Wendy Li managed billions for New York’s top institutions — here’s what she thinks individual investors can (and should) steal from the pros.

After leading portfolios for the Met Museum, UJA-Federation, and the Mother Cabrini Health Foundation, Wendy now serves as CIO at Ivy Invest. She’s spent decades on the inside — and in this episode she’s walking us through how institutional investors actually make decisions, where regular people go wrong, and what it means to manage risk.

📚What We Discuss with Wendy:

🧠 02:17 — Institutions vs. individuals: why the ultra-wealthy play a different investing game
📉 06:28 — Risk vs. return: are you really being paid for the risk you’re taking?
📚 08:34 — Invest in what you know: learning by doing (and surviving your mistakes)
🪤 11:48 — Career course-corrections: mistakes, pivots, and staying in the game
🤝 15:28 — Trust but verify: what good investor relationships actually look like
💰 18:00 — The luxury of investing: identifying the how and the when to invest
🧾 20:32 — Portfolio allocation: managing your capital with intention
🚪 25:46 — Alternatives and access: knowing your place in a complex market
🕵️ 30:06 — Fund managers: who and how to choose
🛠️ 33:32 — Investing skills: humility, curiosity, and flexibility in the face of risk
🔍 36:58 — Where to learn: insider investment resources
🧰 42:18 — Practical takeaways: frameworks and tools you can use today

💡 What you’ll walk away with

• How institutions manage risk — and how to apply it to your own investing
• Why most retail investors misunderstand returns
• How to think long-term when markets are volatile
• What to ask before trusting a fund manager with your money
• How to approach alternatives without insider access
• The core skills every smart investor needs

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What if the most common retirement rule was never meant to be a rule at all?

In this episode, we unpack the origins, flaws, and overlooked nuances of the 4% rule—and why it might not be the best way to plan your financial future. From its fear-based beginnings to its rigid application in a dynamic world, Tyler breaks down 5 key reasons to rethink the 4% rule altogether.

You’ll learn:

Where the 4% rule actually came from (hint: worst-case scenario thinking)

What the Trinity Study really showed—and what most people ignore

How sequence of returns risk can silently wreck your plan

Why portfolio size and asset allocation matter far more than a static percentage

Smarter, more dynamic strategies to adjust year-by-year

If you’ve ever asked, "How much can I safely spend in retirement?"—this one’s for you.

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Today’s guest is someone whose work has quietly and profoundly shaped how a generation thinks about money. JL Collins is the author of The Simple Path to Wealth, a personal finance classic that has empowered hundreds of thousands to think differently about investing, independence, and freedom.

In this conversation, JL and I explore the real meaning behind financial independence — not retiring early, but reclaiming your ability to say no. We go back to the moments that shaped his life philosophy: the bold four-month leave he took just two years into his first job, the decision to convince his wife to leave her job while he wasn’t earning a paycheck, and the early desire to build what he calls FU money — not to quit work, but to buy back control.

We revisit Black Monday in 1987 and how that shaped JL’s views on market volatility, risk, and emotional discipline. He shares how a humbling mistake helped hardwire the importance of staying the course, and how index investing eventually became the core of his life’s message: simplify.

We also talk about the new edition of The Simple Path to Wealth, what’s changed, what hasn’t, and how his daughter went from being the reluctant listener to co-pilot on the updated edition.

This is a conversation about money, yes — but more than that, it’s about living deliberately. JL reminds us that wealth isn’t about what we can afford — it’s about what we no longer have to worry about.

You’ll hear about:

• How JL built his investing philosophy through trial and error
• Why VTSAX and chill remains his core guidance
• What it means to live in a world where, eventually, everything is "free"
• Why simplicity is a radical act in a noisy, complex world

And why, if you get the money stuff right early, you can spend the rest of your life not thinking about it at all.