Episodes

  • Being Straight is a Choice w/ Steph Tolev | WHGS Ep. 278

    Being Straight is a Choice w/ Steph Tolev | WHGS Ep. 278
    Jun 30 2025
    This episode is chaos, listener! We have the return of fan-favorite Steph Tolev, one of today's best working stand-ups and actors with a NEW Netflix special out, “Filth Queen,” but today she’s in the apartment to undo her straight conversion therapy! We discuss being sucked out of the lesbian dating pool by a gorgeous man, maintaining a positive body image in the internet age, living life as a boy-girl, and freaking out at your girl-boy boyfriend. Ashley hits the double-date. Maddie self-sabotages. Watch “Steph Tolev: Filth Queen” NOW: https://www.netflix.com/title/81764903 Follow Steph on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/stephtolev/ https://www.tiktok.com/@stephtolev https://x.com/stephtolev SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/mD8N5XTs_0k FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: BOULEVARD: Book a demo at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay for 10% OFF your first year! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 14 mins
  • The WHGS Family Comes Out as Asexual | WHGS Ep. 277

    The WHGS Family Comes Out as Asexual | WHGS Ep. 277
    Jun 23 2025
    GET LIZZY TO 10K, LISTENER! It’s free and it actually really helps her career: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/. You’ve been asking, so we’re delivering… It’s a FAMILY EPISODE today, listener, and our dear co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Lizzy Cassidy are coming together to drive this apartment to RIFF CITY! It’s the gay virgin and the bi-with-a-boyfriend CLASHING, and we may not survive the collision of these epic titans. We discuss demisexuality, the asexuality spectrum, and code-switching your gay voice for the straights. Ashley witnesses Indiana ruin boobs. Lizzy senses some flirting. Maddie ponders their body image. SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/05b3yEnFmjI FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 12 mins
  • Life After a Nuclear Lesbian Breakup w/ Ali Kolbert | WHGS Ep. 276

    Life After a Nuclear Lesbian Breakup w/ Ali Kolbert | WHGS Ep. 276
    Jun 16 2025
    This episode is thriving after chaos, listener! Fan-favorite Ali Kolbert is a fantastic stand up comedian, writer, actress, and dear friend of the show, and today she’s coming back onto it to tell us about life after one of the CRAZIEST breakups that you’ve ever heard. It’s a DUO episode today because all co-hosts were on tour, and we discuss Ali’s insane breakup, untangling your mind after gaslighting, reclaiming your agency, and moving beyond into greatness. We also talk about how Ashley may be the only example of a mainstream lesbian open relationship, and how this relationship was built in the pitiful dregs of comedy. Follow Ali on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert Twitter/X: https://x.com/alikolbe And you can see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/YmxS-CU_Ooo FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Get 50% OFF + FREE SHIPPING with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • Jared Freid Teaches You to Date (or Lizzy Tells the Greatest Story Ever if You Hate Men) | WHGS Ep. 275

    Jared Freid Teaches You to Date (or Lizzy Tells the Greatest Story Ever if You Hate Men) | WHGS Ep. 275
    Jun 9 2025
    This episode is a lady killer, listener! Jared Freid is an amazing stand-up comedian, podcaster, and certified bachelor, and today he’s in the apartment for some gay-straight cultural exchange to give you tips for dating women that only a straight man could know! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the secrets to pursuit, how to plan a perfect date, ice cream adventures, and giving up everything to move to Florida. Ashley fights intense homophobia. Lizzy witnesses the pure, unadulterated gay experience. Follow Jared on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid/ https://www.tiktok.com/@wizardofha https://x.com/jtrain56 And see him live on tour! Get tickets at https://punchup.live/jaredfreid Follow Lizzy on IG, Twitter/X, and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ https://x.com/lizzaster https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/64TmEfXn8PQ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: BOULEVARD: Get 10% OFF your first year subscription at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Video Games Are The Gayest Thing Ever — ft. Ashly Burch (Life is Strange, Horizon) | WHGS Ep. 274

