
It's Just Your Imagination
Growing Up with a Narcissistic Mother: Insights of a Personal Journey
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Melanie Carey
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Did you always sense something is wrong but could not exactly point out what it is?
Were you raised by a manipulative mom who thought you were her property and had her main priority set on her?
Were you constantly told that "It's just your imagination"? Or that you just did not hear it correctly, see it correctly, or understand it correctly....
If the answer is yes, then this is the book you want to read.
There is nothing more powerful than a mother's love." "Your mother will always love you, no matter what. Whatever you do, she'll be right there by your side."
I'm sure you've heard expressions such as these throughout your life. If this describes the mother you grew up with, then you're in luck. If not, this book can help you. It's Just Your Imagination explores what it's like to grow up with a mother who insists on putting herself at the center of every situation. This book gives you the tools to live a pain-free life if you were raised by a narcissistic mother. This firsthand account of my personal journey offers a vicarious understanding of maternal narcissism and its implications.
With the aid of supporting psychological studies, you will learn how you, too, can overcome the challenges of growing up in a household driven by narcissism. "It's just your imagination" was my mother's mantra throughout my life. Whenever I confronted her about her abusive and manipulative behavior toward me, she always had the same response: "It's just your imagination." If this sounds familiar, I invite you to join me on the journey through grief, loss, understanding, and forgiveness, and moving on, while finding healing and personal strength that await us at the end of the path.
The book won the Pinnacle award.
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