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David M. Buss
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If we all want love, why is there so much conflict in our most cherished relationships? To answer this question we must look into our evolutionary past, argues prominent psychologist David M. Buss. Based one of the largest studies of human mating ever undertaken, encompassing more than 10,000 people of all ages from 37 cultures worldwide, The Evolution of Desire is the first work to present a unified theory of human mating behavior.
Drawing on a wide range of examples of mating behavior - from lovebugs to elephant seals, from the Yanomamö tribe of Venezuela to online dating apps - Buss reveals what women want, what men want, and why their desires radically differ. Love has a central place in human sexual psychology, but conflict, competition, and manipulation also pervade human mating - something we must confront in order to control our own mating destiny.
Fully revised and updated to reflect the very latest scientific research on human mating, this classic work of evolutionary psychology explains the powerful forces that shape our most intimate desires.
©2018 David M. Buss (P)2018 Hachette AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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By: Aubrey Clayton
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A Thousand Brains
- A New Theory of Intelligence
- By: Jeff Hawkins, Richard Dawkins - foreword
- Narrated by: Jamie Renell, Richard Dawkins
- Length: 8 hrs and 40 mins
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For all of neuroscience's advances, we've made little progress on its biggest question: How do simple cells in the brain create intelligence? Jeff Hawkins and his team discovered that the brain uses map-like structures to build a model of the world - not just one model, but hundreds of thousands of models of everything we know. This discovery allows Hawkins to answer important questions about how we perceive the world, why we have a sense of self, and the origin of high-level thought.
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Starts out good, ends up a train wreck
- By Warren on 03-15-21
By: Jeff Hawkins, and others
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Evolution Gone Wrong
- The Curious Reasons Why Our Bodies Work (Or Don't)
- By: Alex Bezzerides
- Narrated by: Joe Knezevich
- Length: 9 hrs and 12 mins
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From blurry vision to crooked teeth, ACLs that tear at alarming rates and spines that seem to spend a lifetime falling apart, it's a curious thing that human beings have beaten the odds as a species. After all, we're the only survivors on our branch of the tree of life. Why is it that human mothers have such a life-endangering experience giving birth? And why are there entire medical specialties for teeth and feet? In this funny, wide-ranging and often surprising book, biologist Alex Bezzerides tells us just where we inherited our achy, brilliant bodies in the process of evolution.
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Answers questions you haven't thought of yet!
- By Mike on 05-25-21
By: Alex Bezzerides
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Human Hacking
- Win Friends, Influence People, and Leave Them Better Off for Having Met You
- By: Christopher Hadnagy, Seth Schulman
- Narrated by: Christopher Hadnagy
- Length: 8 hrs and 31 mins
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A pioneer in the field of social engineering and a master hacker, Christopher Hadnagy specializes in understanding how malicious attackers exploit principles of human communication to access information and resources through manipulation and deceit. Now, he shows you how to use social engineering as a force for good - to help you regain your confidence and control. Hacking Humans provides tools that will help you establish rapport with strangers, use body language and verbal cues to your advantage, steer conversations and influence other’s decisions, and more.
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Instead of this, buy “Social Engineering, Second Edition”.
- By Jessica on 11-30-21
By: Christopher Hadnagy, and others
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Hard Times Create Strong Men
- Why the World Craves Leadership and How You Can Step Up to Fill the Need
- By: Stefan Aarnio
- Narrated by: Stefan Aarnio
- Length: 16 hrs and 13 mins
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What does it mean to be a man in the modern world? Throughout history, being a man has meant different things. Maybe being a man was about being a good hunter, or a good soldier, a good businessman, or maybe good with women. Hard Times Create Strong Men examines what it means to be a man in the modern world relative to money, sex, religion, and politics. This audiobook examines what worked and what doesn’t work based on proven history instead of feelings.
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The first half is pretty good, the second half...
