
Adventures in Opting Out
A Field Guide to Leading an Intentional Life
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Narrated by:
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Christine Lakin
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By:
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Cait Flanders
About this listen
Opt out of expectations and live a more intentional life with this refreshing guide from the national best-selling author of The Year of Less.
We all follow our own path in life. At least, that's what we're told. In reality, many of us either do what is expected of us, or follow the invisible but well-worn paths that lead to what is culturally acceptable. For some, those paths are fine - even great. But they leave some of us feeling disconnected from ourselves and what we really want. When that discomfort finally outweighs the fear of trying something new, we're ready to opt out.
After going through this process many times, Cait Flanders found there is an incredible parallel between taking a different path in life and the psychological work it takes to summit a mountain - especially when you decide to go solo. In Adventures in Opting Out, she offers a trail map to help you with both. As you'll see, reaching the first viewpoint can be easy - and it offers a glimpse of what you're walking toward. Climbing to the summit for the full view is worth it. But in the space between those two peaks you will enter a world completely unknown to you, and that is the most difficult part of the path to navigate.
With Flanders's guidance and advice, drawn from her own journey and stories of others, you'll have all the encouragement and insight you'll need to take the path less traveled and create the life you want. Just step up to the trailhead and expect it to be an adventure.
©2020 Cait Flanders (P)2020 Hachette AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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“I emerged from Adventures in Opting Out feeling courageous. In these pages, Cait Flanders does more than simply inspire us to live with more depth and authenticity. She gives us rare, practical guidance on reaching beyond outworn cultural norms to discover - and to follow - the adventure that is ours alone to create.” (Lyanda Lynn Haupt, author of Mozart's Starling)
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In Stop Missing Your Life, mindfulness teacher Cory Muscara takes us on a journey into the heart of what is required for real change, growth, and happiness. He exposes how the phrase "be present" has become little more than a platitude, imbued with the misguided message to be present just for the sake of being present, and reveals how to achieve true Presence: a quality of being that is unmistakably attractive about a person, and one that only comes when we've peeled back the layers of guarding that prevent us from being our full, honest, and integrated selves in the world.
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it's a meditation book
- By Vimby 210 on 02-11-20
By: Cory Muscara
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Hitler's First Hundred Days
- When Germans Embraced the Third Reich
- By: Peter Fritzsche
- Narrated by: Jim Seybert
- Length: 14 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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Amid the ravages of economic depression, Germans in the early 1930s were pulled to political extremes both left and right. Then, in the spring of 1933, Germany turned itself inside out, from a deeply divided republic into a one-party dictatorship. In Hitler's First Hundred Days, award-winning historian Peter Fritzsche offers a probing account of the pivotal moments when the majority of Germans seemed, all at once, to join the Nazis to construct the Third Reich.
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Whoa! This Is Too Tense To Be A Horror Novel!
- By Ted on 07-02-20
By: Peter Fritzsche
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Dangerous Jesus
- Why the Only Thing More Risky than Getting Jesus Right Is Getting Jesus Wrong
- By: Kevin Burgess, Jackie Hill Perry
- Narrated by: Kevin Burgess, Jackie Hill Perry
- Length: 7 hrs and 11 mins
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From the moment He arrived on the scene, Jesus posed a threat to the unjust, a threat to the oppressors, and a threat to every semblance of authority wielded by the kingdom of darkness. He invaded the world with love for the forgotten, hope for the hopeless, and freedom for the bound. His ideas were disruptive, subversive, and scandalous to the world around Him.
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surprisingly divisive. uplifted Marxism and blm
- By KareBear on 03-17-23
By: Kevin Burgess, and others
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Magic Medicine
- A Trip Through the Intoxicating History and Modern-Day Use of Psychedelic Plants and Substances
- By: Cody Johnson
- Narrated by: Steve Quinn
- Length: 6 hrs and 22 mins
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Magic Medicine is an armchair traveler's guide to all substances psychedelic! Listeners will learn about their properties, use, lore, place in history, and their current research and applications as medicine.
