
Gatekeeper
The Tactical Guide to Commitment
Failed to add items
Add to Cart failed.
Add to Wish List failed.
Remove from wishlist failed.
Adding to library failed
Follow podcast failed
Unfollow podcast failed
$0.99/mo for the first 3 months

Buy for $19.95
No default payment method selected.
We are sorry. We are not allowed to sell this product with the selected payment method
-
Narrated by:
-
M. Bruce Abbott
-
By:
-
Shawn Smith
About this listen
Romantic commitment is the most consequential investment a man can make. It affects every facet of our lives—from how much money we make, to how long and how happily we live. And the women to whom we offer our commitment are the recipients of our greatest gift.
Why, then, do so many of us devote ourselves to women who drive us crazy, or even ruin our lives? And why do we repeat malfunctioning relationship patterns that damage our happiness, our health, and our productivity?
At a time when cynicism toward romance is at an all-time high, Gatekeeper offers a counterintuitive message of hope for men: raise your standards. Transcend the history and habits that foster unworkable commitments.
A better life is never free. It takes work. But maybe it’s time to expect more from ourselves, from our relationships, and from the women in our lives. Gatekeeper is the roadmap for any man starting out, starting over, or simply looking to improve his relationships with women. If commitment is our greatest investment, then our relationships should be among our most powerful assets.
Listeners also enjoyed...
-
Sipping Fear Pissing Confidence
- For Men: Solving the Riddle of Your Addictions
- By: Christopher K Wallace
- Narrated by: Christopher K Wallace
- Length: 5 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Sipping Fear shows you how the catecholamines responsible for desire and fear always act together. Desire is by its very nature a form of fear (like FOMO: fear of missing out). This is what narrows focus and provides temporary stress relief.
-
-
Dumber Jordan Peterson
- By lou on 12-11-23
-
The Tactical Guide to Women
- How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage
- By: Shawn Smith
- Narrated by: Chris Abell
- Length: 6 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For men, love is a high-stakes gamble. The right woman can be the best part of a man's life, and the wrong one can lead to personal and financial ruin. In today's climate, no man should venture into romance without a reliable risk-management strategy. The Tactical Guide to Women delivers a solid plan for allowing the right women into your life, and keeping the wrong ones at a safe distance. This is not another book about getting laid. This book is about not getting screwed.
-
-
a book that is as important as the rational male.
- By Chris on 12-26-17
By: Shawn Smith
-
Be Useful
- Seven Tools for Life
- By: Arnold Schwarzenegger
- Narrated by: Arnold Schwarzenegger
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The world’s greatest bodybuilder. The world’s highest-paid movie star. The leader of the world’s sixth-largest economy. That these are the same person sounds like the setup to a joke, but this is no joke. This is Arnold Schwarzenegger. And this did not happen by accident. Arnold’s stratospheric success happened as part of a process. As the result of clear vision, big thinking, hard work, direct communication, resilient problem-solving, open-minded curiosity, and a commitment to giving back. All of it guided by the one lesson Arnold’s father hammered into him above all: be useful.
-
-
A Clear Concise picture of vision and purpose
- By Empress Karen on 10-10-23
-
The Masculine in Relationship
- A Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust, and Devotion of a Strong Woman
- By: GS Youngblood
- Narrated by: GS Youngblood
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men who want to live with more power, groundedness, and clarity. Men who want to inspire more trust, lust, and devotion from their partner. But this is confusing territory. The modern world tells you that Masculine energy is toxic. And that we’re all the same. That you need to be a Nice Guy that plays it safe. For most men, it is not at all clear HOW to live more from their Masculine core.
-
-
Awful
- By Luis on 02-17-23
By: GS Youngblood
-
The Woman's Guide to How Men Think: Love, Commitment, and the Male Mind
- By: Shawn T. Smith
- Narrated by: Paul Aulridge
- Length: 5 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A Woman's Guide to How Men Think offers a practical, humorous, yet compassionate guide for women who want to learn the secrets of the elusive male mind. With author Shawn Smith's trademark humor, you'll come to understand why men think and see the world the way they do, and how to work with men to cultivate understanding and communication in relationships, without expecting men to be creatures that they are not.
