
Things to Ask Yourself Before Separation and Divorce for Men
24 Questions to Help You Navigate Through a Toxic Relationship and Decide Whether to Stay or Go
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James Aguilar
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If you’re tired of being with your toxic girlfriend or wife and are seriously thinking about leaving her, then keep reading....
You had enough of her shit. You ran out of ways to make things right and now wonder if it’s even worth staying with her. She won’t admit it, but you think she is crazy or even a narcissist. She got you thinking you are crazy and everything is your fault. She’s so focused on being the victim, making you the bad guy. No matter what you do, it’s never good enough for her. She complains about everything but never takes responsibility for her actions. She won’t listen to you, nor will she change. She thinks you are the problem. You’ve reached your limit and need to make a change in your life.
In Things to Ask Yourself Before Separation and Divorce for Men, you’ll discover:
- Not having this one thing with your girlfriend or wife is a clear indication that your relationship will fail
- Why separation and divorce may be right for you even if you’ve been together for years
- How you can better understand her crazy ways by knowing yourself more
- What to do when she keeps on bringing up divorce
- How having sex with her doesn’t guarantee a lasting relationship
- Why you might be better off being single than staying together with her
And, much more.
You don’t have to be a psychologist to know if your girlfriend or wife is not right for you. Life can be better for you after separation or divorce. Some couples aren’t meant to stay together. Even if you’ve done everything right and are the best boyfriend or husband ever, that doesn’t mean she deserves to be with you.
If you really want to know if you should stay or go, then you should listen to this audiobook.
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- Will
- 02-04-22
Helps you ask the tough questions
In a day and age where I feel everyone is getting divorced this is a great book to see where your relationship stands. James makes you ask the hard questions and helped me weed through the toxicness of my relationship. If you are seriously contemplating divorce give this a listen before you pull the trigger.
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- Yas
- 01-23-22
Interesting take on healing relationships
This audiobook had me intrigued from the very beginning. It is a straight-to-the-point audiobook that allows for some basic introspection. The story told here is likely to sound familiar to many. An interesting listen!
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- Kevin
- 01-24-22
Straight to the point
Enjoyed listening to this audiobook straight to point with the question and after listening we have decided to work on things thanks would recommend this
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- Anar
- 01-31-22
based on author's reflection about his marriage
the book is mostly the author's reflection about his previous marriage. Many points are quite common though. You will choose of course what you agree and what you disagree with, but many questions raised in the book demonstrate how much the very concept of marriage degraded from what it used to be for millennia.
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- Taha
- 01-24-22
Decent learning !
Every man should listen to this short listen, 24 questions to have a clear vision about your relationship to decide whether you will suffer or not ... the questions trigger many patterns in your head and the answers make you understand who you are with and if she is the MRS RIGHT OR NOT. Well done
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- Stacy Heard
- 01-20-23
Things to ask yourself before divorce
This book helped me be a better husband to my wife, and communicating to my wife about things I need from her. Thank you!
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- Kozby
- 06-10-24
Good Questions to ask.
Author’s honesty and him being open to sharing his personal life stood out. The book is short and concise. Anyone asking that question about their marriage could find this book helpful.
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- MAS
- 12-31-24
OMG!
This book is amazing! Throughout the entire reading it was like the author was me because what he speaks to is exactly what I’ve experienced. I just kept saying OMG the entire time. Wow!!!
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- Jen OD
- 01-25-22
Great resource for men
Lots of men find it difficult to make rationale decisions when their emotions are running high. This audio book helps you gauge your relationship from a logical perspective. Thought provoking questions enable you to evaluate Whether your relationship is worth saving or whether it's best for both of you to part ways.
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- Justin & Stacie Clayton
- 04-15-22
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No matter your story, consider the things you should ask yourself. When you do, listen to this. In less than 2 hours, you’ll ask yourself thing you haven’t asked yet. You know the answers. You know the issues that matter to you. The point is, take a quick journey toward self-discovery.
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