
10 Really Dumb Mistakes That Very Smart Couples Make
A Torah Based Guide to a Successful Marriage
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Finally, a Torah guide to a successful marriage.
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- Amanda M.
- 01-31-24
Must read for every marriage
We don't realize how little things can affect us and others around us. This book really helped me see many errors I was doing in my marriage and has helped me get started on the road to a better marriage
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- Me
- 11-04-22
May Hashem continue to give you the strength to continue doing all your good work
Your book is really amazing and helped me understand what marriage is a lot more due to your vast knowledge in Torah and understanding of people.
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- Street Poet
- 02-12-24
practical and powerful
If anyone is looking to better , their marriage and understand the part is better this is it
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