
Chose the Wrong Person, Gave Them the Wrong Finger
Divorce and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: How to Communicate and Keep Your Sanity with a Difficult Ex
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Bree Carlile
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Jennifer Hyde
About this listen
Most people will find themselves going through a difficult time after a breakup.
With the addition of shared custody, everything can swiftly become overwhelming. They may find themselves unable to move on positively as a result of their difficult ex, or they may be fulfilling their role as a parent while combating their ex on the side. This eventually leads to an inability to react constructively and block out one’s instincts after enduring years of gaslighting or abuse.
Chose the Wrong Person, Gave Them the Wrong Finger: Divorce and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist - How to Communicate and Keep Your Sanity with a Difficult Ex explores the ways to navigate a messy divorce or break up from a narcissist, and how to co-parent with them after the relationship has ended.
The goal of Chose the Wrong Person, Gave Them the Wrong Finger: Divorce and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist is to offer:
- Ways to recognize situations and logically identify issues
- Strategies to cope with ongoing and legal issues without being overwhelmed by the emotional trauma created by their ex-partner.
- Ways to limit the difficult person’s problems
Together, this will help listeners manage their children and ex in a calmer, less stressful lifestyle.
This book is not reserved for one person. Stepparents and new partners will find the content can apply to them as well by guiding them through toxic situations and keeping their sanity.
Learn the telltale signs of a narcissist and how to co-parent with them, without you or your child getting caught in the crossfire.
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- Anonymous User
- 11-24-21
Great tips and helpful.
I did receive a copy in exchange for a review of this book. This book gave a lot of information in easy to understand bits. It defined a narcissist and gave tips and tricks on how to deal with them during divorce and custody challenges. It pointed out that taking care of yourself during this time is just as important and finally gave helpful tips and ideas on how to handle the challenges presented with the children in a situation like this. Information throughout the book was well presented and well written. With many sources and suggested apps that can help parents in this situation. I am not in a situation presented in the book but I do think it can be helpful to someone who is.
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