There are things to DO, things to AVOID, and things to LEARN after a breakup or divorce. People who have been through trauma or abuse tend to get stuck in their choices of partners, approach to relationships, and grieving. These tips can help you move forward even if you are a survivor of trauma or abuse. I presented this topic at the HealHer Summit. This is #157 of my podcast #Lifewithoutbaggage .0:00" Introduction to the episode2:36" Things to do: Journal strategies, attitudes and self talk, supports, and items that remind you of the relationship11:45" Things to AVOID: interactions, self-blame, media, tips for handling situations when you have kids together17:15" Things to LEARN about yourself and relationships so that you don't make similar mistakes when you are ready to find a new partner.✅ Important Links: 🎧 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V🌐 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ 🎥 Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #doctorinsights #counseling #copingsytategies #mentalhealth #podcastsforwomen #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

Your view of yourself, other people, and God develops early in life. In this interview from Dr. Kim, I explain these factors and how to overcome TOXIC GUILT. This is a bonus episode from my podcast.0:00" Introduction to the episode1:24" How your family environment shapes your view of God, yourself, and others10:33" Parenting and guilt12:40" Toxic parents and scapegoats13:34 Chronic guilt17:36" Attitudes that Promote Healing21:09" Overcoming toxic guilt and shame27:03" Closing comments ✅ Important Links: 🎧 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V🌐 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/🎙️ Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ 🎥 Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #doctorinsights #counseling #copingstrategies tategies #mentalhealth #podcastsforwomen #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

In this episode, I talk about the ways that trauma or abuse impacts a person physically, emotionally, relationally, and spiritually. This is episode #156 of my podcast #lifewithoutbaggage .0:00" Introduction to the Episode1:30" The impact on the body4:23" The impact of unmet needs, overdriven needs, and addictions6:30" Getting stuck in emotions. defenses, being overly busy, or control and rescuing14:15" Becoming passive (learned helplessness)17:10" Spiritual impact of abuse or trauma19:45" Tips and Strategies for growth23:15" A Prayer of Blessing✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper👉 FREE eBook on Dreams https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.comhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeingDisclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.© Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage