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The Friend

A Novel

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The Friend

By: Sigrid Nunez
Narrated by: Hillary Huber
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WINNER OF THE 2018 NATIONAL BOOK AWARD FOR FICTION

SHORTLISTED FOR THE INTERNATIONAL DUBLIN LITERARY AWARD

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

"A beautiful book … a world of insight into death, grief, art, and love."—Wall Street Journal

"A penetrating, moving meditation on loss, comfort, memory...Nunez has a wry, withering wit."—NPR

"Dry, allusive and charming…the comedy here writes itself.” The New York Times

A moving story of love, friendship, grief, healing, and the magical bond between a woman and her dog.

When a woman unexpectedly loses her lifelong best friend and mentor, she finds herself burdened with the unwanted dog he has left behind. Her own battle against grief is intensified by the mute suffering of the dog, a huge Great Dane traumatized by the inexplicable disappearance of its master, and by the threat of eviction: dogs are prohibited in her apartment building.

While others worry that grief has made her a victim of magical thinking, the woman refuses to be separated from the dog except for brief periods of time. Isolated from the rest of the world, increasingly obsessed with the dog's care, determined to read its mind and fathom its heart, she comes dangerously close to unraveling. But while troubles abound, rich and surprising rewards lie in store for both of them.

Elegiac and searching, The Friend is both a meditation on loss and a celebration of human-canine devotion.

©2017 Sigrid Nunez (P)2017 Penguin Audio
Animals Fiction Genre Fiction Literary Fiction Women's Fiction Dogs Heartfelt Grief
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“The contemplation of writing and the loss of integrity in our literary life form the heart of the novel...Nunez’s prose itself comforts us. Her confident and direct style uplifts—the music in her sentences, her deep and varied intelligence. She addresses important ideas unpretentiously and offers wisdom for any aspiring writer who, as the narrator fears, may never know this dear, intelligent friend—or this world that is dying. But is it dying? Perhaps. But with The Friend, Nunez provides evidence that, for now, it survives.”—The New York Times Book Review

"Charming... the comedy here writes itself... the novel's tone in general, however, is mournful and resonant... The snap of her sentences sometimes puts me in mind of Rachel Cusk."—The New York Times

“In crystalline prose, Nunez creates an impressively controlled portrait of the ‘exhaustion of mourning.’”—The New Yorker

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3.97 stars

This year’s National Book Award winner is fiction that reads like memoir. I suspect at least some of this novel is based on the author’s life, though I know nothing about Sigrid Nunez and have no grounds for saying this. The Friend is about love and loss, but more specifically it’s about suicide and writers and dogs. I like this author’s writing style, and I like the narrator of this audiobook. It’s a book of ideas, not a novel in the traditional sense. There’s so many literary prizes these days, and I don’t know the criteria for each. I won’t say The Friend isn’t deserving of The NBA, but I will say I’ve listened to better audiobooks that were released this year. Overall rating: 3.97 stars

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put this at the top of your queue.

When I first started listening, with no advance knowledge of the story or the writer, I thought Oh God this is some authorial navel-gazing. But I was hiking so I kept listening, and then...Oh. No it isn't. It's bright, and gently subversive, and not navel-gazing but hugely introspective in a way that pulled me in and held me. The narrator's voice facilitates the whole experience. I'd give more stars if I could.

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Great writing

i loved it. I would definitely recommend it to anyone. especially if you have a dog.

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Funny, sweet, and sad

I loved this book, which touches on grief and the bond between humans and animals. I loved the writing style, dark humor, literary backdrop and attention to detail with the dog and New York City. I wanted to start it over as soon as I finished. Very lovely.

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Buy it. Read it. Now.

Excellent book.
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Beautiful story, well written and please have the kleanex box by your side.
Love it.

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Second to last chapter curveball!!

Loved her patient observations and earnest questioning. It’s like she took me with her into this unknown time of life- thank you

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Not for me

The narrator made the blankness of the story and protagonist worse. The plot rambled and did not seem to emerge at the point I gave up.

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Not Really a Dog Story

Only a very small portion of this book is about the developing relationship between the author and the dog she unexpectedly finds herself caring for.

The majority of the story is her lamenting the suicide of her mentor, apparently a smug, self-righteous, narcissistic, egomaniac writer/professor who enjoyed having sex with the girls who took his classes.

A large amount of the book is also dedicated to how enlightened “real” writers are compared to the rest of society.

The dog is mentioned here and there and at the end.

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Sadness

Being a dog lover this book bothers me. The constant reminders of what the dogs suffer and the conflict of when to say goodbye. I think I expected a different type of story. The narrator was robotic very little warmth.

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Touching

This book sounds to me as non fiction. I loved the thin, matter of fact descriptions, as well as the dry, un-emotional narration. I was touched by the delicate relationship between the author and the great dane.

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