
Where You Go Is Not Who You'll Be
An Antidote to the College Admissions Mania
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Frank Bruni
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Frank Bruni
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Over the last few decades, Americans have turned college admissions into a terrifying and occasionally devastating process, preceded by test prep, tutors, all sorts of stratagems, all kinds of rankings, and a conviction among too many young people that their futures will be determined and their worth established by which schools say yes and which say no.
That belief is wrong. It's cruel. And in Where You Go Is Not Who You'll Be, Frank Bruni explains why, giving students and their parents a new perspective on this brutal, deeply flawed competition and a path out of the anxiety it provokes.
Bruni, a best-selling author and a columnist for the New York Times, shows that the Ivy League has no monopoly on corner offices, governors' mansions, or the most prestigious academic and scientific grants. Through statistics, surveys, and the stories of hugely successful people who didn't attend the most exclusive schools, he demonstrates that many kinds of colleges - large public universities, tiny hideaways in the hinterlands - serve as ideal springboards. And he illuminates how to make the most of them. What matters in the end are a student's efforts in and out of the classroom, not the gleam of his or her diploma.
Where you go isn't who you'll be. Americans need to hear that - and this indispensable manifesto says it with eloquence and respect for the real promise of higher education.
©2015 Frank Bruni (P)2014 Hachette AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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How to Teach Relativity to Your Dog
- By: Chad Orzel
- Narrated by: Will Collyer, Cassandra Morris
- Length: 9 hrs and 54 mins
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They say you can't teach an old dog new tricks. But what about relativity? Physics professor Chad Orzel and his inquisitive canine companion, Emmy, tackle the concepts of general relativity in this irresistible introduction to Einstein's physics. Through armchair- and sometimes passenger-seat-conversations with Emmy about the relative speeds of dog and cat motion or the logistics of squirrel-chasing, Orzel translates complex Einsteinian ideas into examples simple enough for a dog to understand.
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Amazing!
- By Anonymous User on 11-08-23
By: Chad Orzel
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Fascinate, Revised and Updated
- How to Make Your Brand Impossible to Resist
- By: Sally Hogshead
- Narrated by: Sally Hogshead
- Length: 7 hrs and 39 mins
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A newly revised and updated edition of the influential guide that explores one of the most powerful ways to attract attention and influence behavior - fascination - and how businesses, products, and ideas can become irresistible to consumers. In an oversaturated culture defined by limited time and focus, how do we draw attention to our messages, our ideas, and our products when we have only seconds to compete?
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Motivational, but lacks substance!
- By Melanie Iannaggi on 09-15-17
By: Sally Hogshead
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Schopenhauer's Porcupines
- Intimacy and Its Dilemmas: Five Stories of Psychotherapy
- By: Deborah Anna Luepnitz
- Narrated by: Deborah Anna Luepnitz
- Length: 8 hrs and 15 mins
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Each generation of therapists can boast of only a few writers like Deborah Luepnitz, whose sympathy and wit shine in her fine, luminous prose. In Schopenhauer's Porcupines, she recounts five true stories from her practice, stories of patients who range from the super-rich to the destitute, who grapple with panic attacks, psychosomatic illness, marital despair, and sexual recklessness. Intimate, original, and triumphantly funny, Schopenhauer's Porcupines goes further than any other book in illuminating "how talking helps".
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Poignant listen
- By Robert B. Davis on 08-23-21
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The First 21
- A Memoir
- By: Nikki Sixx
- Narrated by: Nikki Sixx
- Length: 5 hrs and 29 mins
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Rock-and-roll icon and three-time best-selling author Nikki Sixx tells his origin story: how Frank Feranna became Nikki Sixx, chronicling his fascinating journey from irrepressible Idaho farmboy to the man who formed the revolutionary rock group Mötley Crüe.
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Surprised but great advice too
- By nancy macintosh on 10-19-21
By: Nikki Sixx
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College (Un)Bound
- The Future of Higher Education and What It Means for Students
- By: Jeffrey J. Selingo
- Narrated by: Fred Stella
- Length: 9 hrs and 22 mins
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What is the value of a college degree? The four-year college experience is as American as apple pie. So is the belief that higher education offers a ticket to a better life. But with student-loan debt surpassing the $1 trillion mark and unemployment of college graduates at historic highs, people are beginning to question that value. In College (Un)Bound, Jeffrey J. Selingo, editor at large of the Chronicle of Higher Education, argues that America’s higher education system is broken.
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Interesting anecdotes but unclear thesis
- By EmilyK on 08-08-15
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The Beauty of Dusk
- On Vision Lost and Found
- By: Frank Bruni
- Narrated by: Frank Bruni
- Length: 8 hrs and 46 mins
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One morning in late 2017, New York Times columnist Frank Bruni woke up with strangely blurred vision. He wondered at first if some goo or gunk had worked its way into his right eye. But this was no fleeting annoyance, no fixable inconvenience.
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A peek into holding life in a positive attitude
- By R. Klein on 08-13-22
By: Frank Bruni
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Simple Abundance
- 365 Days to a Balanced and Joyful Life
- By: Sarah Ban Breathnach
- Narrated by: Sarah Ban Breathnach
- Length: 33 hrs and 20 mins
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First published in 1995, Simple Abundance topped the New York Times best-seller list for over two years and is responsible for introducing two hugely popular concepts - the "Gratitude Journal" and the term "Authentic Self". With daily inspirational meditations and reflections, the Simple Abundance phenomenon became a touchstone for a generation of women, helping them to reclaim their true selves, find balance during life's busiest moments, and rediscover what makes them truly happy.
