
Toxic Positivity
Keeping It Real in a World Obsessed with Being Happy
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Whitney Goodman LMFT
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A powerful guide to owning our emotions—even the difficult ones—in order to show up authentically in the world, from the popular therapist behind the Instagram account @sitwithwhit.
Every day, we’re bombarded with pressure to be positive. From “good vibes only” and “life is good” memes, to endless advice, to “look on the bright side,” we’re constantly told that the key to happiness is silencing negativity wherever it crops up, in ourselves and in others. Even when faced with illness, loss, breakups, and other challenges, there’s little space for talking about our real feelings—and processing them so that we can feel better and move forward.
But if all this positivity is the answer, why are so many of us anxious, depressed, and burned out?
In this refreshingly honest guide, sought-after therapist Whitney Goodman shares the latest research along with everyday examples and client stories that reveal how damaging toxic positivity is to ourselves and our relationships, and presents simple ways to experience and work through difficult emotions. The result is more authenticity, connection, and growth—and ultimately, a path to showing up as you truly are.
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Critic reviews
“More than a self-help book, this is a society-help book. It’s ambitious but based on the simple idea of being, as Goodman describes herself, ‘radically honest’ with each other. And it’s about not pushing don’t-worry-be-happy talk on everyone around you, including yourself. Isn’t that something to (genuinely) smile about?”
--Kimberly Harrington, The Washington Post
“I‘ll be forever changed by Toxic Positivity—before offering words of validation, I will choose what I say wisely. Whitney Goodman’s book unlocks the difference between being helpful and harmful. This trailblazing book will help you transform your perspective about positivity.“ --Nedra Glover Tawwab, bestselling author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace
"Sorely needed….Whitney Goodman elegantly weaves together her personal and clinical experience, academic research and practical advice to offer us a refreshing antidote to the seemingly innocuous but ultimately harmful message of ‘good vibes only.’" --Iris McAlpin, trauma professional
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- Length: 11 hrs and 26 mins
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We've all experienced brain fog - misplaced keys, forgotten facts, a general feeling that you're just feeling off today. And many of us will experience that "fog" manifesting as something more permanent - either in ourselves or our loved ones. No matter what your current brain health state may be, You Can Fix Your Brain will enable and empower you to take concrete steps that will make an immediate difference in your brain’s vitality, clarity, and energy. Your memory will improve, fogginess will disappear, you’ll be less tired all the time, and much more.
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Repetitive until the last three chapters.
- By Toni on 10-20-18
By: Tom O'Bryan, and others
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Small Talk
- 10 ADHD Lies and How to Stop Believing Them
- By: Richard Pink, Roxanne Pink
- Narrated by: Richard Pink, Roxanne Pink
- Length: 6 hrs and 26 mins
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The beloved authors of Dirty Laundry break down the harmful stereotypes about people with ADHD to help you stop being your worst fear-leader, start bigging yourself up, and live your best neurodivergent life.
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I don’t have words and I am 36 min in
- By Ashley Snyder on 10-27-24
By: Richard Pink, and others
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How to Calm Your Mind
- Finding Presence and Productivity in Anxious Times
- By: Chris Bailey
- Narrated by: Chris Bailey
- Length: 8 hrs and 3 mins
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It took an on-stage panic attack for productivity expert Chris Bailey to recognize how critical it is to invest in calm at the same time that we invest in becoming more productive. Productivity advice works—and we need it now more than ever—but it’s just as vital that we develop our capacity for calm.
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Amazing
- By Dennis ILIN on 01-05-23
By: Chris Bailey
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Brain Wash
- Detox Your Mind for Clearer Thinking, Deeper Relationships, and Lasting Happiness
- By: David Perlmutter MD, Austin Perlmutter MD, Kristin Loberg
- Narrated by: Peter Ganim
- Length: 7 hrs and 17 mins
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Contemporary life provides us with infinite opportunities, along with endless temptations. We can eat whatever we want, whenever we want. We can buy goods and services for rapid delivery. But living in this 24/7 hyper-reality poses serious risks to our physical and mental states, our connections to others, and even to the world at large. Brain Wash builds from a simple premise: Our brains are being gravely manipulated, resulting in behaviors that leave us more lonely, anxious, depressed, distrustful, illness-prone, and overweight than ever before.
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Poor performance and poor writing.
- By Julie on 01-21-20
By: David Perlmutter MD, and others
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Undoing Depression
- What Therapy Doesn't Teach You and Medication Can't Give You
- By: Richard O'Connor PhD
- Narrated by: Allan Robertson
- Length: 12 hrs and 35 mins
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Depression rates around the world have skyrocketed in the 20‑plus years since Richard O'Connor first published his classic book on living with and overcoming depression. Nearly 40 million American adults suffer from the condition, which affects nearly every aspect of life, from relationships to job performance, physical health, productivity, and, of course, overall happiness. And in an increasingly stressful and overwhelming world, it's more important than ever to understand the causes and effects of depression, and what we can do to overcome it.
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Me sacó del pozo
- By Ignacio Basello on 04-18-24
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Smart, Not Loud
- How to Get Noticed at Work for All the Right Reasons
- By: Jessica Chen
- Narrated by: Jessica Chen
- Length: 6 hrs and 36 mins
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Building on the lessons she learned as an award-winning TV news journalist, Chen—who now speaks at Fortune 100 companies and whose LinkedIn Learning courses have been watched by over 2 million people—introduces a new way of getting noticed at work, without being loud, aggressive, or boastful. In Smart, Not Loud, Chen teaches listeners how they can look within, to the values they already hold, to more effectively show up.
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Had high hopes but disappointed.
- By michael perry on 03-09-25
By: Jessica Chen
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The All-or-Nothing Marriage
- How the Best Marriages Work
- By: Eli J. Finkel
- Narrated by: Mark Deakins
- Length: 8 hrs and 15 mins
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Eli J. Finkel's insightful and ground-breaking investigation of marriage clearly shows that the best marriages today are better than the best marriages of earlier eras. Indeed, they are the best marriages the world has ever known. He presents his findings here for the first time in this lucid, inspiring guide to modern marital bliss.
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just read the fourth section
- By James Caviness on 01-04-18
By: Eli J. Finkel
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The Power of Meaning
- Crafting a Life That Matters
- By: Emily Esfahani Smith
- Narrated by: Mozhan Marnò
- Length: 7 hrs and 17 mins
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This wise, stirring book argues that the search for meaning can immeasurably deepen our lives and is far more fulfilling than the pursuit of personal happiness. There is a myth in our culture that the search for meaning is some esoteric pursuit - that you have to travel to a distant monastery or page through dusty volumes to figure out life's great secret. The truth is, there are untapped sources of meaning all around us - right here, right now.
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Meandering
- By LS on 09-27-17
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Grow the F*ck Up
- How to Be an Adult and Get Treated Like One
- By: Sarah Knight
- Narrated by: Sarah Knight
- Length: 4 hrs and 54 mins
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Whether you’re freshly of-age or you’ve been at this adulting gig for a while and haven’t quite gotten the hang of it, this collection of practical, no-nonsense advice from New York Times bestselling “anti-guru” Sarah Knight will help you achieve your ideal grown-up form—and reap the rewards. Putting her sweary, hilarious twist on classic parental decrees like “Stop whining” and “Go clean up that mess!,” Sarah teaches you essential life skills—like effectively communicating your needs and taking accountability for your actions.
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Quick Fast Amazing down to Earth Guide
- By Princess on 01-29-24
By: Sarah Knight
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The Alchemy of Your Dreams
- A Modern Guide to the Ancient Art of Lucid Dreaming and Interpretation
- By: Athena Laz
- Narrated by: Athena Laz
- Length: 6 hrs and 25 mins
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We know that sleep is vital for rest and rejuvenation, but what if this time could be used for something more? What if our dreams really are telling us something? Psychologist and dream expert Athena Laz has dedicated her career to uncovering the wisdom of our dreams and revolutionizing what it means to be in touch with ourselves and the universe. Packed with exercises and step-by-step instructions, The Alchemy of Your Dreams teaches listeners how to interpret their dreams in order to achieve more in their waking lives.
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Way different than I expected. But very good!
- By Destiny on 11-16-22
By: Athena Laz
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Better Than Before
- Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives
- By: Gretchen Rubin
- Narrated by: Gretchen Rubin
- Length: 9 hrs and 33 mins
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The author of the blockbuster New York Times best sellers The Happiness Project and Happier at Home tackles the critical question: How do we change? Gretchen Rubin's answer: through habits. Habits are the invisible architecture of everyday life. It takes work to make a habit, but once that habit is set, we can harness the energy of habits to build happier, stronger, more productive lives.
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Don't Waste Your Money
- By Stacie M on 04-23-15
By: Gretchen Rubin
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The Karma of Success
- Spiritual Strategies to Free Your Inner Genius
- By: Liz Tran
- Narrated by: Liz Tran
- Length: 5 hrs and 26 mins
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Most of the traditional advice about getting ahead focuses on managing other people’s impressions of you. It’s all about how to network with impressive people and accommodate yourself to people with status and power. Executive coach Liz Tran asks you to forget about those people, and instead, train yourself to listen to and be guided by your innermost voice. From tech to spiritual leadership and executive coaching, Tran has charted her own path by learning how to tune into her intuition and be true to her Inner Genius.
