In this episode of The Year of Being 70 podcast, where old friends Lisette and Lucy reflect on their long lives, they discuss people and groups who have been major influences in their lives, beyond just their immediate family members. They each share three examples - some individuals and some groups - that have significantly shaped who they are today.

Key Highlights

• The Class of 1970

Lucy's first influential group was the class of girls she went to school with when she switched to a new, more academically-focused state school as a teenager. These working-class and middle-class girls were incredibly dedicated to their studies, which was eye-opening for Lucy who had previously coasted through school with little effort. This experience challenged Lucy's previously privileged perspective, inspired her to work harder and value her education and what it might mean to other less privileged girls.

• The Marvelous Mrs Miedema

Lisette's first influential figure was a woman named Mrs Miedema, the mother of Lisette's childhood friend, who had a calming presence and made Lisette feel truly seen and accepted for who she was, rather than just for her achievements. Lisette cherishes the memory of Mrs Miedema's empathy and unconditional acceptance, although she had no idea at the time that her friend’s mother was terminally ill.

• The Tracey Beaker Children

Lucy's second influential experience was working at a Barnardo's children's home for six months during a gap year in 1973. Caring for the underprivileged and often troubled children there had a lasting impact on Lucy, and she was amazed to reconnect with some of them decades later on social media and see how they had persevered through difficult lives. Their resilience and ability to thrive has stayed with her.

• The Bankers’ Legacy

Lisette started working at a bank in 1981, and was disappointed to find that the work environment was haphazard and lacking in real professionalism, with people just doing anything without a plan. However, Lisette realised that this lack of structure actually liberated her to speak up and question things that she thought could be improved, which her bosses appreciated. This was a significant influence that led Lisette to later start her own communications company, with the bank becoming a major client.

• The Beauty and the Businessman

While Lucy's third major influence was the model Twiggy, who pioneered a certain look, style and vision of the 1960s and 70s, Lisette's was the visionary entrepreneur Eckhart Vincent, who shared his ideas about a value extracted tax system.

Why you should listen

Overall, this episode provides a reflective look how both individual people and broader social/professional circles can have a profound and lasting influence on one's life path and perspective. By acknowledging these influential figures in their lives, Lucy and Lisette demonstrate the power of presence, empathy and challenge to the status quo that make a difference in others' lives.

This intimate and revealing conversation will move and inspire you to reflect on your own life influences.

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Who are the individuals or groups that have influenced or even changed the course of your life?

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