Episodes

  • Episode 399:Time, Streaks, and Why Minutes Might Be Misleading
    Jul 9 2025
    Presented by MyStreaks – Streak Tracker App

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    In this deeply reflective and playful conversation, Jeffery and Jami Downs explore a surprising source of tension in their streaking philosophy—timed streaks. What begins as a personal debate over setting a daily 5-minute study streak with their son evolves into a thoughtful and often humorous exploration of how we perceive and manage time, how it affects our consistency, and why activity-based streaks may offer more freedom and flexibility than time-based ones.

    They discuss the psychology behind "not having time," why perception of time is flawed, and how measuring activity rather than duration helps build true consistency. The episode underscores that streaking is not about measuring effort by the clock, but by the identity you’re building—one deliberate action at a time.

    They end by agreeing that time-based streaks aren’t necessarily wrong, but they are a “hard yellow light”—requiring extra caution due to the mental hurdles they introduce.

    Key insight: “Everyone has the same amount of time in a day. What changes everything is not the minutes you manage—but the meaningful actions you repeat.”

    Chapter Overview

    00:00–02:00 | Podcast Banter and Setup
    Jeffery and Jami open with some lighthearted commentary about their podcast setup and how streaks are often born from their running conversations.

    02:00–04:30 | The Debate Begins: Time vs. Activity
    Jami shares her feelings of being “bristled” when Jeffery discourages time-based streaks. They discuss how disagreements have evolved into deeper understanding in their marriage—and in streaking.

    04:30–07:00 | What’s ‘Laughably Simple’ is Personal
    They emphasize that the “laughably simple” standard is determined by the individual, not imposed externally. If five minutes feels simple to you, that can be your streak.

    07:00–11:30 | Why Jeffery Avoids Time-Based Streaks
    Jeffery shares his aversion to time streaks, explaining how “I don’t have time” becomes a mental block. Activity-based streaks remove that excuse.

    11:30–14:00 | The Universal Currency of Time
    They discuss how everyone has the same 24 hours and how time is constant—but our perception of it is wildly inconsistent.

    14:00–18:00 | Perception vs. Reality of Time
    Through examples (planking, watching shorts, pop tarts, and Disney lines), they explore how different activities distort our experience of time.

    18:00–21:00 | Are We Managing Time or Activity?
    Jeffery offers a mind-shift: you don’t manage time—you manage the activity that occupies time. This leads to more intentional living.

    21:00–25:00 | Seeing Opportunity in the Gaps
    They reflect on moments where streaks happened during unplanned time—like reading in line at Disneyland—because the activity was front of mind.

    25:00–27:00 | Planking, Shorts, and Productive Distractions
    Jeffery admits to pairing planking with watching shorts as a way to make the time pass faster. It's a clever blend of distraction and discipline.

    27:00–30:00 | The Yellow Light of Timed Streaks
    They propose that timed streaks aren’t necessarily bad—but they do require caution. Time can create mental barriers or limit expansion.

    30:00–32:30 | Identity Over Minutes: The Final Shift
    They conclude that streaking is about identity through activity—not effort measured by time. Time passes regardless. It’s the consistency that builds change.

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    35 mins
  • Episode 398: The Invisible Weight You’re Carrying—and How to Drop It
    Jul 1 2025

    This episode of the Streaking Podcast is brought to you by the MyStreaks app—the simplest way to build consistent daily actions that drive breakthrough results. Whether you’re focused on health, mindset, or relationships, MyStreaks helps you stay on track by making it laughably simple to succeed. Download it now at MyStreaksApp.com.

    In this inspiring and deeply personal episode, Jeff & Jami interview Stéph & Shay, bestselling authors of Master Your Mindpower. They share their individual journeys from hardship to resilience, the origins of their powerful coaching practice, and the science and metaphor behind "running parachutes"—the invisible emotional and mental barriers holding us back. You’ll learn how they built their methodology through years of research, how they help clients break through limitations, and how consistent, laughably simple daily actions can lead to massive transformation.

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    00:00 – Welcome & Introduction
    01:01 – Stéph’s Origin Story
    11:59 – Shay’s Journey to Mindpower
    17:38 – How Stéph & Shay Met
    26:00 – Authenticity and Resilience in Relationships
    29:03 – Starting Their Company & Research Journey
    31:53 – The Power of Mindset over Systems
    36:00 – Writing the Book During the Pandemic
    40:00 – The Running Parachute Metaphor
    47:00 – Turning the Metaphor into a Method
    54:01 – The Power of Forgiveness
    56:03 – Daily Consistency & Mindpower Routines
    01:03:01 – The Neurology of Habits & Fitness Routines
    01:07:42 – Overcoming Resistance & “What Do You Want Instead?”
    01:09:00 – Teaching Mindpower to Kids
    01:13:17 – Final Thoughts: Reps, Mastery, and Mindpower Parenting
    01:17:22 – Closing Remarks

    If you’re inspired by this episode and ready to take small daily actions that lead to breakthrough results, download the MyStreaks app at MyStreaksApp.com. Start your streak. Build your identity. Change your life.