-
-
helpful for both men and women
- By Joshua jones on 06-03-20
By: Shawn T. Smith
-
Frame: On Self Actualization for the Modern Man
- Praxeology, Volume 1
- By: Rian Stone
- Narrated by: Rian Stone
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Frame is the first in a series, descripting the work of thousands of men over a decade who have learned how to create a positive male identity in a world that not only lacks it, but punishes it. This first volume describes the tetrahedron of frame, and how to use it to calm the chaos in a suboptimal life, and drive towards something better: self actualization.
-
-
The TL:DR book version of the Red Pill
- By blgarion on 04-03-23
By: Rian Stone
-
Sipping Fear Pissing Confidence
- For Men: Solving the Riddle of Your Addictions
- By: Christopher K Wallace
- Narrated by: Christopher K Wallace
- Length: 5 hrs and 56 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Sipping Fear shows you how the catecholamines responsible for desire and fear always act together. Desire is by its very nature a form of fear (like FOMO: fear of missing out). This is what narrows focus and provides temporary stress relief.
-
-
Dumber Jordan Peterson
- By lou on 12-11-23
-
The Tactical Guide to Women
- How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage
- By: Shawn Smith
- Narrated by: Chris Abell
- Length: 6 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For men, love is a high-stakes gamble. The right woman can be the best part of a man's life, and the wrong one can lead to personal and financial ruin. In today's climate, no man should venture into romance without a reliable risk-management strategy. The Tactical Guide to Women delivers a solid plan for allowing the right women into your life, and keeping the wrong ones at a safe distance. This is not another book about getting laid. This book is about not getting screwed.
-
-
a book that is as important as the rational male.
- By Chris on 12-26-17
By: Shawn Smith
-
Be Useful
- Seven Tools for Life
- By: Arnold Schwarzenegger
- Narrated by: Arnold Schwarzenegger
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The world’s greatest bodybuilder. The world’s highest-paid movie star. The leader of the world’s sixth-largest economy. That these are the same person sounds like the setup to a joke, but this is no joke. This is Arnold Schwarzenegger. And this did not happen by accident. Arnold’s stratospheric success happened as part of a process. As the result of clear vision, big thinking, hard work, direct communication, resilient problem-solving, open-minded curiosity, and a commitment to giving back. All of it guided by the one lesson Arnold’s father hammered into him above all: be useful.
-
-
A Clear Concise picture of vision and purpose
- By Empress Karen on 10-10-23
-
The Masculine in Relationship
- A Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust, and Devotion of a Strong Woman
- By: GS Youngblood
- Narrated by: GS Youngblood
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men who want to live with more power, groundedness, and clarity. Men who want to inspire more trust, lust, and devotion from their partner. But this is confusing territory. The modern world tells you that Masculine energy is toxic. And that we’re all the same. That you need to be a Nice Guy that plays it safe. For most men, it is not at all clear HOW to live more from their Masculine core.
-
-
Awful
- By Luis on 02-17-23
By: GS Youngblood
-
The Woman's Guide to How Men Think: Love, Commitment, and the Male Mind
- By: Shawn T. Smith
- Narrated by: Paul Aulridge
- Length: 5 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A Woman's Guide to How Men Think offers a practical, humorous, yet compassionate guide for women who want to learn the secrets of the elusive male mind. With author Shawn Smith's trademark humor, you'll come to understand why men think and see the world the way they do, and how to work with men to cultivate understanding and communication in relationships, without expecting men to be creatures that they are not.
-
-
helpful for both men and women
- By Joshua jones on 06-03-20
By: Shawn T. Smith
-
Frame: On Self Actualization for the Modern Man
- Praxeology, Volume 1
- By: Rian Stone
- Narrated by: Rian Stone
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Frame is the first in a series, descripting the work of thousands of men over a decade who have learned how to create a positive male identity in a world that not only lacks it, but punishes it. This first volume describes the tetrahedron of frame, and how to use it to calm the chaos in a suboptimal life, and drive towards something better: self actualization.
