
Men Who Can't Love
How to Recognize a Commitmentphobic Man Before He Breaks Your Heart
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Narrated by:
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Kevin Young
About this listen
The million-copy New York Times best seller and classic relationship book.
Featured on Oprah and Sally Jesse Raphael, this definitive look at the dynamics of male-female communication gets to the heart of the all-too-common phenomenon: women who are ready and willing to commit, and men who back off just as the relationship moves toward the next level.
This audiobook can help you:
- Recognize early warning signs of the commitmentphobic man
- Determine the extent of his fears - and his willingness to change
- Analyze your own role in the situation
- Avoid unnecessary stress and heartache
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Steven Carter and Julia Sokol's seminal relationship book offers a thorough, penetrating examination of the complex behavior and psychology of commitment-phobic males who, as stated in the book, can go from "attentive and caring to distant and hurtful for apparent reason".
Kevin Young's accomplished, measured performance reflects the high esteem with which these groundbreaking interviews and case studies are held in the field of relationship therapy, and his genial, conversational tone keeps the listener interested throughout this thought-provoking work.
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7 Mistakes Women Make That Repel Good Men
- And How To Reverse Them!
- By: Joanna Hairabedian
- Narrated by: Virtual Voice
- Length: 3 hrs and 47 mins
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THIS BOOK CAN TRULY CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE! Have you been single longer than you'd like? Does your current relationship or marriage feel disconnected? Has healthy love eluded you? You are not alone! Whether you're single, searching for the right man, or already in a relationship, this book is essential reading! It's an insightful guide that takes us back to the fundamentals of love and connection in a time of rising divorce rates, suicides, anxiety, fear, and strained relationships. It serves as a coach to raise awareness of our actions that aren't yielding the desired love results and how ...
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Great book if you’re coachable
- By Gina e on 03-12-25
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Emotionally Unavailable Men
- How to Spot Them and Handle Them
- By: Lyn Kelley
- Narrated by: Virtual Voice
- Length: 1 hr and 34 mins
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NEW Edition 2024. Therapist and Certified Relationship Coach Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., MFT, CPC gives you the real lowdown on closed men. Rate your man on the “emotional unavailability scale.” Why he shuts down emotionally, how to get him to open up, how to connect with him, how to create more intimacy, and how to make him fall deeply in love with you. She will help you understand his psyche, how to know if you should stay or leave. Plus: The best 15 strategies to handle an emotionally unavailable man. Definition of emotionally unavailable When you change, he changes Whether or not your ...
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Easy to understand
- By Jennifer on 10-02-24
By: Lyn Kelley
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No More Narcissists!
- How to Stop Choosing Self-Absorbed Men and Find the Love You Deserve
- By: Candace V. Love PhD
- Narrated by: Kim Niemi
- Length: 6 hrs and 28 mins
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In No More Narcissists!, psychologist Candace Love provides a road map for women to finally get the love they deserve. Using skills based in cognitive behavioral and schema therapy, you'll gain an understanding of why you're attracted to narcissistic men, how you can avoid being drawn in by a narcissist's initial charm and magnetism, and how to heal so you can finally move on to healthy relationships.
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Recommended as your first book on narcissists
- By Emi A on 05-28-24
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Help! I’m in Love with a Narcissist
- By: Steven Carter, Julia Sokol
- Narrated by: Steven Menasche
- Length: 9 hrs and 8 mins
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Written with the compassionate language that people have come to rely upon and expect from these proven relationship experts, this book goes beyond an explanation of the condition to help men and women avoid the self-destructive permanence of remaining with people incapable of loving anyone but themselves.
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You will find some healing with this book.
- By Darren E from Toronto on 06-23-16
By: Steven Carter, and others
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Who's Pulling Your Strings?
- How to Break the Cycle of Manipulation and Regain Control of Your Life
- By: Harriet Braiker
- Narrated by: Kate Reading
- Length: 4 hrs and 33 mins
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Dr. Harriet B. Braiker, New York Times best-selling author of The Disease to Please, explains how depression, low self-esteem, chronic anger, and feelings of helplessness are often the result of being caught in relationships with manipulative people - including family members, friends, coworkers, and associates. More importantly, she arms listeners with the knowledge and tools they need to understand and identify manipulative personalities and to free themselves from the bondage of relationships with them.
