
If Not You, Then Who?
Harness Your Strengths to Shift from Addiction to Abundance
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Jesse Harless
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Jesse Harless
About this listen
Addicted to opioids and standing before a federal judge for narcotics possession, 22-year-old Jesse Harless believed his life was over.
It was only beginning.
That rock-bottom moment led Jesse on an odyssey of following his intuition into the unknown, finding recovery, and helping others do the same.
In If Not You, Then Who?, Jesse holds nothing back as he shares the raw devastation and miraculous triumph of his own addiction story. He discovers that recovery is far more than just sobriety; it is a lifelong journey of healing, growth, and transformation that requires consistent action.
He then shares his FEARS recovery toolkit, which contains the same tools, techniques, and habits he used to co-create a life he’s passionate about living:
- Focus on your recovery
- Elevate your recovery
- Appreciate your recovery
- Resilience in recovery
- Self-care in recovery
Your story matters. No matter who you are, where you’ve been, or what you’ve done - nothing has been wasted. It’s possible to co-create the life of your dreams. The time is now.
If not you, then who?
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Critic reviews
“A new paradigm of what’s possible for all of us.” (Hal Elrod, international best-selling author of The Miracle Morning)
“Jesse Harless is a gifted storyteller able to share his own ‘gritty’ recovery journey and his intuitive life lessons in a way that invites us all to suit up and show up once more in the exciting game of life!” (Jean LaCour, founder of International Center for Addiction and Recovery Education)
“Jesse Harless’s powerful story of addiction and recovery would be enough to inspire and motivate others dealing with similar struggles. But he also brings to this book a practical step-by-step recovery plan to put that inspiration and motivation into action.” (Lisa Smith, best-selling author of Girl Walks Out of a Bar)
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- Susan Meyer
- 02-19-22
A must read for all of us!
After sharing the raw realities of his personal experience with addiction and various setbacks, Jesse shares the routines and processes that have helped him in his recovery and, ultimately, reclaim his life.
We all have our vices and Jesse outlines a universal formula that guides readers with practical strategies to not only tackle and break through addictions of all sorts, but raise our consciousness so we can live and be at our best.
An easy read that is a resource you’ll want to continually refer back to as you work to implement the steps and make real, sustainable change, one step at a time.
Thank you for sharing your learnings Jesse so we can all thrive in life!
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- Anonymous User
- 02-17-23
Life changing
Truly inspirational. I believe his clear, cut action steps will lead to sobriety and a dream life. To see who and where he has been, with all his bad habits and fears, to where he is now proves his knowledge and suggestions will take your life to a place you can’t image. Highly recommend and I can’t wait to share with my family and friends.
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