-
-
The TL:DR book version of the Red Pill
- By blgarion on 04-03-23
By: Rian Stone
-
Atomic Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction
- By: Christopher Canwell
- Narrated by: Christopher Canwell, Jackson Parker
- Length: 7 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Atomic Attraction Christopher Canwell takes us on a journey through the dark waters of attraction. What turns women on? What makes them choose one man over another? And how can you become truly desirable and attractive? This book answers these questions by combining the latest scientific research with real-life case studies to show you, the listener, how to ignite the fires of attraction and captivate those around you.
-
-
Disappointing.
- By Rose Conley on 01-19-20
-
The Art of Embodiment for Men
- Using the ANI Framework and Daily Practices to Tame Anxiety, Heal Trauma, and Conquer Your Nice Guy Tendencies
- By: GS Youngblood
- Narrated by: GS Youngblood
- Length: 5 hrs and 50 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If you are a man that wishes to become more grounded and present—in relationship, socially, or at work—then this is the audiobook for you. It will show you how this is possible through the daily practice of Youngblood's specially designed embodiment exercises.
-
-
Connecting in the midst of conflict
- By NoName on 03-23-24
By: GS Youngblood
-
Clear Thinking
- Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Results
- By: Shane Parrish
- Narrated by: Will Damron, Shane Parrish
- Length: 6 hrs and 41 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
You might believe you’re thinking clearly in the moments that matter most. But in all likelihood, when the pressure is on, you won’t be thinking at all. And your subsequent actions will inevitably move you further from the results you ultimately seek—love, belonging, success, wealth, victory. According to Farnam Street founder Shane Parrish, we must get better at recognizing these opportunities for what they are, and deploying our cognitive ability in order to achieve the life we want.
-
-
It Feels Like a Classic - Seven Habits Good
- By Tyler L on 11-02-23
By: Shane Parrish
-
How to Be a 3% Man
- By: Corey Wayne
- Narrated by: Corey Wayne
- Length: 7 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
My book covers both the dating world and long-term relationships. You will learn how to meet and date the type of women you've always dreamed of. The best part is you can do this while remaining who you truly are inside. The book teaches you how to create sexual attraction in women and get women to chase and pursue you! It takes you step by step with easy-to-follow instructions. You will be able to meet women anytime, anyplace, and anywhere. This will give you choice with women.
-
-
3% MAN
- By Anonymous User on 07-07-17
By: Corey Wayne
-
The Rational Male - The Players Handbook
- A Red Pill Guide to Game
- By: Rollo Tomassi
- Narrated by: Trey Radel
- Length: 12 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this final master-work of The Rational Male series, Rollo Tomassi breaks down the fundamental mechanics of Game, intersexual social skills, and the nuts and bolts psychology that makes it work. The Players Handbook is not a "how-to" book, it's a "why-it-works" book. It’s not an instruction manual—it is the missing textbook on Game and understanding intersexual dynamics. Game is an adaptive set of social skills and best practices in navigating intersexual dynamics in a modern sexual marketplace.
-
-
poorly edited
- By Ethan T on 07-24-22
By: Rollo Tomassi
-
Attached
- The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love
- By: Amir Levine, Rachel Heller
- Narrated by: Robert Petkoff
- Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.
-
-
Good book - just not a good one for Audible
- By Mark on 02-01-20
By: Amir Levine, and others
-
The Way of the Superior Man
- By: David Deida
- Narrated by: Cecil Archbold
- Length: 5 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In 1997, David Deida released what would become one of the most widely read books on men’s spirituality ever published—The Way of the Superior Man. In this unabridged audiobook of the 20th-anniversary edition, Deida presents a new preface to the now-classic text on how to live a life of masculine freedom, integrity, and authenticity.
