
The Present Parent Handbook
26 Simple Tools to Discover That This Moment, This Action, This Thought , This Feeling Is Exactly Why I'm Here
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"If you can recognize that your child needs to be witnessed, held, and loved by you, he or she will have a chance to thrive."
The Present Parent Toolkit addresses the importance of being both mentally and emotionally available to your children. In the present, there is the opportunity to show up, pay attention, and become the parent you so want to be.
With an easy to follow A-Z format, every parent will be able to implement the 26 tools to becoming a present parent to their children.
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