Self-doubt can feel like protection—but more often, it’s just a story we’ve been taught to repeat. In this episode, Destiny dives deep into the truth about self-doubt: where it comes from, what it’s costing you, and how to finally call it out for what it is—a lie. If you’ve ever second-guessed your gifts, delayed your dreams, or downplayed your brilliance... this one is for you.

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Episode Summary:
In this raw and reflective episode of Unfiltered Destiny, we dive deep into what it really takes to heal after heartbreak — whether it’s from a relationship, friendship, or your own unmet expectations. Destiny opens up about the stages of emotional grief, how to reclaim your sense of self, and the small, powerful steps to move forward with clarity and strength.

What You’ll Learn:

• The signs you’re still holding onto heartbreak
• Practical tools to support emotional healing
• How to rebuild your self-worth and identity
• The beauty in becoming whole again

Journal Prompt:
“What am I still holding on to that no longer serves me?”

Affirmation of the Week:
“I give myself permission to release the pain and receive peace.”

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Episode Summary:

In this episode, Destiny peels back the layers of what it really means to live a soft life. Is it true rest and ease—or just a well-filtered performance of peace? We explore how curated comfort can mask burnout, how to spot the difference between living soft and surviving quietly, and why healing is the key to real softness.

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• The real definition of “soft life” and how it’s evolved
• Signs you’re stuck in a survival mode aesthetic
• How trauma can fuel over-functioning and perfection
• The difference between embodying softness and performing it
• Why self-care without self-awareness can keep you stuck
• Journal prompts to help you reflect and reset

Listener Takeaways:

• Reframe your idea of rest: it’s not just naps and candles—it’s nervous system safety
• Identify if you’ve been hiding burnout behind a pretty routine
• Learn how to step into a truly healed and gentle version of you
• Get honest about what’s fueling your “soft life”—healing or hiding?

Journal Prompts:

1. Am I performing softness, or am I living it?
2. What does safety feel like in my body?
3. What am I using aesthetics to avoid?
4. What’s one shift I can make to move from survival to softness?

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Episode Summary:

In this powerful and honest episode, Destiny gets real about what it means to be the “strong friend”—the one who shows up for everyone else, even when she’s running on empty. But what happens when that strong friend breaks?

This episode unpacks the silent struggles of emotional burnout, the pressure to always be okay, and the fear of asking for help. If you’ve ever felt unseen while being everyone’s rock, this one’s for you.

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• How to recognize if you’re the strong friend (and why it’s draining you)
• Real talk on emotional burnout and breakdown
• Personal reflections and moments of vulnerability
• How to reclaim your softness without guilt
• Practical tools for healing and self-support
• The importance of giving yourself permission to rest and receive

Journaling Prompt:

Where do I feel unseen or unsupported, and what do I need right now?

Affirmation of the Episode:

“My strength is not in holding it all together—it’s in allowing myself to fall apart and still rise again.”

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Episode Summary:

In this powerful premiere, Destiny opens up about what it really means to become HER—the version of you who is healed, elegant, and radiant. Through personal stories and real talk, she dives into the layers of transformation every woman faces on her journey back to herself.

Topics Covered:

• The personal journey behind the HER mindset
• Emotional healing and releasing what no longer serves
• The power of graceful boundaries and self-worth
• How to ignite your radiance from the inside out
• Common barriers to becoming HER—and how to overcome them

Affirmation of the Episode:

HER Homework:

• Define HER in your own words
• Choose your healing word for the week
• Journal one step you’ll take to start becoming HER today

Resources:

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