• 157 - How to Record Social Media Videos
    Jul 8 2025

    In this episode I’m giving you my top tips for speaking on camera, and getting over that reluctance to record when it’s just you and the camera.

    I record A LOT of video content - this podcast, for one, as well as course videos, Instagram reels and stories, and I’ve picked up a few tricks along the way to move past that reluctance to hit record and just do it.

    Listen in to hear:

    • Why it’s perfectly normal to struggle with speaking to a camera without an audience.

    • Why creating content quickly can help maintain momentum.

    • How to quickly plan the content of your video (not your script) to get you moving

    • Why authenticity in video content is more engaging than perfection.

    • Why I’m a big fan of recording once and publishing

    • The only part of your video I suggest you practice

    • My hot tip for connecting with an absent, invisible audience

    Master the ‘Goldilocks Effect of Speaking’ - join me at my upcoming online workshop to learn how to say not too much, not too little, but just the right amount to land your message with impact, every time. July 30 - register here.

    Want some more social media tips? Listen to episode 63 - How To Not Suck at Social Media Videos.

    Got a question you’d like me to answer on the podcast? Tag me in a post, or DM me on Instagram.

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    13 mins
  • 156 - Knowing WHEN to Speak Up
    Jul 1 2025

    In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m discussing the importance of strategic communication and how to effectively contribute to conversations that matter.

    I’ve been noticing my own ‘desire’ to contribute to ALL THE CONVERSATIONS, but actually, realising I need to focus on my own circle of influence and control, and the value of thoughtful contributions over mere opinions. The episode also touches on the challenges of moral outrage in the digital age, with an invitation to be mindful of your energy and impact.

    Listen in to hear:

    • How being more strategic contribution can enhance your influence.

    • Why not every opinion needs to be shared; choose wisely.

    • How moral outrage can detract from meaningful dialogue.

    • Why it’s powerful to focus on areas where you can make a real impact.

    • How you can conserve energy for significant contributions.

    Join me at The Goldilocks Effect Online Workshop - get your ticket here.

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    Want another episode? Ep 58 The Curse of Moral Outrage and Righteous Indignation.

    Got a question you’d like me to answer on the podcast? Tag me in a post, or DM me on Instagram.

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    13 mins
  • 155 - Umms & Ahhs and How To Stop Them
    Jun 24 2025

    Today I’m answering the question, “how do I train out the excessive umms and ahhs and other unnecessary fillers that take away the conviction and strength in the message”

    Well, I don’t think you need to get rid of all your umms and ahhs … they’re part of an authentic and real connection. But, if they’re undermining the impact of your message, there are some simple things you can do to remove them.

    Listen in to hear:

    • When filler words can undermine the strength of your message, and when they’re ok

    • How to identify why you use filler words

    • The different approaches to minimising them, depending on why you use them

    • Why you might want to keep your umms and ahhs, and instead use other tactics to be impactful

    • Different ways to replace your umms and ahhs, or deliver your message differently so you don’t use them anyway

    To register for the upcoming IMPACTAbility online workshop, The Goldilocks Effect of Speaking, click here.

    Have a question you’d like me to answer on the podcast? Ask me on Instagram.

    To grab my free ebook, How To Stop Rambling, click here.

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    15 mins
  • 154 - Managing The Fear Of Public Speaking
    Jun 17 2025

    It’s often said that the fear of public speaking is second only to the fear of death itself.

    If this is even close to true I find it incredibly sad - how many people are not speaking up, and not contributing their insights and knowledge to the world just because they’re scared something bad might happen?

    In this special episode of Speaking with Confidence with Cat Matson I’m sharing a snippet of my recent Speaking with Impact workshop series. In this particular workshop (which was part 2 of 3), I explore what we’re really scared of when we feel we’re scared of speaking in public, and how to manage it.

    Listen in to hear:

    • What we REALLY fear when it comes to public speaking
    • How we can manage our nerves
    • The simple techniques for reframing that fear
    • How, by prioritising on connection, you can minimise that feeling of fear
    • Why your own personal stories can be your most powerful antidote to fear


    If you’d like to watch workshops 1 & 3 of this series, simply register here and you’ll receive the replay link.

    If you’d like to be the first to know about my new upcoming workshops, sign up for my weekly newsletter here and get a copy of my How To Stop Rambling ebook while you’re at it.

    Got a question about this podcast? Ask me over on Instagram

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    24 mins
  • 153 - How To Memorise Your Presentation So You Don’t Need Notes
    Jun 3 2025

    If I had a dollar for every person who’s asked me ‘how do I memorise my presentations?’ …

    In this episode of Speaking with Confidence with Cat Matson I’m talking about why memorising your presentation is a REALLY bad idea, and what you can do instead to deliver a powerful presentation.