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Loved It
- By Rita Mahoney on 02-19-20
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The Power of Awareness
- And Other Secrets from the World's Foremost Spies, Detectives, and Special Operators on How to Stay Safe and Save Your Life
- By: Dan Schilling
- Narrated by: Dan Schilling
- Length: 7 hrs and 6 mins
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In his empowering book, Dan Schilling shares how to identify and avoid threats using situational awareness and intuition just like the pros. Told with wit and wisdom, this compelling guide uses harrowing stories from Dan's special operations career and those of other experts to outline six easily implemented rules you can apply anywhere to improve your personal safety.
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Good information but a miss on delivery possibly
- By HonestBuyer on 04-30-23
By: Dan Schilling
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Hard Times Create Strong Men
- Why the World Craves Leadership and How You Can Step Up to Fill the Need
- By: Stefan Aarnio
- Narrated by: Stefan Aarnio
- Length: 16 hrs and 13 mins
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What does it mean to be a man in the modern world? Throughout history, being a man has meant different things. Maybe being a man was about being a good hunter, or a good soldier, a good businessman, or maybe good with women. Hard Times Create Strong Men examines what it means to be a man in the modern world relative to money, sex, religion, and politics. This audiobook examines what worked and what doesn’t work based on proven history instead of feelings.
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The first half is pretty good, the second half...
- By Daniel Lee on 07-09-20
By: Stefan Aarnio
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Never Enough
- When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic—and What We Can Do About It
- By: Jennifer Breheny Wallace
- Narrated by: Jennifer Breheny Wallace
- Length: 8 hrs and 21 mins
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In the ever more competitive race to secure the best possible future, today’s students face unprecedented pressure to succeed. They jam-pack their schedules with AP classes, fill every waking hour with resume-padding activities, and even sabotage relationships with friends to “get ahead.” Family incomes and schedules are stretched to the breaking point by tutoring fees and athletic schedules. Yet this drive to optimize performance has only resulted in skyrocketing rates of anxiety, depression, and even self-harm in America’s highest achieving schools.
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If you live or work in one of these communities, you will see yourself
- By Paula on 09-04-23
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- Ursilia
- 04-02-19
A True Antidote
I was rejected from Harvard, Princeton and Duke. This book really helped me that my life didn’t end with those rejections–it has simply begun with them.
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- Free Nibor
- 04-09-19
Eye-opening, profound
This book has helped me so much! I was already leaning toward the conclusions Bruni draws, but his extensive data collection and reporting has helped me be at peace with recognizing the near-scam higher education has become, and will, in turn, help me let my children become the happy people I want them to be. I’ve recommended this to so many people!
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- Anonymous User
- 02-18-23
THIS
Exactly my sentiments, exactly my experience. Many roads lead to Rome, but regardless of the road, hard work is the yeast that raises the dough.
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- Leah Holbrook
- 09-16-22
Terrific
This should be a mandatory read for parents and their kids anticipating college. Frank Bruni delivers again.
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- Robert Kitts
- 11-26-22
Excellent read
Anyone with kids should read this especially if they are in high school and planning to apply to colleges.
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- John Zajaros
- 07-01-15
Excellent!
This should be required reading for anyone beginning the college application process! Absolutely essential listening/reading!
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- AmazonCustomer
- 08-20-15
Excellent advice and grounding
Thank you, Mr. Bruni. We appreciate all your work for this most valuable book. So does our rising high school senior.
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- Amazon Customer
- 04-07-22
Every parent should read this book.
Every parent should read this book. It is geared for families with means but there is a lot to learn in here for everyone.
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- Xmeromotu
- 12-04-19
Required Reading for Parents!
This is a book about why running around trying to mold your child into the perfect college candidate is absolutely the wrong way to parent. About why luck and intuition and, yes, trusting your child are so much more important.
Look at the idiots who have landed themselves in prison for cheating on applications. How different, really, is the mad chase for the “perfect” college. I went to a college I learned about from a brochure they sent me after the SAT. It was perfect, though few have ever heard of it. I still managed to get into a very nice law school. 🤣. Trying to avoid rankings is almost impossible! This is exactly the problem.
Read the book. Your children will thank you.
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- M_BTV
- 05-18-15
A relatable and relevant book for our time
I really enjoyed listening and reading this book. I can certainly relate to the stories in this book even after 20 years ago going through the insane process of applying for colleges. The outcomes related in Bruni's stories are what I have seen happen to peers and others who I have met. The secret to Ivies is to not attend them as undergraduates. I learned when I went to an Ivy as a graduate student that revenue derived from undergraduate tuition was really applied toward supporting research and graduate programs. At the end of the day, I was happy to have gotten a lot out of my small state university education and to walk out without debt.
The performance was good overall, although it was slightly confusing that midway through chapter 5 Frank Bruni stopped reading and some other narrator started reading the remainder of the book. I wonder why that person wasn't credited and why Bruni stopped midway.
I am certainly going to share this book with peers.
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