-
-
A woman’s thoughts
- By kayleighwllms511 on 02-10-19
By: David Deida
-
The Unplugged Alpha
- The No Bullsh*t Guide to Winning with Women & Life
- By: Richard Cooper
- Narrated by: Richard Cooper
- Length: 4 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men have been conditioned to be the quintessential "nice guy". They're trained to be overly humble, kind to a fault, and that just "being themselves" is enough to attract and keep the woman of their dreams. Men are told to believe that conventional masculinity is toxic and to put women ahead of their own interests, passions, and purpose. This book exposes the comforting lies you've been told throughout your life for what they really are, enabling you to become a truly authentic alpha who chases excellence and leads a successful passion-filled life.
-
-
Great content, unprofessional recording
- By Truth Seeker on 04-07-21
By: Richard Cooper
-
Dating Essentials for Men: Frequently Asked Questions
- Honest and Uncensored Answers to All of Your Questions About Women, Dating, and Sex
- By: Dr. Robert Glover
- Narrated by: Robert Glover
- Length: 9 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If you struggle with dating, welcome to the club. Dating is not in our human DNA and ninety-eight percent of all men struggle with its most basic aspects. This struggle is often fueled by the fear of: Doing something wrong; Looking foolish; Getting rejected; Becoming a #MeToo casualty; Getting into a crappy relationship with no escape.
-
-
Get this book and "level up" your love life!
- By George Foster on 08-19-22
-
Models
- Attract Women Through Honesty
- By: Mark Manson
- Narrated by: Austin Rising
- Length: 7 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Models is the first book ever written on seduction as an emotional process rather than a logical one, a process of connecting with women rather than impressing them. It's the most mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women without faking behavior, without lying and without emulating others. A game-changer.
-
-
The content is great but the reader is awful
- By Mark Speener on 06-24-14
By: Mark Manson
-
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway
- Dynamic Techniques for Turning Fear, Indecision, and Anger into Power, Action, and Love
- By: Susan Jeffers PhD
- Narrated by: Susan Jeffers PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Does fear keep you from jumping into life with energy and excitement? Fear seems to be epidemic in our society. We fear changing plans, we fear staying stuck. We fear failure, we fear success. Whatever your fears, this classic guide will give you concrete tools and insights to improve your ability to handle any situation life throws at you. Best-selling author Susan Jeffers' timeless teachings live on in this work, based on the same techniques she used in her own life to experience more strength, peace, and joy.
-
-
Struggled to finish
- By Veloy on 07-15-20
-
When I Say No, I Feel Guilty
- By: Manuel J. Smith
- Narrated by: Jonathan Todd Ross
- Length: 11 hrs and 58 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The best seller that helps you say, "I just said 'no', and I don't feel guilty!" Are you letting your kids get away with murder? Are you allowing your mother-in-law to impose her will on you? Are you embarrassed by praise or crushed by criticism? Are you having trouble coping with people? Learn the answers in When I Say No, I Feel Guilty, the best seller with revolutionary new techniques for getting your own way.
-
-
Wow! What do you know...
- By Angie on 01-07-17
By: Manuel J. Smith
People who viewed this also viewed...
-
The Tactical Guide to Women
- How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage
- By: Shawn Smith
- Narrated by: Chris Abell
- Length: 6 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For men, love is a high-stakes gamble. The right woman can be the best part of a man's life, and the wrong one can lead to personal and financial ruin. In today's climate, no man should venture into romance without a reliable risk-management strategy. The Tactical Guide to Women delivers a solid plan for allowing the right women into your life, and keeping the wrong ones at a safe distance. This is not another book about getting laid. This book is about not getting screwed.
-
-
a book that is as important as the rational male.
- By Chris on 12-26-17
By: Shawn Smith
-
The Unplugged Alpha (2nd Edition)
- The No Bullsh*t Guide to Winning with Life & Women
- By: Richard Cooper
- Narrated by: Richard Cooper, Steve From Accounting
- Length: 5 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Most men today are sent off into society with a broken belief system, which they use to make choices that get them terrible results with life and women. Men have been conditioned to be the quintessential “nice guy.” They’re trained to be overly humble, kind to a fault, and that just “being themselves” is enough to attract the women of their dreams. Men are told to believe that conventional masculinity is toxic, and to put women ahead of their own interests, passions, and purpose.