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    1 hr and 28 mins
  • Episode 397: Fast Isn’t Best - The Formula 1 Metaphor That Changed Our Marriage
    Jun 9 2025
    Before we go full throttle into today’s episode—if you haven’t downloaded the MyStreaks App now’s the time.Whether you're the engine racing ahead or the brake keeping life on track, MyStreaks helps you build momentum through laughably small daily actions. Create streaks that reflect who you want to become and track the simple behaviors that accelerate progress or apply the brakes when you need to stay grounded. Your transformation is one streak away. In this heartfelt and metaphor-rich episode, Jeff and Jami explore how a Formula One race car’s engine and brakes reflect deeper truths about marriage, personal growth, and streaking. Drawing from their shared experience as runners, spouses, and streakers, they compare Jeff’s “engine” nature with Jami’s role as the “brake.” Together, they show how embracing both acceleration and control—through intentional daily streaks—leads not only to finishing life’s race, but winning it. 00:00 – Welcome & Metaphor Introduction Jeff and Jami introduce the day’s topic: they’re “experts” in Formula One—at least metaphorically. The conversation centers on the powerful dynamic between speed (engine) and control (brake) and how that mirrors real life. 01:45 – Ford vs. Ferrari & the Brakes That Save the Car Jeff shares a scene from Ford vs. Ferrari, where the car crashes due to brake failure. The takeaway: power without control is dangerous. That’s where the metaphor is born. 03:45 – Jami’s Running Journey: From Doubt to Determination Jami recounts how she once believed she wasn’t a runner—until inspiration (and a few brutal experiences) pushed her to lace up and finish races, even with setbacks like bloody noses and vomiting. 06:50 – Inspired by the Finish Line Watching Jeff complete a marathon sparks Jami’s desire to become a runner. She realizes that crossing the finish line matters more than time, speed, or comparison. 09:00 – The “Our Pace” Epiphany A poorly phrased comment from Jeff leads to an ongoing conversation about pace—not his, not hers, but ours. It becomes a metaphor for marriage and shared goals. 10:55 – Injury, Ego & the Blessing of Slowing Down Jeff admits that before running with Jami, his ego drove him to injuries. Running at “our pace” not only healed his body but enabled their 10-year running streak. 13:00 – Jami’s Vulnerability: Always the Brake Jami opens up about the emotional weight of always being the “brake.” She longs for Jeff to feel what it’s like to be the slower runner—the less celebrated one. 15:00 – Trusting the Brake = Greater Performance Jeff explains that in F1, the best drivers go faster because they trust their brakes. It’s the same in life—trusting the slower, grounding forces allows us to move forward with confidence. 17:15 – Society’s Obsession with Acceleration They reflect on how our culture idolizes engines: overnight success, viral posts, bestseller lists. But without brakes—rest, reflection, and restraint—we crash. 18:55 – Streaks as Brakes: Slowing Down to Stay on Track Jeff reveals that many of his streaks (like daily connections with his kids) are brakes. They interrupt his natural tendency to “go fast” and protect what matters most. 21:30 – Dual Purpose: Streaks as Brakes and Engines Jami reframes it beautifully: streaks can be either brakes or engines depending on the moment. Sometimes they motivate, sometimes they regulate. 23:00 – Writing and the Work Behind the Scenes Jeff tells the story of becoming a writer—how streaking replaced fantasy with consistency. Writing a book didn’t happen in a burst of inspiration but through showing up daily. 25:30 – Glory vs. Grind: Why Streaks Matter They talk about how social media shows the highlights, not the hard work. Streaking celebrates the daily grind that no one sees—but that makes the difference. 27:00 – Who Are You in Your F1 Car? You’re the driver. The question is: can you trust both your acceleration and your braking systems? The right streaks help you do both and become who you’re meant to be. 28:00 – Wrap-Up & Invitation to Streak Jeff and Jami encourage listeners to reflect on their own engines and brakes, and to use the MyStreaks app to track and reinforce the daily actions that help finish the race. Closing Quote “The engine gets the spotlight, but it’s the brake that keeps you alive. When both work together, you don’t just move—you finish.”
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    31 mins
  • Episode 396: Did I Make the Right Choice?
    May 22 2025

    What Would You Tell Your Freshman Self?
    In this heartfelt episode of The Streaking Podcast, Jami and I reflect on our son’s graduation and the timeless question seniors were asked: What advice would you give your freshman self?

    That question sparked a deeper conversation about choice, fear, regret, and the power of small, consistent actions. We talk openly about the pressure of life stages, the myth of “doing it all,” and how every decision—especially those made in fear—comes with trade-offs.

    We explore why consistency (streaking!) matters more than chasing the big, flashy reward and why looking back only makes sense when we honor the realities we faced at the time.

    The takeaway: You are the pilot. The small, daily choices are your course corrections.

    Listen in, reflect, and ask yourself: What would I tell myself five years ago? What small action can I take today to shape who I want to become?

    00:00 – 01:00 | Opening Reflections: Graduation & the Freshman Question
    Jeffery introduces the theme after attending his son’s high school graduation.

    01:00 – 03:30 | From Struggling Reader to Confident Presenter
    A proud parenting moment sparks reflection on growth over time.

    03:30 – 06:00 | Senior Advice That Still Applies in Adulthood
    Life lessons shared by graduates—about worry, involvement, and fear of judgment.

    06:00 – 09:00 | What Would I Tell Myself Five Years Ago?
    A personal look at major life changes and the perspective they bring.

    09:00 – 12:00 | Fear-Based Decisions vs. Intentional Choices
    How fear shapes choices—and why recognizing trade-offs matters.

    12:00 – 15:00 | The Illusion of “Having It All”
    The myth that you can choose everything without consequence.

    15:00 – 18:00 | Looking Back with Realism, Not Regret
    Why it’s easy to forget the pressure of past moments and question good decisions.

    18:00 – 21:00 | The Value of Mentors and Experience
    How to use hindsight and foresight to navigate choices better.

    21:00 – 24:00 | The Graduation Theme: It’s the Pilot, Not the Plane
    The power of intentionality—and aviation metaphors—for life direction.

    24:00 – 27:00 | Course Correction and the Power of Streaking
    Why small, consistent actions are your best navigation tools.

    27:00 – 30:00 | Don’t Chase the Promise—Do the Work
    Recognizing substance over hype, especially in career decisions.

    30:00 – 33:00 | Vegetables vs. Cotton Candy: The Work of Consistency
    The contrast between lasting value and quick wins.

    33:00 – End | Final Takeaways and Sign-Off
    Jeffery and Jami summarize the lessons and invite listeners to live intentionally and keep streaking.

    If today’s episode resonated with you—if you’ve ever looked back and wished you’d stayed consistent with something that mattered—then the MyStreaks app is for you. It’s a simple, powerful way to build the life you want through small daily actions. Whether you’re working on becoming more present, more healthy, more creative, or more faithful, MyStreaks gives you the structure to stay intentional, track your progress, and keep going—especially when life gets busy. Download the app today and start a streak that shapes your future.

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    34 mins
  • Episode 395: From Burnout to Breakthrough with Leadership Coach Kurt Wuerfele
    May 16 2025

    In this powerful episode of the Streaking Podcast, we sit down with leadership coach and adventurer Kurt Wuerfele, PCC, who joins us from beautiful Valencia, Spain. Kurt brings wisdom, warmth, and a bit of humor as he shares how leaders can go from overwhelmed and burned out to energized and deeply connected—with their purpose, their people, and themselves.

    We explore:

    • Why awareness is the first step to meaningful change

    • How limiting beliefs sneak in and what it takes to let them go

    • What “energy levels” really mean—and how they affect everything from team meetings to your parenting in the grocery store

    • The difference between default energy and intentional energy (with a light bulb analogy you won’t forget)

    • Why a quick win can reignite belief and how streaks create momentum

    • The art (and grace) of receiving feedback

    • How leaders can bridge the gap between "carpet walkers" and caregivers—especially in mission-driven healthcare

    Kurt also shares how his journey through coaching, international travel, and even backpacking the Great Wall of China shaped his approach to leadership and life. If you’ve ever wondered how to turn insight into lasting impact, this conversation will leave you inspired—and ready to streak with intention.

    Bonus: Learn how the MyStreaks app can help you track simple wins, reflect daily, and become the leader you were meant to be.

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    49 mins
  • Episode 394: The Clorox Effect: Why Cleaning the Toilet Might Be Better Than Petting a Puppy
    May 8 2025

    In this episode of the Streaking Podcast, Jeffery and Jami dive into what they’re calling The Clorox Effect—the surprising science behind why cleaning the toilet might actually feel better than playing a video game or petting a puppy. They explore the neuroscience of task completion, the Zeigarnik Effect, and why your brain loves a good checkmark. From streaks that keep your inbox under control to sticky-note walls that track daily wins, this episode is packed with relatable laughs, eye-opening insights, and practical ways to find joy and momentum in the everyday mess of life.

    00:00 – Welcome to the Clorox Effect
    Jeffery and Jami introduce the surprising idea that cleaning might be more satisfying than leisure—and they’re not selling cleaning products.

    02:15 – The Science Behind the Scrub
    The Clorox study: EEGs, dopamine, and why scrubbing toilets beats petting puppies (for some people).

    04:35 – The Zeigarnik Effect Explained
    Why your brain clings to unfinished tasks—and how servers in a café inspired a psychological breakthrough.

    06:58 – The Trash Can Parable
    A parenting moment reveals how we notice what’s not done more than what is—and what that says about memory and motivation.

    09:22 – Why Checking the Box Feels So Good
    The dopamine hit of completion, and how streaking transforms task lists into sources of joy.

    11:50 – Sticky Notes, Cork Boards, and Visual Wins
    Jami’s real-life Post-it wall—and how moving a note from “to-do” to “ta-da” boosts motivation.

    14:12 – Redefining ‘Just Checking the Box’
    Why we should embrace, not shame, the satisfaction of small daily wins.

    16:41 – The 10-Email Inbox Streak
    Jeffery shares his 9-year streak of inbox management and why it’s one of his most satisfying routines.

    19:02 – Jami vs. the Email Monster
    Jami opens up about her email anxiety, FOMO, and how ChatGPT helped her build a life-changing system.

    21:22 – From Overwhelm to Order
    Practical email folder systems that calm the mind and make action easier—and fun.

    23:41 – Finding Peace in Process
    Apollo 13, moving houses, and the truth about embracing life’s repeating messes.

    26:04 – Visual Progress for Character Growth
    How streaking gives shape and recognition to invisible wins like patience, kindness, and presence.

    28:18 – Morning People, Bed Making, and Mutual Grace
    A lighthearted discussion on streaks, marriage, and why it’s okay to check the box—even if it’s on the bed.

    30:40 – Final Thoughts: You Did It
    How to savor the satisfaction of done, track your progress, and start your own streak in the MyStreaks app.

    Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books.

    Keep Streakin’

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    33 mins
  • Episode 393: The Secret to a Happier, Longer Life - It's Not What You Think.
    May 1 2025

    What really makes a life healthy, happy, and long? In this powerful episode, Jeff and Jami explore a decades-long Harvard study shared in Charles Duhigg’s Supercommunicators—and how its surprising findings on connection, vulnerability, and deep relationships reshape the way we think about success.

    Through candid reflections on independence, emotional self-protection, and the evolving nature of friendship, Jeff shares a vulnerable moment of transformation. This episode is a love letter to the power of staying connected—with your spouse, your children, your community, and even yourself.

    Whether you’re chasing a goal or chasing your own peace, you’ll walk away inspired to build deeper roots.

    Mentioned:

    • Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg

    • The Harvard Grant Study (1937–present)

    • Jeff’s streak to connect with one child daily

    Share your story with us: jeffery@mystreaksapp.com or jami@mystreaksapp.com

    And as always… Keep Streaking.

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    35 mins
  • Episode 392: Teenagers are Fun!
    Apr 24 2025

    Summary

    In this episode, Jeff and Jami discuss the common misconceptions surrounding parenting teenagers, emphasizing that the teenage years can be enjoyable and fulfilling. They explore the importance of self-change in parenting, the need for candid communication, and recognizing each child's individuality. The conversation highlights the significance of sharing knowledge and navigating challenges together, ultimately fostering a supportive environment for teenagers to grow and practice life skills.

    Takeaways

    • Teenagers can be some of the most enjoyable years for parents.
    • Self-change is crucial in parenting; we can't control others.
    • Teenagers need to practice life skills while at home.
    • Candid communication fosters trust and understanding.
    • Recognizing individuality in children is essential for effective parenting.
    • Knowledge sharing is a parent's responsibility.
    • Navigating challenges together strengthens relationships.
    • Candid conversations should happen naturally, not just in formal settings.
    • Motivation behind parenting actions should be love, not need for approval.
    • Children want to be good and make informed decisions.

    Chapters

    00:00 Understanding Teenagers: A Misconception

    02:52 The Joys of Parenting Teenagers

    06:13 Self-Change: The Key to Parenting

    09:05 Practicing Life Skills During Teenage Years

    11:53 Candid Communication with Teens

    15:01 Recognizing Individuality in Children

    17:57 The Importance of Knowledge Sharing

    21:11 Navigating Teenage Challenges Together

    24:07 Candid Conversations: The Path to Understanding

    27:02 Motivation Behind Parenting Actions

    29:57 Key Takeaways for Parenting Teenagers

    Live an intentional life with MyStreaks. MyStreaks is the social media app for intentional self-improvement. Download MyStreaks and start your own streaks also invite your friends to follow and celebrate your progress! You can learn more about MyStreaks by buying the book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble, or Indie Books.

    Keep Streakin’

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    41 mins