
9 Rules of Engagement
A Military Brat's Guide to Life and Success
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Harris Faulkner
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Harris Faulkner
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The Emmy award-winning news anchor of Outnumbered Overtime with Harris Faulkner and co-host of the talk show Outnumbered shares the lessons she learned growing up in a military family paying homage to the military ideals that shaped her and showing how everyone can benefit from bringing the wisdom of military service into their lives.
Born into a military family, Harris Faulkner revered her father, a decorated career officer who served three tours of duty in Vietnam and raised his children with the values and ideals of the US military. Accompanying him from posting to posting, young Harris experienced firsthand how success in life was rooted in the knowledge, integrity, and leadership that came from her military surroundings. Indeed, these formative lessons in leadership and work ethic became the guiding principles for her career as a journalist, lessons she credits with her rise to become one of the top hosts on Fox News.
Now, she shares the advice, wisdom, and tools that she absorbed through her military upbringing, examining how these ideals have shaped her professional and personal outlook and how everyone can incorporate them into their own lives. Using her father’s career as the backdrop to her experience, she explores the lessons in courage, duty, patriotism, and responsibility that helped her succeed, demonstrating the truth to the axiom that in military families everyone serves - together. Along the way she also interviews current and former military families, generals and other officers, and tells stories from her father’s career to illuminate how and why the message and mission of the military is so effective at changing lives both on and off the battlefield.
This instructive book, part memoir, part motivational life guide, reminds us of our most important values - the keys to a successful life.
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- 10-17-22
Military BRAT Goes Full Force
Harris Faulkner’s 9 Rules of Engagement is powerful and encouraging. Well researched and presented. Thanks!
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- Evan
- 07-06-18
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I have watched Harris for many years on Fox and now have listen to her book. I strongly recommend the book well written plus read by Harris which makes it even better.
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- Linda Williams
- 06-08-18
EXTREMELY HELPFUL
Thank you so much this book. not not only has helped me, but will continue to help others.
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- Nana
- 09-19-24
A must read for all
This is a great inspirational book. The 9 Rules are a great tool. I will be passing it on to my children and grandchildren. Thank Harris. Great work.
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- Amazon Customer
- 08-08-18
Thank you Harris.
My husband and I listened to your book and found it to be enjoyable as well as inspirational. My husband served 20 years in the United States Navy. Our 2 children are Navy BRATs. Thank you for uplifting our spirits.
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- Nicole Bond
- 11-26-20
I thoroughly enjoyed this book.
Excellent and inspiring. I liked how Harris applied certain aspects of military life, and military principles ,to everyday real life issues . She did a good job of illustrating how we can benefit from them, and use these insights to enhance our overall self development . The audiobook was well read in the author’s usual crisp and clear style. This one earns a thumbs up from me.
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- Cynthia Fisher
- 07-30-18
Great listen for inspiration and guidance
Loved it. As a fan of Harris's I knew I would likely enjoy the book. That turned out to be an understatement. The stories from her life and from those she found inspirational were riveting.
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- brenda stanton
- 07-10-18
loved it
i am recommending this book. i loved it. The book was well written and thought provoking
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- James G. Edgar
- 10-15-20
Excellent book!
Lots of great advice. Some info overload, but very good. I loved the stories from the things Harris and her father have gone through.
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- David Fitzpatrick, LCSW
- 12-05-18
Worth reading.
A good book for women, men, and young people. Very thought provoking ideas from an author who seems so sincere. Although I was not in the military, I respect military people and I gained even further admiration after reading this book.
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