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Nikki Kelly stands at a fascinating crossroads – a devout Latter-day Saint who works as a sex educator and sex toy expert. Her very existence challenges assumptions about religious people and sexuality, making for a conversation that will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about faith, desire, and how they intersect.

Stepping into the world of Mormon sexuality reveals surprising complexities. From the ubiquitous Utah soda shops (a creative workaround for the coffee ban) to the hushed struggles of religious newlyweds attempting to navigate intimacy without education, Nikki shares insights with remarkable candour and compassion. We explore the painful reality of sexual dysfunction in religious communities, where vaginismus and other issues often stem from years of internalised shame about normal bodily functions and desires.

The journey from religious shame to sexual empowerment isn't straightforward. Nikki describes her own path – hiding her interest in sex education for years, fearing judgment from her community, and eventually finding the courage to embrace her calling. Through therapy with her mother and deep personal reflection, she discovered that spirituality and sexuality aren't opposing forces but beautifully intertwined aspects of her identity. This revelation transformed her approach to both her faith and her work.

What emerges from our conversation is a powerful message that transcends religious boundaries: true maturity isn't about rigid rule-following or finding loopholes, but developing a personal relationship with your values and creating a life that genuinely reflects your authentic self. Whether you're religious, spiritual, or neither, Nikki's perspective offers a refreshing alternative to shame-based approaches to sexuality, showing how education, communication, and self-acceptance create the foundation for healthy relationships with both our bodies and our beliefs.

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Remember when you couldn't keep your hands off each other? That magical time when desire flowed effortlessly between you both? If those days feel distant and you're wondering if that spark is gone forever, this episode delivers hope and practical strategies backed by cutting-edge relationship science.

Passion naturally ebbs when life gets busy. Between work deadlines, household responsibilities, and the mental load of adulting, desire often takes a backseat. But relationship psychologists like Dr. Emily Nagoski and Esther Perel have discovered that rekindling intimacy doesn't require grand gestures or awkward scheduled romance—it's about understanding how desire actually works in long-term relationships.

We dive into the power of erotic imagination and how simple acts of flirtation can reawaken dormant desire. You'll learn why novel experiences—even non-sexual ones—light up the brain's pleasure centers in ways that directly translate to increased attraction. We explore the counterintuitive truth that removing performance pressure often creates space for authentic passion to emerge, and why emotional connection remains the strongest predictor of lasting physical chemistry.

Whether you're feeling like roommates instead of lovers, or simply want to deepen an already good connection, these research-backed approaches offer a roadmap to creating something even better than what you had before. Because rekindling passion isn't about returning to the past—it's about building a more intentional, playful and connected intimate life moving forward.

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Forget everything you thought you knew about kink and BDSM. This episode shatters misconceptions, unveiling how practices often misunderstood as deviant actually create spaces for transformation, healing, and profound personal growth.

Drawing from groundbreaking research by Richard Sprott and insights from contributors to "Reimagining Kink: Transformation, Growth and Healing through BDSM," we explore why BDSM is far from fringe—with nearly half of participants in Belgian studies having tried it at least once, and over 520,000 Australians regularly engaging in kink practices. These aren't just titillating statistics; they reveal a widespread human desire for experiences that transcend ordinary boundaries of pleasure and connection.

The most surprising revelation? Regular BDSM practitioners often demonstrate higher mental well-being than the general population. Through intentional structure, explicit consent, clear boundaries, and dedicated aftercare, kink creates containers for vulnerable exploration that many find profoundly therapeutic. For some—especially those from marginalized communities—these spaces allow integration of shadow aspects, reclamation of voice, and expression of authentic selfhood without fragmentation. As one transmasculine, neurodivergent contributor shared, kink provided a ritual space where they "felt whole" rather than fractured.

Whether you're kink-curious or simply interested in understanding human psychology and pleasure beyond conventional frameworks, this episode offers valuable insights into how intentional power exchange can foster trust, presence, and self-discovery. Because ultimately, your fantasies don't make you broken, your pleasure doesn't need justification, and when explored safely and consensually, your desires might just lead to unexpected healing. Ready to see kink through a new lens? Listen now, and let your curiosity guide you toward deeper understanding of human connection and transformation.