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Excellent summary of history and modern uses of psychedelics
- By Jill Anne on 12-22-24
By: Cody Johnson
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Patient Zero
- A Curious History of the World's Worst Diseases
- By: Lydia Kang MD, Nate Pedersen
- Narrated by: Hillary Huber
- Length: 14 hrs and 17 mins
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From the masters of storytelling-meets-science, Patient Zero tells the long and fascinating history of disease outbreaks—how they start, how they spread, the science that lets us understand them, and how we race to destroy them before they destroy us. Written in the authors’ lively style, chapters include gripping medical stories about a particular disease or virus—smallpox, Bubonic plague, polio, HIV—that combine “Patient Zero” narratives, or the human stories behind outbreaks, with historical examinations of missteps, milestones, scientific theories, and more.
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Can’t listen to the reader
- By Doug Clyde on 07-21-22
By: Lydia Kang MD, and others
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Psych
- The Story of the Human Mind
- By: Paul Bloom
- Narrated by: Graham Halstead
- Length: 15 hrs and 4 mins
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How does the brain—a three-pound wrinkly mass—give rise to intelligence and conscious experience? Was Freud right that we are all plagued by forbidden sexual desires? What is the function of emotions such as disgust, gratitude, and shame? Renowned psychologist Paul Bloom answers these questions and many more in Psych, his riveting new book about the science of the mind.
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- By michelle gourgeot on 07-10-23
By: Paul Bloom
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Two Meals a Day
- The Simple, Sustainable Strategy to Lose Fat, Reverse Aging, and Break Free from Diet Frustration Forever
- By: Mark Sisson
- Narrated by: Brad Kearns
- Length: 11 hrs and 26 mins
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Are you sick and tired of struggling through regimented diets that work for a minute and then become unsustainable? It’s time to embrace a simple, scientifically validated plan that transcends gimmicks and avoids the stress of regimented macros and mealtimes. Health and fitness expert Mark Sisson presents a comprehensive lifestyle approach based on the principles of intermittent fasting. He’ll teach you how to gracefully burn body fat while keeping your energy, focus, and positive attitude.
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Ruined by the narrator’s incessant giggling
- By Jim9292 on 03-28-21
By: Mark Sisson
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The Spender's Guide to Debt-Free Living
- How a Spending Fast Helped Me Get from Broke to Badass in Record Time
- By: Anna Newell Jones
- Narrated by: Carly Robins
- Length: 7 hrs and 34 mins
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Popular blogger Anna Newell Jones of AndThenWeSaved.com delivers this self-help manifesto that reveals how a "spending fast" will help you get on the road to living debt free. In 2009, young photographer Anna Newell Jones was rapidly suffocating under the weight of too much debt. An inveterate spender, she was in way over her head, to the tune of almost $24,000. She knew her debt was only going to get worse if she didn't take action, but she didn't know where to look for help.
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Minimalist Extremist!
- By Jenni Reeves on 12-02-16
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Free to Learn
- By: Peter Gray
- Narrated by: Dan Woren
- Length: 9 hrs and 57 mins
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In Free to Learn, developmental psychologist Peter Gray argues that our children, if free to pursue their own interests through play, will not only learn all they need to know but will do so with energy and passion. Children come into this world burning to learn, equipped with the curiosity, playfulness, and sociability to direct their own education. Yet we have squelched such instincts in a school model originally developed to indoctrinate, not to promote intellectual growth.
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Tremendous
- By Alan Timothy Lester on 09-18-18
By: Peter Gray
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Nowhere Girl
- A Memoir of a Fugitive Childhood
- By: Cheryl Diamond
- Narrated by: Eileen Stevens
- Length: 10 hrs and 37 mins
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By the time she was in her teens, Diamond had lived dozens of lives and lies, but as she grew older, love and trust turned to fear and violence, and her family—the only people she had in the world—began to unravel. She started to realize that her life itself might be a big con, and the people she loved, the most dangerous of all. With no way out and her identity burned so often that she had no proof she even existed, all that was left was a girl from nowhere.
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As Diamond said in an interview, “It is a horrific story at times, but also absolutely magical.”
- By Teela Klekotka on 02-11-23
By: Cheryl Diamond
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Uncaring
- How the Culture of Medicine Kills Doctors and Patients
- By: Robert Pearl MD
- Narrated by: James Fouhey
- Length: 13 hrs and 17 mins
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Hardly anyone is happy with American health care these days. Patients are getting sicker and going bankrupt from medical bills. Doctors are burning out and making dangerous mistakes. Both parties blame our nation’s outdated and dysfunctional health care system. But that’s only part of the problem. In this important and timely book, Dr. Robert Pearl shines a light on the unseen and often toxic culture of medicine.
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Important to understand the current medical world
- By DMM on 07-12-21
By: Robert Pearl MD
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The Healed Empath
- The Highly Sensitive Person's Guide to Transforming Trauma and Anxiety, Trusting Your Intuition, and Moving from Overwhelm to Empowerment
- By: Kristen Schwartz
- Narrated by: Kristen Schwartz, Suehyla El-Attar
- Length: 5 hrs and 27 mins
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In The Healed Empath, RealizedEmpath.com creator, Kristen Schwartz, uses a blend of psychology, science, and a sprinkling of mind-body-spirit to teach the empathic reader how to transcend unresolved trauma or other issues that are contributing to their inability to set boundaries and move from overwhelm to self-reliance and empowerment.
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Realization
- By Gee Gee on 01-24-25
By: Kristen Schwartz
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This Isn't Going to End Well
- The True Story of a Man I Thought I Knew
- By: Daniel Wallace
- Narrated by: Michael Crouch
- Length: 6 hrs and 16 mins
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If we’re lucky, we all encounter at least one person whose life elevates and inspires our own. For acclaimed novelist Daniel Wallace, he had one hero and inspiration for so much of what followed: his longtime friend and brother-in-law William Nealy. Seemingly perfect, impossibly cool, William was James Dean, Clint Eastwood, and MacGyver all rolled into one, an acclaimed outdoorsman, a famous cartoonist, an accomplished author, a master of all he undertook, William was the ideal that Daniel sought to emulate.
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Lovely, Deep Hearted True Story
- By DebS on 06-24-23
By: Daniel Wallace
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Pathfinders
- Extraordinary Stories of People Like You on the Quest for Financial Independence—and How to Join Them
- By: JL Collins
- Narrated by: Kevin Meyer, Audrey J Williams
- Length: 9 hrs and 10 mins
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From “The Godfather of FI”, a follow-up to his international best-selling personal finance sensation The Simple Path to Wealth! Pathfinders brings together scores of amazing and insightful real-life stories from real people on the journey to financial independence—providing practical encouragement and inspiration for anyone who wants to join them.
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Wish it was narrated by JL
- By T. Huff on 11-13-23
By: JL Collins
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The Happy High Achiever
- 8 Essentials to Overcome Anxiety, Manage Stress, and Energize Yourself for Success—Without Losing Your Edge
- By: Mary E. Anderson PhD
- Narrated by: Mary E Anderson Ph.D
- Length: 8 hrs and 3 mins
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Throughout her years as a licensed clinical psychologist, Mary E. Anderson, PhD—known affectionately as “Dr. A” by her clients—has noticed a pattern: Talented, productive, and often brilliant patients—from business executives to lawyers to grad students—constantly arrive on her couch, drop their flawless facades, and describe feelings of self-doubt, burnout, and worry.
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A must read!!
- By Kristen W. on 10-27-24
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- njensen
- 01-16-22
Lovely, peaceful, kind.
