the episode1:24" How your family environment shapes your view of God, yourself, and others10:33" Parenting and guilt12:40" Toxic parents and scapegoats13:34 Chronic guilt17:36" Attitudes that Promote Healing21:09" Overcoming toxic guilt and shame27:03" Closing comments ✅ Important Links: 🎧 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V🌐 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/🎙️ Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ 🎥 Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #doctorinsights #counseling #copingstrategies tategies #mentalhealth #podcastsforwomen #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

In this episode, I talk about the ways that trauma or abuse impacts a person physically, emotionally, relationally, and spiritually. This is episode #156 of my podcast #lifewithoutbaggage .0:00" Introduction to the Episode1:30" The impact on the body4:23" The impact of unmet needs, overdriven needs, and addictions6:30" Getting stuck in emotions. defenses, being overly busy, or control and rescuing14:15" Becoming passive (learned helplessness)17:10" Spiritual impact of abuse or trauma19:45" Tips and Strategies for growth23:15" A Prayer of Blessing✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper👉 FREE eBook on Dreams https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

Do you know how to fight for yourself spiritually? My brother, Vince Didato, LPCC-S joins me to explain how. 0:00" Introduction to the Episode

2:36" WHY you need to know how to fight SPIRITUALLY

5:37" Understanding God's LOVE helps us know how to fight

8:04" DISTORTIONS that Interfere with our prayers

12:45" EFFECTIVE prayers for PROTECTION

17:50" Develop YOUR spirit

19:50" STRATEGIES and Modes of Spiritual Empowerment

27:30" Prayer to EMPOWER you✅ Important Links: 🌐Vince Didato's book https://a.co/d/e7crSmJDr. Toni Cooper👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 The Lost Teaching: What Does Easter Mean? https://youtu.be/YDFMGhSeFHc?si=opDZ-myYmpxuiiV_👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

A short video that explains HOW to pray for your protection and the protection of your loved ones, finances, health, etc. using principles from the Bible. I use this for myself and my daughter.✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

There are many ways people can be controlled. Sometimes without an awareness that something is pulling us away from our true identity and purpose. Today, I explain 5 common ways that people are controlled. At the end is a detailed prayer to take back your true identity and break free of control. 0:00" Introduction to this episode3:10" Labels6:00" Trauma and Vows8:03" Addictions10:00" Cultural Trends12:20" Extreme Self-Promotion or Rebellion13:40" A life aligned with God19:23" Prayer for Break Through from Control✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/🎥 Video: Habits, Addictions & Unwanted Behavior https://youtu.be/m7nQH4UPAcM?si=uFPEnu88MrlC_4ML✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1 #christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

If you are looking for more peace and order in your life, you may need to look at your boundaries! This is episode #153 of #lifewithoutbaggage . This is taken from a chapter from my book "Anxiety, Depression & Helplessness: Keys to Break Free" 📘 https://a.co/d/51pNfZQ0:00" Introduction to this Episode2:30" Why Boundaries are necessary for our peace and safety4:10" What are Walls and what are Boundaries?8:05" TYPES of Boundaries we need for personal PEACE11:20" People Pleasing and Problems with Boundaries13:50" Are my boundaries HEALTHY or UNHEALTHY?19:05" Boundaries, Tolerance, and Discernment21:50" Scriptures and Common Sense regarding boundaries

🧳Leave me a message about the baggage you released https://www.speakpipe.com/LifeWithoutBaggage📘Get a copy of the workbook "Life Without Baggage" https://a.co/d/auRJCkk✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Are You Trapped in a Vow?https://youtu.be/0lIRrg6GtFA?si=Q9W2lcRioz84sUFZ👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

A short bit of encouragement from my personal studies on how to protect your true self in spite of the chaos or discouragement around you. This is a Bonus episode of #lifewithoutbaggage.

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Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage