
Men's Guide to Surviving Divorce with Kids
30 Tips on Successful Coparenting with a Toxic Ex and 10 Steps to Raising Happy Children
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Ross Pipkin
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James Aguilar
About this listen
Do you want to know how to have a successful relationship with your children’s mother after divorce? Then keep listening.
You’re finally divorced, but you still have to be around your toxic ex because of the kids.
She still finds a way to make things more complex and complicated for you because that’s just how she is.
You have to fight, tooth and nail, to spend more minutes, hours, and days with your kids.
You have your good and bad days with her. Things may seem to be getting better between you over time.
You can see yourself having a healthy co-parenting relationship while you work together to raise your kids.
Your kids are getting used to having two homes as you cherish every moment with them.
In Surviving Divorce with Kids, you’ll discover:
- Having this one thing will help you get through where you are now to the healthy co-parenting relationship that works best for you and your kids
- There’s still hope for you when you don’t get your way from the divorce and after
- The ways to raise happy children, regardless of the relationship you have with your ex
- Why using this particular phone app will smooth things out with your ex
- How being this specific type of person will help you in the long run
- Why you should consider using a particular type of service to develop a healthy co-parenting relationship with your ex
- And much more
You don’t need to have the perfect relationship with your ex for the kids to be happy.
Life can be better for you after separation or divorce. Some couples aren’t meant to stay together.
Even dads with no parenting time will eventually get time with the kids.
If you want to not just survive but thrive after your divorce, then you should listen to this audiobook.
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- John M Dilthey
- 01-03-24
Short and Sweet
Perfect for the train. It’s a big picture look at co parenting, not a step by step how to fix your divorce. Some times you need to step back and take a look.
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- pedro encarnacion
- 01-07-23
Great book!
I enjoyed listening to this book. Currenrly I am going through divorce and the advice from this book will hopefully make things much more smoother. I appreciate the author for taking time to write this book. It will help me and hopefully help others as well.
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- P.C.
- 02-03-22
Extremely Informtive
I know divorce is very difficult especially when you have kids.
This is very helpful, you can learn a lot while listening to this audiobook. it gives you wide information on how to keep your relationship with your ex-wife and kids healthy. Makes everything smooth and easy.
HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!
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- NK
- 01-26-22
This is a great survival guide.
I listened to this book in order to give my friend advice on his divorce experience. Now he is looking to download it and use it as a guide. This us a great book for men going through it trying to survive after divorce. However, women can also benefit from some of the strategies and tips set out here as the author is very professional in the way people should deal with relationships. I like the way he discussed taking control of emotions, being diplomatic, focusing on the kids and using time effectively.
Highly recommended!
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- Caroline
- 02-08-22
Co-parenting demystified
Even though you aren't coupled, your children can still have a happy childhood. There are still ways to co-parent with your toxic ex-partner and this book shows you most of them.
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- Travis Warner
- 02-03-22
Very comprehensive!
This book really surprised me. The author has done an amazing job researching and presenting helpful material clearly and comprehensively. My favorite part was all the tools provided that can help you even when you don't get your way in a divorce. This book gave me hope that life can be better after a divorce and that it all about your actions and perspective. The narrator also has a great voice and is very motivational.
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- Emma Lenox
- 01-31-22
Loved it!
Divorce on its own is extremely difficult. Divorce with kids is a whole other story, and forces the focus to shift to the kids rather than the parents. Aguilar delivers a wonderful resource filled with valuable co-parenting tips that really allow the well-being of the kids to take center stage. Definitely would recommend this one.
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- Allen
- 01-30-22
I found it to be very useful.
Good book for men who are doing through divorce and also want to keep the kids with them and are not planning to leave their kids with their ex.
the author has given multiple tips on resolving the challenges that come after divorce for couple and the kids specially. For example, how to protect kids to have minimum effects after divorce of their parents and what type of relationship should men maintain with the ex as after all, their ex is the mother of his kids.
I seems following this audiobook properly will make the men and kids have a smoother transition after divorce.
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- Yann Eckhorst
- 01-25-22
very good information
i found this to be an excellent listen, full of very useful information and tips for what is an extremely difficult situation to be in. definitely recommend!
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- Mary
- 03-14-23
Excellent Guidance
Great guide for men going through a difficult divorce with children. Synopsis of the many books on this topic.
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