
The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Stop People-Pleasing
Finally, Put Yourself First, Set Boundaries with Confidence, and Release the Negativity in Saying No!
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C. Jeffrey
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One little word could make all the difference in your life…but why is it so hard to say it?
Being a highly sensitive person means you’re probably highly misunderstood and you may feel like you’re too empathetic for your own good. Your intuition and empathy create situations where you always put others first and say “yes” to everything, regardless of how you feel or what you need. As a result, you end up in unhealthy relationship dynamics that leave you exhausted, resentful, and stressed.
This guide was specially written for highly sensitive people like you, whose empathetic nature can sometimes be used against them.
In The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Finally Stop People-Pleasing, you will discover:
- How to accept your highly sensitive qualities and fully embrace them as your biggest strengths
- Why your people-pleasing may be having an opposite effect–it may be making people feel uncomfortable
- Seven necessary boundaries you need to set in your life to protect your energy and maintain your connection with yourself
- The subconscious beliefs from childhood you may still be holding on to that are keeping you in unhealthy relationship patterns
- Self-care practices to help you prioritize your own needs and take charge of your emotions
- How to say “no”–and really mean it–without feeling guilty
- Bonus Chapter: How to help your friends and family understand and support your unique needs as a highly sensitive person
By making yourself a priority, you become a healthier version of yourself. Let this guide how you how to utilize the power of your heightened sensitivity while overcoming your people-pleasing and self-defeating tendencies at the same time.
©2022 Carli Jeffrey (P)2022 Carli JeffreyListeners also enjoyed...
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The Highly Sensitive Person’s Guide to Dealing with Toxic People
- How to Reclaim Your Power from Narcissists and Other Manipulators
- By: Shahida Arabi MA
- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 7 hrs and 21 mins
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In The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Dealing with Toxic People, you'll learn evidence-based skills grounded in cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) to help you recognize and shut down the common manipulation tactics used by toxic people, such as gaslighting, stonewalling, projection, covert put-downs, and love bombing.
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Not What I Hoped For
- By Allyson S on 10-09-21
By: Shahida Arabi MA
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The Highly Sensitive Person in Love
- Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You
- By: Elaine N. Aron PhD
- Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
- Length: 10 hrs and 40 mins
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Statistics show that 50 percent of what determines divorce is genetic temperament. And, if you are one of the 20 percent of people who are born highly sensitive, the risk of an unhappy relationship is especially high. Your finely tuned nervous system, which picks up on subtleties and reflects deeply, would be a romantic asset if both you and your partner understood you better. But without that understanding, your sensitivity is likely to be making your close relationships painful and complicated.
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Exceptional!
- By Tim on 07-08-17
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Stop People Pleasing
- Be Assertive, Stop Caring What Others Think, Beat Your Guilt, & Stop Being a Pushover
- By: Patrick King
- Narrated by: Steve Campbell
- Length: 3 hrs and 44 mins
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Stop People Pleasing is a frank look at people-pleasing tendencies - where they come from, how they manifest, and exactly what to do about them. Most importantly, the audiobook emphasizes real, actionable tactics to change your relationship with yourself and others.
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OK Material, but a little Offputting
- By MDW 77 on 04-28-20
By: Patrick King
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Psychotherapy and the Highly Sensitive Person
- Improving Outcomes for That Minority of People Who Are the Majority of Clients
- By: Elaine N. Aron
- Narrated by: Coleen Marlo
- Length: 11 hrs and 5 mins
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Dr. Elaine Aron's audiobook Psychotherapy and the Highly Sensitive Person redefines the term highly sensitive for the professional researcher and practitioner. She dispels common misconceptions about the relationship between sensitivity and other personality traits, such as introversion and shyness, and further defines the trait for the benefit of both the clinician and patient.
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Why can't they work out the chapters correctly?
