
Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love
Solving the Mystery of Attraction
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Chelsea Bruland
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Jeff Prewett
About this listen
Will men and women ever see eye-to-eye about love and sex? How will relationships ever be rewarding if men only want to rush into bed and women want to rush to the altar? In this practical, witty, and down-to-earth guide, couples experts Allan and Barbara Pease reveal the truth about how men and women can really get along. By translating science and cutting edge research into a powerful yet highly entertaining read, you'll learn how to find true happiness and compatibility with the opposite sex.
REVEALED IN THIS BOOK:
- The seven types of love
- The top five things women want from men
- What to do when the chemistry is wrong
- What turns men and women on and off!
- The most common New Relationship mistakes and how to avoid them
- How to decode manspeak
If you want to get the most satisfaction from your relationship, or are single and looking for the right person, then you must read this book for the answer to why men want sex and women need love.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2010 Barbara Pease and Allan Pease (P)2010 Random HouseListeners also enjoyed...
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- BigBobBull
- 10-07-10
Entertaining and packed with info!
I totally enjoyed this book. It opened my eyes to many traits I share with other men and has helped me understand the women in my life so much better. I have told dozens of friends about this book and the ones that have read it have thanked me for it.
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- Stephanie James
- 07-27-19
wow!! absolutely amazing!!
This was an incredible book with so many details about love. The authors made the topic of love, funny, serious and intellectual.
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- 6R8Dane
- 06-24-10
Top Shelf
Packed full of useful information. I would highly recommend this audio equally to male or female with a desire to learn how their mind and the mind of the apposite sex not only thinks but operates.
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- DAG
- 01-30-15
Men and women -- always a mystery
Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?
Very entertaining and somewhat informative
What was one of the most memorable moments of Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love?
It was repetitive enough that the same memorable moments occurred again and again.
Particularly good parts concerned the presentations of lists of behaviors and attitudes. These were very well presented.
What does Chelsea Bruland and Jeff Prewett bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?
Australian accents?
What insight do you think you’ll apply from Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love?
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The audiobook is highly entertaining and has some very good information. I also found it repetitive. It also has a certain amount of questionable information, but most concerning scientific issues that are unproven but presented as fact. That does not particularly take away for the good parts.
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- Nicole
- 02-22-12
Some good information
Is there anything you would change about this book?
Although it had some valuable insights I didn't find too much that was groundbreaking or that I hadn't read somewhere else or known through some other means.
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- Wisconsin Reader
- 03-23-10
Interesting
Enjoyed this book, especially the narrators Australian (?) accents. Interesting ideas, didn't agree 100%, but thought provoking. And fun to share with others of opposite gender.
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- Antuan
- 04-28-11
Confusing
Sort of misleading, I should have checked the date when this book was originally published, because a lot of the ideas behind this book seem to be old school society-ish. Plays largely on gender stereotypes, women want a man that can provide and men want a woman for their services (sex, food, ect.). Granted some of the stereotypes are very valid, but listening to this book should be pure fun and pleasure, i wouldn't take everything that is said to heart.
Good read, would be 'Why Women Have Sex" by Cindy M. Meston, David M. Buss. It's obvious why men want sex...
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- M Wall
- 12-31-17
Demeaning
I struggled to finish this one. I thought some of tbd views were prejudice & demeaning.
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