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The most un-pretentious self help book
- By Absolutely insane price on 07-26-24
By: Liz Tran
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Brag Better
- Master the Art of Fearless Self-Promotion
- By: Meredith Fineman
- Narrated by: Meredith Fineman
- Length: 7 hrs and 6 mins
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Does talking about your accomplishments feel scary or icky because you're worried people will think you're "obnoxious"? Does it feel more natural to "put your head down and do the work"? Are you tired of watching the loudest people in your industry get disproportionate praise and rewards? If you answered "yes" to any of the above, you might be self-sabotaging. You need to learn to brag better. Meredith Fineman shares the surefire and anxiety-proof strategies that have helped her clients effectively communicate their achievements and skill sets to others.
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A very motivating and helpful book
- By SAE on 07-04-20
By: Meredith Fineman
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The Four Tendencies
- The Indispensable Personality Profiles That Reveal How to Make Your Life Better (and Other People's Lives Better, Too)
- By: Gretchen Rubin
- Narrated by: Gretchen Rubin
- Length: 6 hrs and 37 mins
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During her multi-book investigation into understanding human nature, Gretchen Rubin realized that by asking the seemingly dry question “How do I respond to expectations?” we gain explosive self-knowledge. She discovered that based on their answer, people fit into Four Tendencies: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels. Our Tendency shapes every aspect of our behavior, so using this framework allows us to make better decisions, meet deadlines, suffer less stress, and engage more effectively.
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Terrible, Repetitive, and Filled with Bad Advice
- By T. Hadnot on 03-08-18
By: Gretchen Rubin
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- JuliAnn
- 09-14-22
I wish everyone would read this!
This author’s explanation of the effects of the positivity movement on our current culture is spot on and reading this was very affirming and powerful.
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- Shelly En
- 02-11-22
Fantastic, especially for people with chronic illness / disability
If you have a chronic illness / disability or care about someone who does, this book is a must read! The amount of toxic positivity our community faces on a DAILY basis from (usually well-meaning people) is enough to drive anyone insane with feelings of frustration, invalidation, isolation. This book won’t cure your illness / disability, BUT, it will validate your experience and make you feel more sane.
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- Mallory Parks
- 04-12-22
Life isn't Roses
It was good to hear a different yet interesting narrative that provoked realistic insights mixed with everyday struggles... it made you take accountability for your own toxic yet positive behaviors(unbeknownst to yourself) and made you think more on ways to have more compassion for yourself and others.
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- Morgan G
- 11-27-22
Loved it
Longtime follower of her instagram account & I absolutely loved her book. The book is loaded with examples how positivity is forced on us. There’s many examples how to be more authentic with ourselves and with others, instead of conforming to toxic positivity.
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- Elizabeth
- 05-27-22
Learned loads!
Loved it! Taught me alot about some of the things I've questioned in the past..
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- lucía
- 07-17-23
Recommending
I am recommending this to all my positively toxic friends! But really, it made many solid points regarding negativity and how it’s not a bad thing. Well researched!
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- J333
- 02-11-25
I wish everyone read this to learn what to say when someone dies etc and the book is very validating
This is so helpful to learn what to say when your friend lost their job or has grief about losing a loved one. The book also made me feel validated when most of the time in my life, my feelings are dismissed by my friends, family, and partner. People don't know what to say when their friend has an illness and there's a lot of toxic positivity out there like "turn a positive into a negative" etc and while that may be good, it shames people when they're going through hard times and have strong, negative emotions. This book will help you feel validated, understand what toxic positivity is and examples, and help you avoid using toxic positivity towards others and learn more healthy responses to use instead.
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- Lucy
- 03-06-22
Best book I’ve read in a long time
Chapter 1 where she goes into the history of toxic positivity was so eye opening for me. The book continued to get better and better as it went on. It was a bit slow though so I listened at 1.4x, which seemed to be the perfect speed.
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- Michelle
- 02-19-22
Interesting Read
I am terrible at writing reviews. This book is an interesting read. The “think good thoughts and good things will happen” just may be a bit gimmicky.
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- Shelby
- 01-09-23
What I was looking for
Good easy read/ listen. So glad to find a book on this topic. Loved the reframing of negativity- there are no negative people. Thanks.
I had no issue with her voice- enjoyed this a lot!
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