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Kirsten Ahlburg
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The book goes through the various causes, in couplehood or the woman's own life, of the problem, such as stress, being pressed for time, pregnancy and childbirth, her role as a mother, her relationship to her own body, fear and pain, a lack of attention and intimacy, previous physical or mental abuse, the partners' different needs.
A book for both women and couples, it helps them find the heart of the problem, and offers them the chance of dealing with it by means of hands-on exercises.
Kirsten Ahlburg has been a psychotherapist in private practice for 15 years, specializing in couplehood and sexuality. In addition she has contributed to a number of newspapers and magazines as a letters editor and adviser on psychology and couplehood, and appeared in numerous television and radio programmes on these subjects.©2017 SAGA Egmont. Translated by Ib Gram-Jensen (P)2017 SAGA Egmont
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- 06-08-18
easy to listen to. very practical
this book has been very helpful for me. although its format allows to go directly and address particular issues it is best to listen to it entirely.
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- robert l walker
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common sense is cheaper...
The book is just "filler" unless you have the insight of a rock. Quit from boredom halfway through. Now googling on how to remove it from phone.
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