Firstly, although the reading was well done I miss Cait’s voice. I listened to her first book, year of less, in her own voice and was a bit sad this one was narrated by someone else, however she did do an excellent job.
Her first book was extremely motivating and I have both listened to and read it. This one is a more gentle approach. I got a lot out of it, but I didn’t love it as much because it felt like there were some redundancies and I would have appreciated less overview and more actual narrative. This is a picky thing, and I don’t intend it to undermine the content, which is good.
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- Sara Villarreal Chavez
- 07-19-23
I wish my rating were higher
I really enjoyed The Year of Less, and so I guess my expectations for this book were high. Sadly, I don’t think this book gave any radically new insight or surprising information that wasn’t either covered in the previous book or just obvious. I didn’t love the hiking metaphors and the overall giving me advice. I wish it had been more of a personal account where the reader can choose what to take for their own lives, instead of being told what to do. I’m sorry :(
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- Anonymous User
- 01-06-23
Love Cait Flanders!
She is so relatable. I am so happy she came out with another book and I am looking forward to the next (if that is part of her next adventure). Thank you, Cait!
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- Nancy Healey
- 11-30-20
Enjoyed Reading this!
I really liked to hear about Cait's adventures. I have been opting out of things too and it has made me happier. It's great to hear others stories and I love that she reminds you that everyone will have their own unique to them opt out. Also a great reminder that failure is ok and you might hate the opt out you are trying and there's no reason to keep up with something that doesn't suit you.
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- Dr. Beard
- 04-27-21
Perfect Timing
When the Stident is ready, the teacher appears.
I’ll be retiring from the military at the end of this year and this book has helped to open my mind to possibilities focused on my true desires. So I bought a Lamborghini last week and wonder where and with whom the next chapter will be written 😊
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- Kindle Customer
- 06-16-21
It's all an adventure...
I am a very outdoorsy girl and this book was a wonderful easy read. What a creative way to sharing a self help book with opening up the mind to adventure to choose, create our own pathway to follow.
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- Amazon Customer
- 01-30-22
Unique Literal and Metaphorical Outlook
Cait offers a Unique Literal and Metaphorical Outlook on how she discovered how to live her life, and how she continues to live her life
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- Amy
- 05-23-21
Perfect companion
As I’m thinking more about what to do next, and what do I want my life to look like… this book has been a perfect companion. Like having a friend as a sounding board, in a way. Because the author is so grounded, honest, insightful. Not a ‘self help’ book in tone or content - more real (and helpful) than that. I’m sure I’ll keep coming back to this book again through my life. Also the narration is excellent. I’ve heard the author speak on podcasts and at first thought she was narrating. It’s professionally and very well narrated - but what’s really unusual is how well the narrator seems to channel the essence of the way the author probably would speak these words. That’s a rare find - and makes listening to this book even better.
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- Robin Figurelle
- 01-03-21
Excellent
Loved the book and message presented. Great listen after "The Year of Opting Out".
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- ghost666
- 07-17-21
Story of a pretty ordinary life
There are a few good points in the book and the performance is actually very good, that's why I'm still giving it 3 stars.
However, this book is mainly helpful if you're emotionally pretty damaged and insecure. A big part of the book and major concern of the author is how to deal with what other people think of her plans. Who cares? Maybe I'm just too old and that's the main concern for today's social media generation, but why should this matter? In addition, the author is so crazily self-absorbed, it's amazing how her really pretty ordinary life (some vegan, single girl who decides to travel to Europe for a few months) is made into a book. As the author notices herself in one of the last chapters, once she actually looks up at other people and doesn't only see "me, me", she sees that essentially her whole family had more interesting and extraordinary lives than her, and if she would actually look around a bit further, so do most other people in the world.
I few good points and comments, otherwise just some self-absorbed Northamerican girl ranting about her pretty normal life, trying to make herself feel like she's special.
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