Janice is a life-coach and an Enneagram 3, and at the time of this interview she is 84 years old. We explore her past relationships, the life-long inner tension between doing "what's expected of me" vs "what I want," and what parts of the Type 3 structure still drive her at her life stage. Enjoy.

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Timestamps

0:00 - Intro

2:40 - Janice's Enneagram history

6:40 - "I can do anything I want to do", the little engine that could

10:00 - Freedom vs the 'shoulds' of life

11:51 - Stances of 'withholding' throughout life; power or protection

13:50 - Rebelling against pressures, superego vs authentic kindness

16:03 - Being nice or feeling responsible, 'not needing' blocks ability to receive

17:08 - "I'm an Amazon woman"... NOT a "little old lady" -- and, shifting to receive

22:07 - Type 3 framework, needing to be seen as valuable and admirable, "the drive for the fundamental"

29:25 - Janice's relationship with growing old, trusting the body, growing intensity

32:55 - Memory, removing the clutter, trusting in presence

36:19 - Relationships, frustration/anger, 7's difficulty with processing 'darker' emotions

39:57 - Going through Janice's four relationships

43:49 - Getting out of a depression, looking at mindsets objectively

46:22 - Taking care of someone in decline, the freedom of stepping back

49:02 - Being in the happiest time of life, having no shame in answering questions, being at peace with the 'lacking' parts of self

58:25 - Outro

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