-
-
Almost perfect
- By Maurcio Arizmendi on 07-02-24
By: Richard Cooper
-
The Woman's Guide to How Men Think: Love, Commitment, and the Male Mind
- By: Shawn T. Smith
- Narrated by: Paul Aulridge
- Length: 5 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A Woman's Guide to How Men Think offers a practical, humorous, yet compassionate guide for women who want to learn the secrets of the elusive male mind. With author Shawn Smith's trademark humor, you'll come to understand why men think and see the world the way they do, and how to work with men to cultivate understanding and communication in relationships, without expecting men to be creatures that they are not.
-
-
helpful for both men and women
- By Joshua jones on 06-03-20
By: Shawn T. Smith
-
The Value of Others
- Understanding the Economic Model of Relationships to Get (and Keep) More of What You Want in the Sexual Marketplace
- By: Orion Taraban
- Narrated by: Orion Taraban
- Length: 12 hrs and 38 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If everyone is looking to secure a relationship with their perceived best option, then the perception of value must be at the heart of human coupling. In this groundbreaking work, psychologist Orion Taraban sets forth his economic model of relationships and exposes the often uncomfortable laws that govern the sexual marketplace. After listening to "The Value of Others," you'll never look at relationships the same way again.
-
-
A Goodly Medicine for Aching Hearts
- By Anonymous User on 07-07-24
By: Orion Taraban
-
Power of the D*ck: How to Flip the Script on Any Woman You Desire
- How to Flip the Script on Any Woman You Desire
- By: Fillmore Slim
- Narrated by: Duke Holm
- Length: 2 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Power of the D*ck: Flip the Script is an empowering call to action for you to step out of your comfort zone and fully harness the power of your dick in dating and relationships. In this guidebook, the author takes you on a transformative trip, equipping you with the skills and mindset to become a confident and attractive man with women within your grasp.
-
-
Horrible Book
- By Christopher Gardner on 04-03-25
By: Fillmore Slim
-
The Evolution of Desire
- By: David M. Buss
- Narrated by: Greg Tremblay
- Length: 12 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If we all want love, why is there so much conflict in our most cherished relationships? To answer this question we must look into our evolutionary past, argues prominent psychologist David M. Buss. Based one of the largest studies of human mating ever undertaken, encompassing more than 10,000 people of all ages from 37 cultures worldwide, The Evolution of Desire is the first work to present a unified theory of human mating behavior.
-
-
Highly naive look on the nature of women
- By Xavier on 12-10-18
By: David M. Buss
-
The Tactical Guide to Women
- How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage
- By: Shawn Smith
- Narrated by: Chris Abell
- Length: 6 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
For men, love is a high-stakes gamble. The right woman can be the best part of a man's life, and the wrong one can lead to personal and financial ruin. In today's climate, no man should venture into romance without a reliable risk-management strategy. The Tactical Guide to Women delivers a solid plan for allowing the right women into your life, and keeping the wrong ones at a safe distance. This is not another book about getting laid. This book is about not getting screwed.
-
-
a book that is as important as the rational male.
- By Chris on 12-26-17
By: Shawn Smith
-
The Unplugged Alpha (2nd Edition)
- The No Bullsh*t Guide to Winning with Life & Women
- By: Richard Cooper
- Narrated by: Richard Cooper, Steve From Accounting
- Length: 5 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Most men today are sent off into society with a broken belief system, which they use to make choices that get them terrible results with life and women. Men have been conditioned to be the quintessential “nice guy.” They’re trained to be overly humble, kind to a fault, and that just “being themselves” is enough to attract the women of their dreams. Men are told to believe that conventional masculinity is toxic, and to put women ahead of their own interests, passions, and purpose.
