Dating as a Christian? Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married—these are the things you ACTUALLY need to honor God in every stage of your relationship.✅ We’re breaking down:- What to grab during the talking stage- Must-haves for dating with purpose- Essentials for the serious/engaged season- Game-changers for married couples👀 And the best part? 👉 Most of these are on sale for Amazon Prime Day!These aren’t just cute products—they’re tools that will help you:- Stay spiritually grounded- Build healthy connection- Keep your relationship fun AND holyCHAPTERS00:00 - Intro: Everything You ACTUALLY Need to Date God’s Way 01:55 - Talking Stage: Start With God 05:05 - Dating: Fun, Boundaries & Purpose 06:52 - Serious Stage: Discernment & Depth 9:44 - Engaged: Preparing for Marriage 12:36 - Married: Keeping It Holy & Hot 14:40 - Final Recap + Closing🛒 Shop All Our Prime Day Picks:https://www.amazon.com/shop/wearejustdating/list/2784D104BJ559?ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_list_d Products We Mentioned:Prayer journalsConversation cardsDevotionals for singles, dating, engaged, & married couplesRegistry must-haves (air fryer, espresso machine, cozy robes)Bible essentials + journaling toolsDate night games + memory makers

You’re always there for him. He says all the right things. But something still feels... off. In this episode, we’re helping you discern whether the person you’re dating truly loves you—or if they just like having access to you.

We break down signs of convenient relationships, what real biblical love actually looks like, and how to avoid wasting time with someone who only loves your presence—not your soul.

This one’s real, raw, and freeing.

You know what wedding day love looks like…But what about the love you need while you're dating?

In this episode, we walk through 1 Corinthians 13—not just as poetry—but as a practical blueprint for how godly love should look and feel before marriage.

If you're tired of guessing whether your relationship is biblical, healthy, or just emotionally chaotic—this is your guide to stop settling and start seeing clearly.

We’re talking:-What “patient” love really looks like in dating

-Why kindness matters more than chemistry

-How to spot love that builds vs. love that drainsThis episode is for singles and dating couples who are done with confusion and ready for real love, God’s way.CHAPTERS0:00 – Intro: Why 1 Corinthians 13 isn’t just for weddings 1:30 – What makes love godly in dating? 4:00 – “Love is patient” in real life 6:00 – “Love is kind” even during conflict 8:00 – Love that doesn’t envy or compete 10:00 – Selfless, honoring, humble love 12:00 – Love that forgives without keeping score 15:00 – Real love protects, trusts, and perseveres 17:00 – How to apply this in your current relationship 21:00 – Are you dating with God’s definition of love—or the world’s? 24:00 – Encouragement & prayer for real love 29:00 – Outro + next episode preview📚 Related Videos: 🎥 Lust, Love, or Lies? How to Tell the Difference

You’re attracted to each other… but can you trust them with your soul?

In this episode of our Real Love series, we’re breaking down the difference between lust, love, and lies in Christian dating. Whether you’re confused about your feelings or wondering if the relationship is really from God, we’re giving you biblical wisdom and honest signs to help you discern what’s real.

We’ve been in relationships that felt right but left us empty—and we’ve learned that love without God at the center always leads to confusion. Let’s talk about the difference between emotional highs and spiritual health, chemistry and covenant, feelings and fruit.

💡 If you’ve ever asked:

-“Is this love or just lust?”

-“How do I know if they really love me?”

-“What does godly love actually look like in dating?”

This episode is for you.

CHAPTERS

0:00 Intro

1:00 Our past experiences with confusing love & attraction

2:30 What is love vs lust vs lies?

12:15 Signs it might be lust, not love

25:07 How lies creep into Christian dating

33:15 What real godly love looks like (1 Corinthians 13)

54:10 Questions to ask when you're unsure about your relationship

56:00 Final encouragement

How long is too long to wait for a proposal?

In today’s episode, we’re answering a powerful question from a listener who’s been dating her boyfriend for 4 years—but still no ring.

We’re diving into:

- Why some men delay commitment (and what’s really behind it)

- How to spot signs of deflection and avoidance

- 5 soft, but direct questions to ask your man

- What the Bible says about hope deferred

And how to protect your future when you’re tired of waiting

If you’ve been dating with no clear timeline, this episode is your wake-up call to stop settling for uncertainty.

👉 This isn’t about rushing a ring—it’s about refusing to stay stuck.

Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro

3:10 – Why some men wait too long

21:19 – What’s “too long” to wait?

32:07 – How to have an honest convo with your man

34:15 – Signs of deflection & avoidance

39:15 – 5 questions to get clarity

53:00 – Final encouragement

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In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into a question a lot of Christian dating couples are asking in 2025:

“Is living together before marriage a sin?”

If you and your boyfriend or girlfriend are thinking about moving in together to save money or get closer, this episode is for you. We’re not here to shame — we’re here to bring wisdom, truth, and real talk about what it means to honor God in a world of modern dating.

We’ll unpack:

What the Bible says (and doesn’t say) about cohabitation

Why so many couples believe it makes sense financially

The difference between cultural logic and God’s best

How to reset your relationship if you're already living together

If you want biblical wisdom in your relationship, hit play. Whether you’re struggling, curious, or just want clarity — this one’s for you.

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We are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We’ve worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

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Are you a Christian who’s tired of dating the right way and still ending up single? 😩 In this episode, we’re keeping it 100 about what it really feels like to pursue God’s will in dating when everyone else seems to be getting their happy ending faster.

We get into why obeying God in your love life often feels like you’re losing, how to stay faithful without losing hope, and why your singleness is not punishment—it’s preparation.

If you’ve ever thought:

"Why am I still single?"

"Is God holding out on me?"

"How do I stay encouraged while dating God’s way?"

Then fam, this conversation is for YOU.

🔥 What You'll Learn:

✅ Why dating the world’s way looks easier (but isn’t better)

✅ What you’re actually gaining when you honor God in relationships

✅ How to wait well without settling

✅ Encouragement from our story of doing dating God’s way

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We are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We’ve worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:

We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ @wearejustdating

|| M U S I C

Music by

Musician: Jeff Kaele

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https://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...

New Videos Every Tuesday!

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Why adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON’T ...

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T I M & P A U L I N E

We are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We’ve worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships