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Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out
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When we are baffled by the insanity of the “other side”—in our politics, at work, or at home—it’s because we aren’t seeing how the conflict itself has taken over.
That’s what “high conflict” does. It’s the invisible hand of our time. And it’s different from the useful friction of healthy conflict. That’s good conflict, and it’s a necessary force that pushes us to be better people.
High conflict is what happens when discord distills into a good-versus-evil kind of feud, the kind with an us and a them. In this state, the brain behaves differently. We feel increasingly certain of our own superiority, and everything we do to try to end the conflict, usually makes it worse. Eventually, we can start to mimic the behavior of our adversaries, harming what we hold most dear.
In this “compulsively readable” (Evan Osnos, National Book Award-winning author) book, New York Times bestselling author and award-winning journalist Amanda Ripley investigates how good people get captured by high conflict—and how they break free.
Our journey begins in California, where a world-renowned conflict expert struggles to extract himself from a political feud. Then we meet a Chicago gang leader who dedicates his life to a vendetta—only to realize, years later, that the story he’d told himself about the conflict was not quite true. Next, we travel to Colombia, to find out whether thousands of people can be nudged out of high conflict at scale. Finally, we return to America to see what happens when a group of liberal Manhattan Jews and conservative Michigan corrections officers choose to stay in each other’s homes in order to understand one another better, even as they continue to disagree.
All these people, in dramatically different situations, were drawn into high conflict by similar forces, including conflict entrepreneurs, humiliation, and false binaries. But ultimately, all of them found ways to transform high conflict into good conflict, the kind that made them better people. They rehumanized and recategorized their opponents, and they revived curiosity and wonder, even as they continued to fight for what they knew was right.
People do escape high conflict. Individuals—even entire communities—can short-circuit the feedback loops of outrage and blame, if they want to. This is an “insightful and enthralling” (The New York Times Book Review) book—and a mind-opening new way to think about conflict that will transform how we move through the world.
Featuring audio highlights from actual interviews, town hall meetings, and podcasts.
©2021 Amanda Ripley. All rights reserved. (P)2021 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.Listeners also enjoyed...
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How do other countries create "smarter" kids? In a handful of nations, virtually all children are learning to make complex arguments and solve problems they've never seen before. They are learning to think, in other words, and to thrive in the modern economy.What is it like to be a child in the world's new education superpowers? In a global quest to find answers for our own children, author and Time magazine journalist Amanda Ripley follows three Americans embedded in these countries for one year.
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a Wanna-be fiction writer avoids the subject
- By Niall on 11-23-13
By: Amanda Ripley
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Wrong
- How Media, Politics, and Identity Drive Our Appetite for Misinformation
- By: Dannagal Goldthwaite Young
- Narrated by: Rachel Perry
- Length: 8 hrs and 53 mins
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Why are so many of us wrong about so much? From COVID-19 to climate change to the results of elections, millions of Americans believe things that are simply not true—and act based on these misperceptions. In Wrong: How Media, Politics, and Identity Drive Our Appetite for Misinformation, expert in media and politics Dannagal Goldthwaite Young offers a comprehensive model that illustrates how political leaders and media organizations capitalize on our social and cultural identities to separate, enrage, and—ultimately—mobilize us.
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Eye opening and very informative
- By Will on 02-06-25
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Invisible Rulers
- The People Who Turn Lies into Reality
- By: Renee DiResta
- Narrated by: Anna Caputo
- Length: 15 hrs
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Renée DiResta’s powerful, original investigation into the way power and influence have been profoundly transformed reveals how a virtual rumor mill of niche propagandists increasingly shapes public opinion. While propagandists position themselves as trustworthy Davids, their reach, influence, and economics make them classic Goliaths—invisible rulers who create bespoke realities to revolutionize politics, culture, and society. Their work is driven by a simple maxim: if you make it trend, you make it true.
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the more things change...
- By Gina S. on 07-01-24
By: Renee DiResta
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I Never Thought of It That Way
- How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times
- By: Mónica Guzmán
- Narrated by: Mónica Guzmán
- Length: 8 hrs and 47 mins
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In this timely, personal guide, Mónica, the chief storyteller for the national cross-partisan depolarization organization Braver Angels, takes you to the real front lines of a crisis that threatens to grind America to a halt - broken conversations among confounded people. She shows you how to overcome the fear and certainty that surround us to finally do what only seems impossible: understand and even learn from people in your life whose whole worldview is different from or even opposed to yours.
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Good recommendations, bad justification
- By Jesse Hodges on 01-08-23
By: Mónica Guzmán
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Conflict Resilience
- Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In
- By: Robert Bordone, Joel Salinas
- Narrated by: Chris Brinkley
- Length: 13 hrs and 14 mins
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Two former Harvard faculty—one an internationally-recognized negotiator and conflict management expert from Harvard Law, the other a leading behavioral neurologist and cutting-edge scientist from Harvard Med—join forces to introduce conflict resilience: the radical act of sitting in and growing from conflict to break the bad habits that sabotage our politics, workplaces, and most important relationships.
By: Robert Bordone, and others
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The High-Conflict Couple
- A Dialectical Behavior Therapy Guide to Finding Peace, Intimacy, and Validation
- By: Alan E. Fruzzetti PhD
- Narrated by: Vanessa Daniels
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
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The High-Conflict Couple adapts the powerful techniques of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) into skills you can use to tame out-of-control emotions that flare up in your relationship. Using mindfulness and distress tolerance techniques, you'll learn how to deescalate angry situations before they have a chance to explode into destructive fights. You'll discover ways to manage problems with negotiation, not conflict, and to find true acceptance and closeness with the person you love the most.
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Notations Should be Left in the Written Version
- By Jessica Saunders on 10-19-17
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Let's Talk About Hard Things
- By: Anna Sale
- Narrated by: Anna Sale
- Length: 8 hrs and 3 mins
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From the host of the popular WNYC podcast Death, Sex, & Money, Let’s Talk About Hard Things is “like a good conversation with a friend” (The New Yorker) where “no topic is off-limits when it comes to creating meaningful connection” (Lori Gottlieb, author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone).
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Overall, Really Liked it
- By Roxanne Hayes on 07-30-21
By: Anna Sale
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The Lost Art of Listening, Second Edition
- How Learning to Listen Can Improve Relationships
- By: Michael P. Nichols PhD
- Narrated by: Sean Runnette
- Length: 11 hrs and 33 mins
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One person talks; the other listens. It's so basic that we take it for granted. Unfortunately, most of us think of ourselves as better listeners than we actually are. Why do we so often fail to connect when speaking with family members, romantic partners, colleagues, or friends? How do emotional reactions get in the way of real communication? This thoughtful, witty, and empathic book has already helped over 100,000 people break through conflicts and transform their personal and professional relationships.
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Enthralling, powerful and practical - a must!
- By R.A. on 04-28-17
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Spotting Danger Before It Spots You
- Build Situational Awareness to Stay Safe
- By: Gary Dean Quesenberry, Lt. Col. Dave Grossman (ret.)
- Narrated by: Gary Dean Quesenberry
- Length: 4 hrs and 13 mins
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Continuing on the path of The Gift of Fear (Gavin deBecker) Spotting Danger Before It Spots You is geared towards the average citizen who at any moment could find themselves faced with a violent encounter but may lack the training needed to detect the situation early or react to it appropriately.
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great book beyond awareness
- By Theresa S. on 03-20-24
By: Gary Dean Quesenberry, and others
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The Cloisters
- A Novel
- By: Katy Hays
- Narrated by: Emily Tremaine
- Length: 10 hrs and 16 mins
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When Ann Stilwell arrives in New York City, she expects to spend her summer working as a curatorial associate at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Instead, she finds herself assigned to The Cloisters, a gothic museum and garden renowned for its medieval art collection and its group of enigmatic researchers studying the history of divination. Desperate to escape her painful past, Ann is happy to indulge the researchers’ more outlandish theories about the history of fortune telling.
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I guess no one is honest now that’s cool
- By Housepants97 on 11-07-22
By: Katy Hays
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When Violence Is the Answer
- Learning How to Do What It Takes When Your Life Is at Stake
- By: Tim Larkin
- Narrated by: Tim Larkin
- Length: 6 hrs and 59 mins
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In this essential new book, self-protection expert and former military intelligence officer Tim Larkin changes the way we think about violence in order to save our lives. By deconstructing our assumptions about violence - its morality, its function in modern society, how it actually works - Larkin unlocks the shackles of our own taboos and arms us with what we need to know to prevent, prepare for, and survive the unthinkable event of life-or-death violence.
