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Sex, Cheating & Modern Love: A Conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson | Episode 199

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for an insightful and thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson.

Dr. Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a Board Certified Sexologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Imago Relationship Therapist, and Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor with over 30 years of experience working with couples and individuals exploring flexible monogamy and non-traditional relationships. She’s also a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble With Sex podcast.

Together, Dan, Lacy, and Dr. Tammy dive deep into the connection between sex, intimacy, and relationship health, explore why people cheat, and discuss the growing societal shift toward non-monogamy.

Whether you're curious about opening up, navigating long-term connection, or just want expert insight into what makes modern relationships work, this episode is packed with wisdom, real talk, and fresh perspectives from one of the leading voices in the field.

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Lifestyle Stories: Splash Atlanta Part 2: Games, Gangbangs & Group Play | Episode 198

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with Part 2 of their wild weekend recap from the Splash Hotel Takeover in Atlanta, Georgia.

After a rough start with rainy weather and a misunderstanding with close friends, the skies cleared and the vibe shifted. Dan got back to MCing the pool party, bringing the energy with fun games and great prizes while the crowd came alive. Meanwhile, Daphne organized a spicy OnlyFans gangbang—and Lacy jumped in line for the action.

The fun didn’t stop there. The dance floor stayed packed as the party rolled into two back-to-back nights of steamy orgies, filled with familiar faces and some exciting new connections. From bouncing back emotionally to diving into full-blown play, Dan and Lacy recap it all in this sexy, high-energy episode you don’t want to miss.

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Tuesday Talks: Is My Wig Getting in the Way of Play? | Episode 62

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another heartfelt installment of their “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer real questions from real listeners navigating the lifestyle.

This week, an anonymous caller opens up about her journey in the lifestyle with her husband —and shares a deeply personal challenge. She has alopecia, and she feels her condition has become a barrier when it comes to making connections. She explains that people seem interested—until they realize she’s wearing a wig. With an upcoming trip to the Swinger Society takeover at Secrets Hideaway Resort in September, she wants to know: Can I show up bald and proud... and still be desired?

Dan and Lacy respond with compassion and real talk, offering their perspective on confidence, and how to attract connections that go deeper than appearances. They share why different can absolutely be sexy, and how embracing what makes you unique is not just empowering—it’s magnetic.

Whether you’ve faced body image struggles, felt pressure to conform, or just needed a reminder that you're not alone, this episode is a powerful and supportive conversation about owning your truth in the sexiest, boldest way possible.

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Lifestyle Stories: Splash Atlanta Part 1: When a Good Night Goes Sideways | Episode 197

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy share part one of their steamy and emotional adventure at the Splash Hotel Takeover in Atlanta, Georgia.

The weekend kicked off with rainy skies, but that didn’t stop the fun. Dan and Lacy turned up the heat indoors with a spicy content collaboration featuring their unicorn friend, Poly Pineapple. From there, the energy carried straight to the dance floor at the club, where things quickly escalated into a wild group playroom session.

But the night didn’t end the way they expected. A misunderstanding with close friends led to an intense emotional moment—one that left Lacy storming out of the playroom and the weekend hanging in the balance. In the aftermath, Dan and Lacy took time to reflect, reconnect, and work through it with the friends involved.

This episode is full of real talk, raw moments, and the kind of ups and downs that come with navigating friendships, feelings, and play in the lifestyle. Stay tuned for part two of Splash Atlanta to find out how it all unfolds.

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Tuesday Talks: How to Make Sure Everyone Gets Off | Episode 61

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid "Tuesday Talks" listener question.

This week, an anonymous caller opens up about a frustrating dynamic in his lifestyle journey: he’s having a great time, but his wife often walks away from experiences feeling unfulfilled. They want to know how to better connect with couples where everyone’s needs—especially hers—are met.

Dan and Lacy explore how to open up honest conversations about pleasure, set expectations in advance, and empower each partner to take control of their own satisfaction. From advocating for what turns you on to helping guide your partner to your pleasure spots, this episode is all about turning awkward moments into confident, pleasure-forward encounters.

Whether you’re new to swinging or deep into the lifestyle, this episode is packed with actionable tips for communication, confidence, and creating unforgettable experiences—for both partners.

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Lifestyle Interview: Can a Swinger Win an Election? Yvonne Rorrer Thinks So | Episode 196

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Yvonne Rorrer, a Democratic candidate for the Virginia House of Delegates, who recently made headlines around the world.

After publicly sharing on social media that she and her husband are swingers, Yvonne sparked a wave of media attention—including a spotlight on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert. Dan and Lacy dive into her bold decision to live authentically in the public eye, the national reaction to her announcement, and how it's impacted her political campaign.

They also discuss Yvonne’s hopes for the future and her desire to be a voice for non-monogamous individuals and couples if elected. This candid and inspiring conversation breaks down stigma, champions transparency, and highlights the growing movement toward acceptance in politics and beyond.

Don’t miss this groundbreaking episode that blends lifestyle and leadership in a way that’s never been heard before!

To learn more about Yvonne or support her campaign go to: https://yvonnerorrer.com/

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Tuesday Talks: Nude Pics, Respect, and Group Chat Protocol | Episode 60

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another juicy installment of their "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer real questions from listeners just like you.

This week, they dive into a spicy question from HW, who asks about the proper etiquette around sending sexy photos in group chats. How do you navigate sharing steamy pics without overstepping? What's the right way to respond to someone else’s sexy snap without making things awkward—or upsetting your partner?

Dan and Lacy break down the dos and don’ts of digital flirtation, offer their personal insights on maintaining boundaries in group settings, and explain why context and communication are everything in these scenarios.

Whether you’re new to group chats or already swimming in spicy Snap threads, this episode is packed with thoughtful advice, relatable stories, and a few laughs along the way. Tune in to learn how to keep it sexy and respectful in the group chat game.

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