
Choose the Life You Want
101 Ways to Create Your Own Road to Happiness
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Tal Ben-Shahar
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We have more choices than we realize. In fact, according to positive psychology expert Tal Ben-Shahar, our entire life is made of choices, large and small. It is what we choose moment by moment and day by day - to do, to feel, to experience - that determines how happy and fulfilled we are. Every moment, then, is an opportunity to make a choice that will bring us greater happiness.
Ben- Shahar presents 100 such opportunities, some simple, such as whether to frown or smile; others complex, such as whether to hold on to what we know or change our perspective - helping us identify them, recognize their importance, and make the right choice. Each choice includes a brief explanation plus a story or study that makes it accessible and relatable. It’s up to you to choose the life you want!
©2012 Tal Ben-Shahar. Recorded by arrangement with The Experiment, LLC. (P)2012 HighBridge CompanyListeners also enjoyed...
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- robert
- 07-16-19
Basic
Good if you are new to self impersonation. Very basic and follows the same, tired, formul publishers push for these kind of books.
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- Lyn Smith
- 08-29-20
I have shared and hopefully....
Thank you so much for this read! I have shared and hopefully blessed so many people with information!
Must read!!!!!!!
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- Bentley
- 12-31-14
short and to the point
Filled with tons of gems you can take away from this book I liked how this book didn't have so much fluff some self help books have that makes them to long and go over the same things over and over. thats why i really enjoyed this book
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- Jon Paul Vasta
- 03-25-23
Love this author
Great audio book!
Short stories that are very helpful.
I love this author!
A must read
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- Alessandra
- 01-11-16
Amazing!
I wish I had written it. Simple and yet profound. Much more than it seems.
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- Yukun Wu
- 07-10-21
I Found This Book to be Helpful to Me
This book, in general, has been giving lessons, and I found most of them to be helpful to me.
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- Reinhard A. Oppikofer
- 10-24-21
A lot of short insights
Not necessarily bad, but just a lot (a lot) of short insight, that might be pertinent, but not really explained and frankly a few appear just pretty trivial.
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