-
-
Almost perfect
- By Maurcio Arizmendi on 07-02-24
By: Richard Cooper
-
The Woman's Guide to How Men Think: Love, Commitment, and the Male Mind
- By: Shawn T. Smith
- Narrated by: Paul Aulridge
- Length: 5 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
A Woman's Guide to How Men Think offers a practical, humorous, yet compassionate guide for women who want to learn the secrets of the elusive male mind. With author Shawn Smith's trademark humor, you'll come to understand why men think and see the world the way they do, and how to work with men to cultivate understanding and communication in relationships, without expecting men to be creatures that they are not.
-
-
helpful for both men and women
- By Joshua jones on 06-03-20
By: Shawn T. Smith
-
The Value of Others
- Understanding the Economic Model of Relationships to Get (and Keep) More of What You Want in the Sexual Marketplace
- By: Orion Taraban
- Narrated by: Orion Taraban
- Length: 12 hrs and 38 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If everyone is looking to secure a relationship with their perceived best option, then the perception of value must be at the heart of human coupling. In this groundbreaking work, psychologist Orion Taraban sets forth his economic model of relationships and exposes the often uncomfortable laws that govern the sexual marketplace. After listening to "The Value of Others," you'll never look at relationships the same way again.
-
-
A Goodly Medicine for Aching Hearts
- By Anonymous User on 07-07-24
By: Orion Taraban
-
Power of the D*ck: How to Flip the Script on Any Woman You Desire
- How to Flip the Script on Any Woman You Desire
- By: Fillmore Slim
- Narrated by: Duke Holm
- Length: 2 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Power of the D*ck: Flip the Script is an empowering call to action for you to step out of your comfort zone and fully harness the power of your dick in dating and relationships. In this guidebook, the author takes you on a transformative trip, equipping you with the skills and mindset to become a confident and attractive man with women within your grasp.
-
-
Horrible Book
- By Christopher Gardner on 04-03-25
By: Fillmore Slim
-
The Evolution of Desire
- By: David M. Buss
- Narrated by: Greg Tremblay
- Length: 12 hrs and 20 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
If we all want love, why is there so much conflict in our most cherished relationships? To answer this question we must look into our evolutionary past, argues prominent psychologist David M. Buss. Based one of the largest studies of human mating ever undertaken, encompassing more than 10,000 people of all ages from 37 cultures worldwide, The Evolution of Desire is the first work to present a unified theory of human mating behavior.
-
-
Highly naive look on the nature of women
- By Xavier on 12-10-18
By: David M. Buss
-
The Way of Men
- By: Jack Donovan
- Narrated by: Jack Donovan
- Length: 4 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
What is masculinity? Ask ten men and you'll get ten vague, conflicting answers. Unlike any book of its kind, The Way of Men offers a simple, straightforward answer - without getting bogged down in religion, morality, or politics. It's a guide for understanding who men have been and the challenges men face today. The Way of Men captures the silent, stifling rage of men everywhere who find themselves at odds with the overregulated, overcivilized, politically correct modern world.
-
-
A book I plan on reccomending my sons
- By SlimCognito on 07-10-15
By: Jack Donovan
-
The Book of Numbers
- Analyzing the ROI on the Pursuit of Women
- By: Aaron Clarey
- Narrated by: Kevin Sapp
- Length: 2 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This essay aims to inform the reader about the real mathematical chances of success he faces in the pursuit of women, as well as the modern-day risks, so that he may make an informed economic decision as to how he best invests his life. It also aims to align the reader's expectations with reality so his life is not ruined by delusion or hope, both of which have ruined millions of lives in the past. But in short, this essay is nothing less than the most important cost-benefit analysis any man will read.
-
-
Not worth the time
- By Adam Hucker on 03-07-21
By: Aaron Clarey
-
The Rational Male - The Players Handbook
- A Red Pill Guide to Game
- By: Rollo Tomassi
- Narrated by: Trey Radel
- Length: 12 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this final master-work of The Rational Male series, Rollo Tomassi breaks down the fundamental mechanics of Game, intersexual social skills, and the nuts and bolts psychology that makes it work. The Players Handbook is not a "how-to" book, it's a "why-it-works" book. It’s not an instruction manual—it is the missing textbook on Game and understanding intersexual dynamics. Game is an adaptive set of social skills and best practices in navigating intersexual dynamics in a modern sexual marketplace.