- By Jennifer Kerr on 03-18-20
By: Elaine N. Aron
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Less Nice, More You
- Stop Hiding & Become the Most Bold, Authentic Version of You Now
- By: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
- Narrated by: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
- Length: 7 hrs and 33 mins
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Have you been too nice for too long? Have you tried to speak up for yourself, have better boundaries, or take care of your own needs, only to feel anxious, stuck, or guilty? The unfortunate truth is people-pleasing and excessive niceness are debilitating patterns that most people never truly change. They remain in this “cage of niceness” until their final days, when they experience a strong sense of regret for living a life that wasn’t truly their own.
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I love Aziz. He's changed my life.
- By shannon maraghy on 08-06-24
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Not Nice
- Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself
- By: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
- Narrated by: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
- Length: 18 hrs and 2 mins
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Are you too nice? If you find it hard to be assertive, directly ask for what you want, or say "no" to others, then you just might be suffering from too much niceness. In this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.
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Changed my life forever
- By Shannon Slater on 12-07-18
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Sensitive
- The Hidden Power of the Highly Sensitive Person in a Loud, Fast, Too-Much World
- By: Jenn Granneman, Andre Sólo
- Narrated by: Patty Nieman
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
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Everyone has a sensitive side, but nearly one in three people have the genes to be more sensitive than others—both physically and emotionally. These are the people who pause before speaking and think before acting; they tune in to subtle details and make connections that others miss. Whether introverted or extroverted, they tend to be bighearted, creative, and wired to go deep, yet society tells them to hide the very sensitivity that makes them this way. These are the world’s “highly sensitive people,” and Sensitive is the book that champions them.
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Doesn’t make me feel better
- By jeanius on 08-31-23
By: Jenn Granneman, and others
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On My Own Side
- Transform Self-Criticism and Doubt into Permanent Self-Worth and Confidence
- By: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
- Narrated by: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
- Length: 16 hrs and 18 mins
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After writing the runaway best seller Not Nice, Dr. Aziz returns to tackle the biggest killer of confidence: your own inner critic. That voice in your head tells you that you can’t achieve what you want or be loved for who you are, because you’re not enough. Unfortunately, most people don’t realize just how much that negative voice is running their lives, creating stress, anxiety, perfectionism, relentless business, and overwhelm.
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Life changing!!
- By Mike on 10-12-20
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From People Pleaser to Soul Pleaser
- Six Steps to Being Who You Are Meant to Be
- By: Tracy Secombe
- Narrated by: Tracy Secombe
- Length: 5 hrs and 46 mins
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What if you could create a life that you love? Better yet, what if you could learn to do this by tuning into your soul for guidance, instead of looking outside of yourself for approval? Your life is not your own if you always care what others think.
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I wanted to like it but found it very triggering
- By gabrielle lilly on 04-27-23
By: Tracy Secombe
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The Empath's Survival Guide
- Life Strategies for Sensitive People
- By: Judith Orloff
- Narrated by: Pam Tierney
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
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"Having empathy means our heart goes out to another person in joy or pain," says Dr. Judith Orloff. "But for empaths, it goes much further. We actually feel others' emotions, energy, and physical symptoms in our own bodies, without the usual defenses that most people have." The Empath's Survival Guide is an invaluable resource for empaths who want to develop coping skills in a high-stimulus world while embracing their gifts of intuition, compassion, creativity, and spiritual connection.
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Typically Fabulous Practical Info From Judith
- By Jeri Lynn on 04-13-17
By: Judith Orloff
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The Handbook for Highly Sensitive People
- How to Transform Feeling Overwhelmed and Frazzled to Empowered and Fulfilled
- By: Mel Collins
- Narrated by: Emma Gregory
- Length: 5 hrs and 34 mins
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One in five people is born with the trait of high sensitivity. Yet there is a general lack of awareness of the trait in our society, which leaves many people struggling physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually with being highly sensitive in a nonsensitive world. More often than not, HSPs are yearning for acceptance of their trait.
