DON'T PICK THE SCAB PODCAST

By: David M. Webb
  • Summary

  • MEN OVER 40 + DIVORCE = dumpster fire in a stressful situation. The word DIVORCE can shake men to their core and can be a very hard pill to swallow. Divorce can be an emotionally devastating experience, especially for men over 40. My new podcast, "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast", provides an open platform for divorced men to share their stories, find support, and gain tools for recovery. Going through divorce in midlife or later presents unique challenges. Long-term marriages ending often means having to start over in major ways - financially, socially, and in terms of identity. Men over 40 face the difficulty of rebuilding and establishing a new normal at an age where change may be harder. Processing the emotional trauma of divorce is a major hurdle as well. Feelings of failure, regret, bitterness, grief, and anger are common. Working through these emotions in a healthy, constructive way is critical. Don't Pick the Scab Podcast gives divorced men over 40 a chance to share their vulnerabilities, get insights from experts, and know they are not alone in this transition. My goal is to foster understanding, encourage growth, and equip men to embrace life after divorce. Divorce recovery takes time, effort, and support. Through personal stories and practical guidance, this podcast aims to help men over 40 find hope, meaning, and purpose on the other side of marital split. By tackling these struggles together, we can overcome obstacles and successfully navigate our new realities. Join me as we walk the path of divorce recovery one step at a time. Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
    David Webb
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Episodes
  • From Sailing to Healing: Alan’s Journey Through Divorce, Cancer, and Success || DPTSP #093 || David
    Apr 17 2025

    🎙️ Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab" Podcast, hosted by David. Today’s episode features an unforgettable conversation with Alan Salas, a man whose journey redefines resilience, reinvention, and purpose. Alan's life is a testament to the power of transformation, and his story will leave you inspired to take control of your own life.


    Alan’s incredible journey began on the open seas, living on a sailboat while managing a thriving boat rental business in the South of France. Seeking deeper meaning, he sold everything, moved to the U.S., and pursued his dream of becoming a chiropractic physician. 🇺🇸 But life threw Alan some major curveballs: bankruptcy, divorce, and a colon cancer diagnosis. Instead of giving up, Alan turned his struggles into stepping stones, creating a revolutionary 3-step mind-clearing system designed to help others overcome limiting beliefs and live fulfilling lives. 💡

    In this episode, Alan shares: 👉 The symbolism of freedom and how it shaped his life 🌊 👉 How divorce and illness forced him to redefine priorities 🔄 👉 The power of the subconscious mind and how it controls 95% of our thoughts 🤯 👉 His groundbreaking 3-step mind-clearing system to remove limiting beliefs and embrace success 🧠 👉 Essential advice for men over 40 navigating divorce, co-parenting, and self-care 💪 👉 Why self-care is the key to being a better father, partner, and man 🌟


    Alan’s story will empower you to take charge of your mindset, reframe your challenges, and create the life you’ve always wanted. Whether you’re recovering from divorce or just looking for a fresh start, this episode is for you. Don't miss it! 🚀


    💬 What part of Alan’s story resonated most with you? Share your thoughts in the comments below! Remember to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell 🔔 to stay updated with our latest episodes. Let's build a supportive community together. 💙


    Alain on YouTube

    -https://www.youtube.com/@dralainsalas8754


    Alain’s Website

    -https://themindclearing.com/



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    26 mins
  • 💪 Men's Mental Health After Divorce: Unlocking Strength & Self-Discovery || DPTSP #092 || David M. Webb
    Apr 14 2025

    Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast! 🎙️ I'm your host, David, and today we have an enlightening conversation with Ives T. Mukanya, a remarkable mental health counselor and transformational coach. Originally from the Democratic Republic of Congo, Ive brings a wealth of experience from the pharmaceutical industry and a deep commitment to helping men navigate the emotional challenges that often accompany divorce.


    In this episode, we delve into the often-overlooked struggles that men face after divorce, including stress, depression, and low self-esteem. 💔 Many men suffer in silence, internalizing their pain instead of seeking the support they need. But it doesn’t have to be this way! Join us as we explore practical strategies for healing, embracing self-discovery, and reclaiming your identity after a life-altering event.

    Ive shares his personal journey and insights on the importance of forgiveness, self-care, and building a supportive community. He emphasizes that seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a courageous step towards recovery. We discuss how men can break free from the stigma of suffering in silence and learn to express their emotions in healthy ways.

    Throughout our conversation, we touch on the significance of reconnecting with one’s passions and interests, which can often be lost during marriage. 🌟 Whether it’s picking up a new hobby, engaging in physical fitness, or simply rediscovering what brings joy, these steps are crucial for rebuilding self-esteem and identity.

    Ive also addresses the critical role of forgiveness—not just for others, but for oneself. He explains how letting go of past grievances can liberate you from emotional burdens and allow you to move forward with a renewed sense of purpose.


    As we navigate the complexities of co-parenting, we discuss how to maintain a healthy relationship with your ex-partner, even when tensions run high. Communication strategies and emotional regulation are key themes, as we explore how to prioritize your well-being while being the best father you can be.


    👉 Call to Action: If you found this episode helpful, please leave a comment below! Share your thoughts or experiences, and let’s support each other on this journey of recovery. Don’t forget to like and subscribe for more empowering content!


    All Things Ives Mukanya


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    33 mins
  • How to Thrive Financially After Divorce | Expert Advice for Men 40+ || DPTSP #091 || David M. Webb
    Mar 30 2025

    💬 Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab" Podcast, where host David helps men over 40 heal, thrive, and conquer life after divorce! In this episode, we're joined by financial expert Steve Schleupner, a seasoned planner with over 20 years of experience specializing in divorce transitions. 💼

    Steve dives deep into the unique challenges men face when managing their finances post-divorce, from housing transitions to understanding retirement accounts and tax implications. He shares actionable advice to help you navigate the storm and rebuild your wealth with clarity and confidence. 🌟

    💡 Topics we cover in this episode:

    • The #1 financial mistake men make during divorce (and how to avoid it) 🚨

    • How to master housing transitions in today’s high-interest market 🏡

    • Understanding the hidden costs of dividing assets 💵

    • Why legacy planning is crucial for your post-divorce peace of mind 📜

    • Developing a positive financial mindset after divorce 💪

    🔥 Steve also shares his personal story of overcoming financial fears after his own divorce and how he uses his expertise to empower other men to regain control of their lives. Whether you're dealing with alimony, child support, or simply figuring out how to start over, this episode is packed with insights you don’t want to miss.

    👂 Tune in now to transform your financial future after divorce!

    💬 Got questions about finances or divorce recovery? Share your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear your story and tips for others! 👇

    👉 Find Steve Schleupner:

    Website: www.youtreecoaching.com

    Podcast: A Man's Journey Through Divorce

    🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes designed to help men over 40 rebuild, recover, and thrive after divorce!

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    32 mins
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