-
-
poorly edited
- By Ethan T on 07-24-22
By: Rollo Tomassi
-
The Rational Male - Positive Masculinity, Volume 3
- By: Rollo Tomassi
- Narrated by: Sam Botta
- Length: 23 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Positive Masculinity is the newest in a series designed to give men actionable information to build better lives for themselves based on realistic, objective understanding of intersexual dynamics. The audiobook outlines four key themes: red-pill parenting, the feminine nature, social imperatives, and positive masculinity.
-
-
The entire... book... is read... like this
- By BRYCE DAVIS on 01-12-19
By: Rollo Tomassi
-
Frame: On Self Actualization for the Modern Man
- Praxeology, Volume 1
- By: Rian Stone
- Narrated by: Rian Stone
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Frame is the first in a series, descripting the work of thousands of men over a decade who have learned how to create a positive male identity in a world that not only lacks it, but punishes it. This first volume describes the tetrahedron of frame, and how to use it to calm the chaos in a suboptimal life, and drive towards something better: self actualization.
-
-
The TL:DR book version of the Red Pill
- By blgarion on 04-03-23
By: Rian Stone
-
Preventive Medicine
- The Rational Male, Book 2
- By: Rollo Tomassi
- Narrated by: Sam Botta
- Length: 8 hrs and 49 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Building on the core works of The Rational Male, Preventive Medicine presents a poignant outline of the phases of maturity and the most commonly predictable experiences men can expect from women as they progress through various stages of life. Rational and pragmatic, the book explores the inter-gender and social dynamics of each stage of women's maturity and provides a practical understanding for men in dealing with women in those phases.
-
-
When I had Stroke by Hit & Run driver, Rollo Tomassi (my Mr. Miyagi) Risked & Believed in Restoration of my Voice Acting
- By Sam Botta on 10-01-17
By: Rollo Tomassi
-
The Rational Male - Religion
- By: Rollo Tomassi
- Narrated by: Trey Radel
- Length: 14 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The Rational Male® - Religion is an exploration of human intersexual dynamics and their influence on spiritual belief, religion, and social values. In this fourth book of the Rational Male series author, Rollo Tomassi, connects the dots between human beings' evolved mating imperatives and the spiritual beliefs spawned by them that still influence society in the data age. It is a Red Pill look under the hood at the roots of men and women's "need to believe" in love, God and the metaphysical to solve our mating imperatives.
-
-
The best possible book on this topic you can read.
- By Kindle Customer on 11-02-21
By: Rollo Tomassi
-
The User's Guide to the Human Mind
- Why Our Brains Make Us Unhappy, Anxious, and Neurotic and What We Can Do About It
- By: Shawn T. Smith
- Narrated by: Stephen Paul Aulridge Jr.
- Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Your mind is not built to make you happy; it's built to help you survive. So far, it's done a great job! But in the process, it may have developed some bad habits, like avoiding new experiences or scrounging around for problems where none exist. Is it any wonder that worry, bad moods, and self-critical thoughts so often get in the way of enjoying life?
-
-
Incredibly unique & great.
- By Luis Garcia on 01-08-16
By: Shawn T. Smith
-
Sperm Wars
- Infidelity, Sexual Conflict, and Other Bedroom Battles
- By: Robin Baker
- Narrated by: Jessica Wolf
- Length: 14 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
This classic work on the rules of sex - updated for a new generation - is still as provocative as the day it was published, providing simple explanations for any and all questions about what happens in the bedroom.
-
-
Sperm competition
- By Anonymous User on 03-15-25
By: Robin Baker
-
The Masculine in Relationship
- A Blueprint for Inspiring the Trust, Lust, and Devotion of a Strong Woman
- By: GS Youngblood
- Narrated by: GS Youngblood
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Men who want to live with more power, groundedness, and clarity. Men who want to inspire more trust, lust, and devotion from their partner. But this is confusing territory. The modern world tells you that Masculine energy is toxic. And that we’re all the same. That you need to be a Nice Guy that plays it safe. For most men, it is not at all clear HOW to live more from their Masculine core.