    Video Games Are The Gayest Thing Ever — ft. Ashly Burch (Life is Strange, Horizon) | WHGS Ep. 274
    Jun 2 2025
    This episode is an ALL-TIMER, gamers! Ashly Burch is an amazing writer and voice actor who has voiced some of your favorite video game characters, but today we are in the apartment NOT having sex with ANYBODY because this episode is all about playing video games! We discuss queer representation in video games, growing up as a gamer, the absolutely sickening specifics of Final Fantasy, and knowing about all of these topics intimately before you remotely touch a woman. Ashley saves a young gamer from homophobia. Maddie needs her mechanical keyboards creamy. Follow Ashly on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/ashlyburch/ https://www.tiktok.com/@ashly.burch And you can watch her new web series, “I’m Happy You’re Here,” right now! Episode One: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5SavjMFRLg Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SfUO2QmxHM SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/Uj9zyHc0r0I FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • The Next Gay Obsession: Line Dancing? (w/ Josh Sharp) | WHGS Ep. 273

    The Next Gay Obsession: Line Dancing? (w/ Josh Sharp) | WHGS Ep. 273
    May 19 2025
    This episode is bustin’ a move, listener! Josh Sharp is an iconic actor, writer, and comedian behind A24’s hit movie “Dicks: The Musical,” but today he’s in the apartment for a no-pants dance! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the phenomenon of line dancing in the sapphic world, why it has become so popular, the joys it brings, and the rejection of explicitly masculine spaces. We also spend an inordinate amount of time discussing horse sex. Ashley gets fake boobs. Lizzy gets a micropenis. Follow Josh on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cluckcluckjoshsharp/ Get tickets to his upcoming solo show, “Josh Sharp: Ta-Da!,” starting on July 7th: https://www.joshsharptada.com/ And stream “Dicks: the Musical” on MAX: https://www.max.com/movies/dicks-the-musical/f5cdf73e-59bb-4336-9f9a-b8d85382cfd3 Follow Lizzy on IG, Twitter/X, and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ https://x.com/lizzaster https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/iWac-AGgijo FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide, plus a free bedding bundle with Luxe/Elite purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • Become Bi — Because Lesbian Divorce Statistics are WILD w/ Emily Wilson | WHGS Ep. 272

    Become Bi — Because Lesbian Divorce Statistics are WILD w/ Emily Wilson | WHGS Ep. 272
    May 12 2025
    This episode is bisexual as heck, listener! Emily Wilson is an amazing comedian, writer, and actor who was nominated for “Best Newcomer” at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’s in the apartment to be nominated for “Best CUMMER” with the LADIES! In addition, we are joined by the hilarious and whip-smart comedian Lizzy Cassidy while Maddie is out sick. We discuss maintaining your bisexuality in a long-term cishet relationship, getting married, straight vs. gay divorce statistics, and how one simple jacket can make you the mother of a trans child. Ashley gets punished by her professor. Lizzy challenges the “U-Hauling” stereotype. Follow Emily on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/therealemilywilson/ https://www.tiktok.com/@therealemilywilson And go watch her new special, “FIXED,” right now on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9LL4lM3fbk Follow Lizzy on IG, Twitter/X, and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ https://x.com/lizzaster https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/8GQ20SOIo1E FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide, plus a free bedding bundle with Luxe/Elite purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Use code gay50off to Get 50% OFF at https://www.factor75.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Conquer Fear of Rejection with This EASY TRICK w/ Jared Goldstein | WHGS Ep. 271

    Conquer Fear of Rejection with This EASY TRICK w/ Jared Goldstein | WHGS Ep. 271
    May 5 2025
    This episode is confident, listener! Jared Goldstein (Black Mirror, The Unicorn, JFL) is a one-of-a-kind comedian, actor, and podcaster that will have you rolling around on the floor laughing, but today he’s in the apartment to roll around UNDER THE SHEETS! In addition, we are joined by comedian and queerbaiting girlie Yvette Segan as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss getting nervous in queer flirting, creative strategies to overcome these nerves, self-actualization, UNO, and how Urban Outfitters got the BEST shirts. Ashley overhears bad things. Yvette barely survives straight dating. Follow Jared on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/heyjaredhey/ https://www.tiktok.com/@heyjaredhey And listen to his podcast, “Sorry, What?”, wherever you listen: https://linktr.ee/heyjaredhey Follow Yvette on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/yvettesegan/ https://www.tiktok.com/@yevit And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://www.yvettesegan.com/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/SqLeA1xoUHQ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: TOMBOYX: Use code GAY20 to Get 20% OFF at https://tomboyx.com/ HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide, plus a free bedding bundle with Luxe/Elite purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 11 mins