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Phenomenal eye opener
- By Karthik on 12-17-21
By: Harriet Braiker
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When Loving Him Is Hurting You
- Hope and Help for Women Dealing with Narcissism and Emotional Abuse
- By: Dr. David Hawkins
- Narrated by: Jim Denison
- Length: 8 hrs and 5 mins
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You fell in love with him. But over time you've come to realize he's in love with himself - and you feel trapped. His needs, his problems, and his plans always seem to take precedence over yours. Dr. David Hawkins, director of the Marriage Recovery Center, offers a guide to help you identify signs of narcissism, understand how your loved one's issues are affecting you, and prepare a biblical game plan for freeing yourself to live courageously in light of God's love.
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The book I so desperately needed to read
- By Julia on 05-26-18
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Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them
- When Loving Hurts and You Don’t Know Why
- By: Dr. Susan Forward, Joan Torres
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 9 hrs and 1 min
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Is this the way love is supposed to feel? Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you? If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern, you may be in love with a misogynist. In this superb self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward helps you understand your man's destructive pattern and the part you play in it.
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FANTASTIC!!
- By Lara Cockrell on 07-24-18
By: Dr. Susan Forward, and others
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Women Who Think Too Much
- How to Break Free of Overthinking and Reclaim Your Life
- By: Susan Nolen-Hoeksema
- Narrated by: Sheryl Bernstein
- Length: 2 hrs and 58 mins
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It's not a surprise that our fast-paced, overly analytical culture is pushing people - especially women - to spend countless hours thinking about negative ideas, feelings, and experiences. Renowned psychologist Dr. Susan Nolen-Hoeksema calls this "overthinking". Her groundbreaking research shows that an increasing number of women - more than half of those in her extensive study - are doing it too much and too often, hindering their ability to lead a satisfying life.
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Generic tools for overcoming overthinking
- By letlet on 01-09-19
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Disarming the Narcissist (Third Edition)
- Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed
- By: Wendy T. Behary LCSW, Jeffrey Young PhD - foreword, Daniel J. Siegel MD - preface
- Narrated by: Joana Garcia
- Length: 8 hrs and 56 mins
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Now a self-help classic, Disarming the Narcissist is a practical, step-by-step communication guide to help you cope with and confront the narcissist in your life. Based on fan feedback, this fully revised and updated third edition features new information on shame, hypersexuality, and infidelity in narcissism; legal information to help you if you are divorcing a narcissist; and the impact of narcissism on children.
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Makes me dislike Narcissists even more!
- By Kirsty Gastrow on 06-23-22
By: Wendy T. Behary LCSW, and others
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Keep Calm and Cut Him Off
- 13 Reasons to "Go Silent" on Guys Who Reject or Break Up with You
- By: Bruce Bryans
- Narrated by: Mike Norgaard
- Length: 1 hr and 15 mins
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A guy who rejects or breaks up with you should no longer exist in your life. Contacting him or allowing him to stay in touch with you will make you work harder and harder to convince him that you’re worth his love and attention, and it will compel you to play that ugly and unwinnable game called Chase-a-Man. The best way to avoid this ugly game and break his spell over you is to cut the guy off (cease all communications and interactions) for a set period of time, or in some cases, keep him cut off out of your life indefinitely.
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My review
- By selestina sarinas on 12-29-22
By: Bruce Bryans
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- Wendy
- 10-19-16
Perfectly described my situation
I purchased the book & became so intrigued by its context I couldn't put it down. That's when I looked into audio version & am I glad I did.
I'd love it even more if I could gift this to a few men in my life. I felt I was going crazy with different emotions, mixed signals, I even broke up with my boyfriend of 6 yrs. when my friend of 20+ yrs. strongly pursued me....
Not realizing he's commitment phobic. I wish I'd know sooner. Now our friendship has suffered tremendously, I regret getting involved with him. Honestly this. Book was a huge and complete eye opener. I'm going to follow my instincts and to & pay attentions to a man's behavior patterns, their attitude, and their engagement.
Definitely recommend this to women out their going through a relationship where you feel your giving more than you are receiving, allowing a man to disappear and reappear with no questions asked, any woman feeling like she's always walking on egg shells afraid to say anything when mistreated, a guy that never called you back when he said he would. A guy that said he'd change & beg for another opportunity. Even someone going through a breakup. It will definitely give you fulfillment after listening/reading this book that we the women did nothing wrong. Loved it. Now want to get into reading "he's afraid, she's afraid "...
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- Kmel
- 04-09-21
Aha moment!
This book is an eye opener! Makes you do a self evaluation of your relationship and yourself. Thank you!
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- Brittany Meador
- 12-16-21
a must read for those that fall 4 Mr.unavailable
loved it, hit really close to home , was able to relate and reflect from my own experiences
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- LUCIA ROBINSON
- 06-02-21
LIFE CHANGING!!
This book opened my eyes, mind and soul, but it also broke my heart. I didn’t even know that men like that existed, yet I have been with one like that for 7 long years. While listening to this book, I had mixed emotions—I was in denial, Then I was hurt, then I wanted to cry because I felt played. It was like this book was written about the man I have been with. Everything described him 100%. How can I be so naive? Now I understand many things he told me before—that I was too good for him, that he loved me, but when he left my house I didn’t hear from him for days, sometimes weeks. So now that I learned all of this, I have the tools and the strength to end it and end it for good. To the writers of this book THANK YOU! Know that you have saved a life. Please keep writing. Because of you, I know now the do’s and don’t’s and will fight with all my power with the wisdom you both gave me.
Forever grateful,
Lucia.
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- Jeri Lynn
- 05-06-22
One of the very best.
For me, the most helpful narrative of what unfolds in the mind of those who pull sudden u-turns on commitment, love and loyalty. And how profoundly disturbing it is to the person left wondering “what on earth happened”to the strong bond, trust and connection they believed would last forever.
I’ve listened numerous times, especially chapter nine. Thank you from the bottom of my healing heart.
JL,
Retired Librarian
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- Myfancy
- 03-26-23
Feel like hell... but this gave me hope
I just realized this really describes my last 6 years. I made it through all the stages to the very end. Depressed, anxiety through the roof, wild insomnia in past 4 to 5 months. What a ride! like a pendulim, total comfort and support to questioning my sanity and wrong doing. So ashamed of myself for staying for so long. So done with it. Great advice and explanation of what is happening on both sides of the equation. Ended said relationship today. Feel like I have some very useful information about moving past this.
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- Marie
- 02-22-25
Eyeopener
This book is an eye-opener that offers valuable insights and fresh perspectives, making it well worth the read.
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- Stacia
- 08-05-15
Lifesaver!!
15 unique words it's a good book it's about my boyfriend I learned a lot I'm going to break up with him this will be a lifesaver he's making my life miserable
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- Gil
- 12-25-20
depressing
listening in hopes of learning and knowledge is power. yet this is a little difficult to listen to , stories of narcissists are never fun.
I do believe every single woman should learn how to avoid them and read this book as to avoid future therapy after learning these unfortunate lessons.
on the other hand, it's depressing that women go through these unique challenges, and to acknowledge this.
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- Alexa Prisco
- 02-16-21
THE BOOK THAT MADE IT CLICK
I’ve listened to SO many books after my breakup. I bought extra credits even. But nothing seemed to shed any light on my situation in particular. Until I found this book. I read things saying is sexist and archaic; that women can be scared of commitment too, and seriously, why fight for the right to be as stupid as men? This book is THE ONLY BOOK that made me understand what was happening and why. It was my come to Jesus moment. I mean the author wrote a second book due to the overwhelming response for women to be included in the commitment phobic club. I swear to god. I’ve listened to the whole thing three times over. I have all my little bookmark clippings. This book allowed me to accept just what a hopeless loser he is. It allowed me to give up hope on a relationship that I now realize was over WAY before I thought it was. It allowed me to see my own value and not give this idiot any more real estate in my brain. He doesn’t deserve it.
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