- By Daniel Lee on 07-09-20
By: Stefan Aarnio
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Magic Medicine
- A Trip Through the Intoxicating History and Modern-Day Use of Psychedelic Plants and Substances
- By: Cody Johnson
- Narrated by: Steve Quinn
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
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Magic Medicine is an armchair traveler's guide to all substances psychedelic! Listeners will learn about their properties, use, lore, place in history, and their current research and applications as medicine.
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Excellent summary of history and modern uses of psychedelics
- By Jill Anne on 12-22-24
By: Cody Johnson
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How to Talk Dirty and Influence People
- An Autobiography
- By: Lenny Bruce, Lewis Black - preface, Howard Reich - foreword
- Narrated by: Ronnie Marmo
- Length: 9 hrs and 9 mins
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During the course of a career that began in the late 1940s, Lenny Bruce challenged the sanctity of organized religion and other societal and political conventions; he widened the boundaries of free speech. Critic Ralph Gleason said, "So many taboos have been lifted and so many comics have rushed through the doors Lenny opened. He utterly changed the world of comedy". Although Bruce died when he was only 40, his influence on the worlds of comedy, jazz, and satire are incalculable.
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Where is the Lenny Bruce of this era?
- By Amazon Customer on 02-20-19
By: Lenny Bruce, and others
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The Books of I & II Maccabees
- Where the Story of Hanukkah Is Found
- By: Robert Bagley III - adaptation
- Narrated by: Steve Cook
- Length: 4 hrs and 15 mins
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This is the full, uninterrupted audiobook of the story of I & II Maccabees - read with the passion this masterpiece deserves by number-one best-selling voice talent Steve Cook. Hanukkah or Chanukah is an annual Jewish celebration in the late fall/early winter that dates back to circa 164 BC. It was also referred to as "Festival of Lights" or "Feast of the Dedication" or "Feast of the Maccabees".
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good to know more
- By Desmond Hall on 11-28-17
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The Tactical Guide to Women
- How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage
- By: Shawn Smith
- Narrated by: Chris Abell
- Length: 6 hrs and 30 mins
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For men, love is a high-stakes gamble. The right woman can be the best part of a man's life, and the wrong one can lead to personal and financial ruin. In today's climate, no man should venture into romance without a reliable risk-management strategy. The Tactical Guide to Women delivers a solid plan for allowing the right women into your life, and keeping the wrong ones at a safe distance. This is not another book about getting laid. This book is about not getting screwed.
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a book that is as important as the rational male.
- By Chris on 12-26-17
By: Shawn Smith
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The Aleister Crowley Manual
- Thelemic Magick for Modern Times
- By: Marco Visconti
- Narrated by: Robbie Stevens
- Length: 4 hrs and 54 mins
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Marco Visconti has taught Aleister Crowley's Magick to hundreds of aspirants, proving to himself and others its transmutative powers. This book brings together the effective techniques and practices from those lessons. We all live very busy lives in increasingly small spaces, but this book shows that to practice magick you don’t need fancy tools or robes or marbles halls. Magick is truly for everyone, because all you need to practice it is a will set in stone.
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best introduction to thelema
- By Joon on 07-14-23
By: Marco Visconti
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The Invention of Yesterday
- A 50,000-Year History of Human Culture, Conflict, and Connection
- By: Tamim Ansary
- Narrated by: Tamim Ansary
- Length: 17 hrs and 4 mins
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Traveling across millennia, weaving the experiences and world views of cultures both extinct and extant, The Invention of Yesterday shows that the engine of history is not so much heroic (battles won), geographic (farmers thrive), or anthropogenic (humans change the planet) as it is narrative. Many thousands of years ago, when we existed only as countless small autonomous bands of hunter-gatherers widely distributed through the wilderness, we began inventing stories - to organize for survival, to find purpose and meaning, to explain the unfathomable.
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Relaxed but packed with insight
- By Tad Davis on 02-14-20
By: Tamim Ansary
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- Anonymous User
- 12-16-22
100% must read/listen
This is a must read/listen to understand MOST of the social dynamics when it comes to dating.
It's interesting to see how much is explainable by evolution.
The book only uses statistical data and studies, no opinions. The author is clearly not biassed.
He does cover some "sensitive" topics and I did see some negative reviews of people who seem to be offended by some of results even though the author did his best to adress this. If you are looking for a romanticized/fictional book about dating, this is definitely not for you.
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- Amazon Customer
- 03-09-21
Very nice book. A must read
Most of what you will hear is most probably well known to you. But her e it is based on statistics and validated. Well explained and backed up. There a re few weird facts as well, which makes the book even more vivid reading. The narrator is OK for both x1.5 & x2 speeds.
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- JR
- 07-24-19
Excellent book
Buss is a great writer and thinker. A lucid explanation of the evolutionary baggage men n women carry. It’s great society gets on men to reign in their biological drive for variety in sex partners. Economist.com had a story on how most polygamous societies also most violent and least development ...but, besides society harping on the Weinstein’s, this book highlights the baggage women have that contributes to societies ills...that seems most media keeps mum on. The best antidote is awareness, so we can work to reign these in. Highly recommend this as well as The Red Queen by Matt Ridley.
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- Amgaa97
- 06-17-20
Extremely Informative, Highly Scientific
This book has been amazing! As a young adult male, I am grateful for this book to shed light on everything concerning sex, marriage, short term relationships, even cuckolding and rape. Before reading this book, I imagined men were at a disadvantage when it comes to the sexual market place because casual sex is much harder for the average man to obtain than average woman, but I have seen and understood the problems females face as well, for example, trying to find a man who can support the family, and risk of rape.
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- adam
- 08-12-22
very informative!
I learned about this book through a podcast so I rushed to listen to it afterwards and was not disappointed! it will answer so many questions you might have about mating behavior and other patterns you may have noticed but not fully understood how or why it happens.
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- Omar Huerta
- 01-13-23
Informative
It’s packed with a lot of information, I have the audio version and I’m going to delisted to understand it better. I would recommend it to myself.
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- H Russell
- 06-15-24
SO educational!
I learned so much about why we do what we do, one of the most educational books I have read as an adult. I will carry this information with me for the rest of my life!
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- Balint Biro
- 08-28-18
One of the best books what I recommend to survivor
There are few books what give you the AHA moment, and this is one of them. I highly recommend this because you will have a complete overview what is happening in planet Earth and why - if you are a human.
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- BigWally
- 01-31-19
Brilliant book!
David M. Buss, PhD teaches evolutionary psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. I have read one of his previous books, THE MURDERER NEXT DOOR which was absolutely fascinating. THE EVOLUTION OF DESIRE must rank as the current definitive book on mating, mate selection, mate strategies of men and women, rape, etc. Humans have evolved their mating strategies in the early hunter gatherer societies. Dr. Buss and his colleagues have performed numerous experiments in numerous cultures around the world. He has read widely in the literature and freely cites studies by other researchers. This could truly be subtitled "Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex But Were Afraid to Ask" the title of a book published years ago by another author.
In his conclusion Dr. Buss is careful to point out that the traits men and women have inherited from our hunter gatherer ancestors do NOT mean we should act in that fashion, e.g. men pursuing multiple female sex partners to produce more offspring. Nor does the fact of these inherited traits give us an excuse to act in improper ways. We have the capacity to behave appropriately and morally.
The book is a real "tour de force." I cannot recommend it highly enough. The reader, Greg Trembly, is one of the best I have heard on any of the Audible books I have purchased.
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- IsleWait
- 04-09-18
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A concisely written & well articulated detailing of a tale as old as time; the "Mating-Game" is one that shows no signs of ending ANY time soon! An interesting & thoroughly enlightening read!
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