
How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate
Become the Social Presence You've Always Wanted to Be. Small Talk, Meaningful Communication, & Deep Connections
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Russell Newton
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Patrick King
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Stop cringing at small talk. Become more charismatic. Turn surface interactions into deep connections.
Hi, what’s your name, what do you do, what are your hobbies, and where do you come from? We can do so much better than that. It’s time to take your interpersonal relationships into your own hands and learn how to connect with anyone. Not a generic book of one-liners or ice-breakers. Proven principles for social success and likability. This book is not just common-sense advice you might find on the Internet. This is where you learn to socialize from the ground up. This is where you will start to get compliments on your social skills and level of charisma. The knowledge in this book can change every aspect of your life; romantically, professionally, and of course, socially. The most likable people in the world sail through life quite smoothly - this can be you as well. How to confidently walk into a room full of strangers, and walk out with a bunch of new friends.
Patrick King is an internationally best-selling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.
A comprehensive overview of how to become supremely likable.
- The top conversational landmines you are probably stepping on.
- How to do most of the work in a conversation before it even begins.
- How to go deep from the get-go instead of staying in small talk.
- How to make your life a series of engaging, funny stories.
- Being more spontaneous and witty on command.
- Channeling charisma like you never have before.
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- Robsmyclone
- 09-23-22
nothing of value but great title
I got this book because of the title and there was a few other books about captivating people that I really enjoyed. this has nothing worth listening to as well as the narrator is not very good. I recommend going with another book with higher ratings
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