-
-
Awful
- By Luis on 02-17-23
By: GS Youngblood
-
Men's Work
- A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, and Find Freedom
- By: Connor Beaton
- Narrated by: Connor Beaton
- Length: 9 hrs and 27 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In Men’s Work, ManTalks founder Connor Beaton offers the tactical, self-led guide men have been looking for. Here, he destigmatizes inner work by reframing it as a kind of psychological warrior training that many men can relate to and have been craving. Beaton walks you through a framework for facing the hidden and rejected aspects of yourself—factors that lead to self-sabotage, anxiety, and depression.
-
-
From a woman’s perspective
- By NBB on 03-21-23
By: Connor Beaton
-
Be Useful
- Seven Tools for Life
- By: Arnold Schwarzenegger
- Narrated by: Arnold Schwarzenegger
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
The world’s greatest bodybuilder. The world’s highest-paid movie star. The leader of the world’s sixth-largest economy. That these are the same person sounds like the setup to a joke, but this is no joke. This is Arnold Schwarzenegger. And this did not happen by accident. Arnold’s stratospheric success happened as part of a process. As the result of clear vision, big thinking, hard work, direct communication, resilient problem-solving, open-minded curiosity, and a commitment to giving back. All of it guided by the one lesson Arnold’s father hammered into him above all: be useful.
-
-
A Clear Concise picture of vision and purpose
- By Empress Karen on 10-10-23
What listeners say about Gatekeeper
Average customer ratingsReviews - Please select the tabs below to change the source of reviews.
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- DM
- 01-20-25
A roadmap to how a good relationship makes you stronger
A masculine, purpose-aimed explication of how to use both the head & the heart to choose a relationship that gives you things I frankly thought were incompatible with having a relationship. As valuable to me as esteemed books like Nonviolent Communication, Come as You Are, & How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk. I can offer no higher praise than to say that I’m grateful to have read Shawn T. Smith’s book
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Jorge C.
- 02-25-24
Runner up only to tactical guide to women.
If you’re a man of sense, you need to look into the work of shawn t smith
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- frequent buyer
- 03-25-24
Fantastic advice from the Iron Shrink
Wonderful tools to weed out potential bad mates. Many men live a life of suffering in their married life. This is how to avoid that fate
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Amazon Customer
- 11-09-24
Every Man Should Listen to this book!!
This is a book like none other. Every man should read this book especially men currently not in long term relationships. This is a gold mine!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Anthony Biggar
- 03-29-24
This is what you give your son and grandson
Great collection of knowledge and wisdom. There is a lot of clarity in this book, and wisdom and clarity is what is missing in saying and courtship. Thank you!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- WHF
- 04-29-24
Practicable Guide to Seeking Good Relationships
Very clear framework for evaluating what drives your choices and how to navigate and govern relationships.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Joey
- 03-16-24
Useful for being proactive
If you want to pursue romantic relationships, then you must protect yourself at all times. This is a great start!
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Lil Mikey
- 04-27-24
Must read for all teenage boys
This book is almost an addendum to Dr. Robert Glover's: No More Mr. Nice Guy. It is truly is a life guide. Honestly if I had this book 10yrs ago, I would be in a much different place.
Highly recommend this to any man reading this.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Phillip G.
- 08-19-24
The information here is amazing 👏🏿
Awesome. A must read for all men of all ages and creeds. It covered my childhood traumas to the letter.
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
- Ava
- 12-30-24
Life altering information! ✨
I wish I listened to this book 10 years ago but everything in its own time I guess. I hope that the author continues to write and maybe one day releases something of similar structure speaking directly to women. I’m very grateful to learn all that I did in this book. Applying, and becoming a better option as I listened has been very powerful. Top 5 books for sure!!! 💓
Something went wrong. Please try again in a few minutes.
You voted on this review!
You reported this review!