    Listen in to hear:

    • Why you DON’T want to even try to memorise your presentation

    • My top strategies for note-taking and using my slide decks for keeping me on track

    • It’s more than acceptable to have notes (really, it is!)

    • How memorising actually robs you of a key outcome of speaking, which is connecting with your audience

    I mention my ‘Frame Your Thinking’ method ⁠in this episode⁠ - you can listen to ⁠episode 74⁠ to learn more.

    Join me at my upcoming FREE and online Speaking with Impact workshop series, to discover how to land your message EVERY TIME, even if you ramble, go off on tangents or freeze when all eyes are on you. It’s starting on Tuesday 10 June - ⁠all the details are here⁠.

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    15 mins
  • 152 - The Problem With Shortcuts Like AI and Templates
    May 27 2025

    It’s really tempting to use shortcuts like AI or templates when crafting a presentation; but if you’re not careful they’ll trip you up more than they help.

    In this episode of Speaking with Confidence I’m sharing the ‘colour-by-numbers’ mistake I see many people make when using a template, or AI, and how to overcome that.

    Listen in to hear:

    • The ‘secret’ to effective presentations

    • Why your unique experience, and style, is your greatest asset when presenting (even if you’re quiet, nervous or humble)

    • How templates and AI can not only rob you of your authenticity, but they can also trip you up and make you present worse than without them

    • How you CAN use shortcuts like AI and templates effectively, without losing your unique voice or story

    • Why it’s not about delivering ‘perfection’, it’s about taking your audience on a journey

    Join me for my upcoming Speaking with Impact workshop series. Over 3 short, fun and highly interactive sessions, you’ll discover how to collect your thoughts and speak with authority, confidence, authenticity and impact, even if you ramble, lose your words or freeze when all eyes are on you! It starts Tuesday June 10 - register here.

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    14 mins
  • 151 - How To Talk About Myself Without Sounding Too Braggy
    May 20 2025

    How do you showcase your awesomeness without sounding like an arrogant twat? Well, that’s exactly what I’m answering in today’s episode!

    Most humble leaders I know DON’T like talking about themselves, and they hope ‘their work will speak for itself’.

    However, we often don’t have time for our work to speak for itself, and we need to be a little more overt in letting people know how we can contribute.

    In this episode I share a powerful strategy for talking about yourself without sounding like a w*nker.

    Listen in to hear:

    • Why your self-promotion is actually a service to others

    • How you can use factual stories from your life to demonstrate your fabulousness

    • How dropping ‘brag bag’ stories into your conversations will showcase your experience and expertise in a way that doesn’t feel uncomfortable

    • How you can find your brag bag stories

    Want to join the SpeakEASY Elevator Pitch Practise Session? It’s happening Thursday 22 May - register here.

    Learn how to speak with confidence and impact, EVERY time, even if you ramble, lose your words or freeze when all eyes are on you. My 3 part Speaking with Impact workshop series starts Tuesday 10 June. Register here.

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    19 mins
  • 150 - How To Speak Up Even When I’m Scared
    May 13 2025

    It’s REALLY hard to speak up when you’re scared or nervous; worried about looking like an idiot or being rejected.

    Yet we need to, right? Because, chances are, you’re listening to this podcast because you are fearful of speaking in public (whatever that looks like to you) and therefore, it follows, you need to speak up even when you’re scared (or never speaking up at all …. Which, in my opinion, is just not ok).

    So in this episode of Speaking with Confidence I’m sharing some practical tips on how to speak up even when you’re scared. Not tips for waiting until you’re no longer scared. Not waiting until you’re a confident, polished, fabulous speaker, but speaking up NOW, even when you’re scared.

    Listen in to hear:

    • Practical nervous system calming techniques (the ones I use regularly)

    • How to confront and untangle your fearful internal dialogue so you can move past it

    • How I’ve moved through significant fears of my own, like a fear of heights, and how those experiences can help you with your fear of speaking up

    Other episodes mentioned (that will help with your fear of public speaking):

    The Top 3 Speaking Fears, and How To Overcome Them - ep 92

    Interview with Kate Toon - Building The Confidence To Not Be Liked - ep 97

    Want the opportunity to practise speaking up EVEN IF you’re scared, in a safe and supportive environment?

    Join me for my upcoming SpeakEASY Practise Session where we’ll practise our Elevator Pitches. You get to practise in a space that is supportive, you’ll get some feedback and ideas to make your elevator pitch even better and you’ll take another step in your speakers’ journey.

    It’s happening Thursday 22 May at 12.30 AEST - register here (it’s free)

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    16 mins