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Excellent book on when violence is the only answer
- By GC on 09-20-17
By: Tim Larkin
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I Hear You
- The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships
- By: Michael S. Sorensen
- Narrated by: Michael S. Sorensen
- Length: 2 hrs and 45 mins
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What if making one tweak to your day-to-day conversations could immediately improve every relationship in your life? In this three-hour, conversational listen, you'll discover the whats, whys, and hows of one of the most valuable (yet surprisingly little-known) communication skills - validation.
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Life-Changing
- By katalley90 on 04-12-19
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We Need to Talk
- How to Have Conversations That Matter
- By: Celeste Headlee
- Narrated by: Celeste Headlee
- Length: 5 hrs and 11 mins
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Today, most of us communicate from behind electronic screens, and studies show that Americans feel less connected and more divided than ever before. The blame for some of this disconnect can be attributed to our political landscape, but the erosion of our conversational skills as a society lies with us as individuals. And the only way forward, says Headlee, is to start talking to each other. In We Need to Talk, she outlines the strategies that have made her a better conversationalist - and offers simple tools that can improve anyone's communication.
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A much needed book for our time
- By Bella on 10-03-17
By: Celeste Headlee
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Conflict Is Not Abuse
- Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair
- By: Sarah Schulman
- Narrated by: Sarah Schulman
- Length: 10 hrs and 48 mins
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From intimate relationships to global politics, Sarah Schulman observes a continuum: that inflated accusations of harm are used to avoid accountability. Illuminating the difference between conflict and abuse, Schulman directly addresses our contemporary culture of scapegoating. This deep, brave, and bold work reveals how punishment replaces personal and collective self-criticism, and shows why difference is so often used to justify cruelty and shunning.
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Interesting and important premise; terrible book
- By Stacey on 05-04-21
By: Sarah Schulman
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- Case
- 01-19-23
Unlikely book that will certainly get your attention.
This book was recommended to me by my boss at work and this is definitely not a book that I would typically pick out for myself. I enjoyed hearing the nonfiction stories used throughout to explain what high conflict is. I enjoyed the author’s audiobook, she has a very nice voice to listen to. The only feedback I have is that I wish the how to get out of high conflict was more defined. There are appendix at the end that go into this. Maybe that might be a whole other book on its own! Regardless I found it passed my expectations. It was insightful and I think listening to this book is something that anyone can benefit from.
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- Ms. Bedelia
- 03-04-23
useful, relevant take
I got more out of this book than I thought I would. a useful reframe of how to navigate conflict productively.
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- Lucy M Norris
- 08-25-24
Important book
I went slow with this book on purpose. Lots of stories, examples and solutions I needed time to reflect upon. My advice: don’t rush it.
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- admirer
- 11-25-24
Brilliant and Timely
Must-read for all US-Americans and anybody suffering from the effects of polarization, emotional cut-offs, and estrangement.
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- Jenny
- 05-03-23
Solving conflicts well
This book was a game changer for me. Helped me recognize my own parts in low conflict situations. Gave me the courage to practice conflict solving and asking hard questions.
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- John Schneider
- 09-11-21
One of the top 3 books I’ve ever read
This book has so much rich knowledge in it it’s hard to dissect all at once. I am a physician and listening is some thing that is paramount to what I do, yet conflict rises constantly throughout my day. Many of them are small conflicts but once in a while a true high conflict situation arises. It’s been difficult for many of us in the medical field to really understand how to handle conflict. I believe this book is a valuable tool for all of us individually, but many of us who work in fields with significant and voluminous human interaction would benefit most from listening to Amanda Ripleys wonderful thesis on conflict.
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- Anonymous User
- 02-21-23
An important book with timely, implications
A well written, well researched and well narrated book that would be important at any time, but perhaps, especially resonant now, at a time of heightened polarization and high conflict in the United States
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- david
- 08-05-22
For everyone to hear/read!
Loved it! Couldn't stop listening to the stories and lessons. We all need to seek more understanding and work on our curiosity muscles.
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- Kristoffer
- 06-12-21
Fantastic and insightful!
Nothing short of brilliant! Anyone will learn from this book. And superb narration. Need to re-read/listen.
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- Greg Lile
- 06-27-24
Understanding High Conflict
Very well put together book on how to recognize and manage high conflict. Filled with great real life examples of high conflict and how people
Managed out of it and learned to avoid getting in a high conflict situation.
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