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Took a turn in the middle
- By Amazon Customer on 08-05-19
By: Mel Collins
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The Undervalued Self
- By: Elaine N. Aron
- Narrated by: Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
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Elaine Aron follows up her best sellers on the highly sensitive person with a groundbreaking new book on the undervalued self. She explains that self-esteem results from having a healthy balance of love and power in our lives. Readers will learn to incorporate love into situations that seem to require power and deal with power struggles that mask themselves as issues of love.
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Life Changing!
- By Salon Finished Dawn on 09-20-15
By: Elaine N. Aron
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Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin
- How to Recognize and Set Healthy Boundaries
- By: Anne Katherine MA
- Narrated by: Pam Ward
- Length: 6 hrs
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Have you recently walked away from a date or a conversation feeling uncomfortable or violated? Are you looking for ways to set limits with your spouse, kids, parents, or boss? This essential guide to setting and respecting boundaries is for anyone wanting to better understand themselves and others. Just as a cut in our skin causes pain and injury, a breach of any of our physical, emotional, or sexual boundaries can be very harmful to our bodies and minds.
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Not exactly for tailored for the Male reader
- By Matt on 04-26-22
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- Jessica Waterman
- 03-12-24
Sooooooo good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I loved the way this book breaks down the what and why behind HSP. (Nervous system wise and brain) Seriously was listening to what felt like someone finally explaining me to myself lol!! And so strengthening and validating and empowering!! Love love love!!! Highly recommend for anyone who feels deeply and is sensitive.💯
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- Lj Espinosa
- 12-23-22
Well-written!
This book was well-written by the author. I'm not sure whether I'm an HSP, but if not, I come close. I've spent my whole life trying to satisfy others, only to get angry when I fail or when my efforts go unnoticed. The author does such a wonderful job of helping me put everything into perspective. This offers the resources needed to establish boundaries and break out of this insane loop. For a very long time, I'll retain this as a reference. Excellent work!
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- Nica Villarez
- 02-10-23
Helpful for a sensitive person like me!
As an individual who likes to please people, I didn't realize that it's been affecting my mental and emotional help. This book serves as my eye-opener! It made me understand the beauty of prioritizing myself first. I will definitely recommend this book to my friends!
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- Lhee Anne
- 02-11-23
Must Read Book!
This is a must-read for individuals who struggle with the need to please others and find it hard to set boundaries. The author's approach is practical, compassionate, and filled with actionable steps that help the reader understand their own sensitivity and how to handle it in a healthy manner. The book provides a roadmap on how to build meaningful relationships based on mutual respect and authenticity.
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- Mary Ayu
- 02-12-23
Great book!
It is really helpful especially with my situation. I really wanted to improve myself in any way, this book is a must read/listen :) You’ll absolutely learn a lot!
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- Cruella
- 02-22-23
Enlightenment achieved
I was enlightened while I was listening to this book. I have learned allot about how some people thinks and feels, I have friends that are highly sensitive that is why I had a great time with the book. Definitely recommend!
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- Amazon Customer
- 04-18-24
Good to know
This made so much sense to hear. It good to know that I’m not alone.
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- Alicia Anderson
- 10-04-24
Great read
This book was very therapeutic for me! I recommend for those who have trouble people pleasing. I now have the courage to say no and be more assertive!
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- Emily
- 07-21-24
Very helpful book about HSP
I have newly discovered my tendencies as an HSP. I thought this book was very informative and well-written. It provided a lot of insight into what it means to be an HSP, how to care for yourself appropriately. The narrator was great as well. I would recommend!
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- Liza
- 02-18-23
Helpful Book Guide!
I'm actually finding an Audiobook like this for quite a long time, because I have a lot of questions in my mind. I'm starting to question myself why am I being like this, I am a people pleaser and I feel like I'm not good enough if I didn't do that. Then I found out the being like that is not normal, I don't want my past trauma to be a hindrance of what I am becoming in the future. I would like to commend the author for doing such a wonderful book like this, I learned a lot and promised myself to not do the same mistakes over and over again.
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