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Self-Helpless

Self-Helpless

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Described as "an unfiltered thera-brunch with your best friends" where we can have "light conversations about heavy sh*t," Self-Helpless candidly explores the highs, lows, and in-betweens of personal growth—with a strong emphasis on everyday activism. Featuring a variety of specialists, public figures, and subscribers, the show garners millions of downloads, frequents the top Apple & Spotify charts, and has been featured on Conan and The Tonight Show. If you're interested in conscious consumption, holistic health, creativity, purpose—basically trying to figure out wtf we're all doing here and how to make the most of it, you'll be into Self-Helpless. ​

Past guests include: Tan France, Michael Buble,' Rachel Rodgers, Pete Holmes, Dr. Ramani, Ed Winters, Kati Morton, Preacher Lawson, Kris Carr, Jessamyn Stanley, Freddie Prinze Jr., Rachel Ricketts, Nikki Glaser, Sonya Renee Taylor, Amie McNee, and more.

​Hosted by Delanie Fischer, Co-Author of MockTales, Creative Activist, ​​and resident homebody, Self-Helpless has 400+ episodes to browse including a hot combo of long-form and minis ("Self-Helpless Snacks")—integrating guests, solo deep-dives, and even life hacks from extra cool and qualified people like Delanie's dad.

New episode every Monday!

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Episodes
  • Infertility, IVF, Silent Endometriosis, Adoption, Surrogacy and Creative Living with Riki Lindhome

    Infertility, IVF, Silent Endometriosis, Adoption, Surrogacy and Creative Living with Riki Lindhome
    Jun 30 2025

    Delanie Fischer is joined by Emmy-nominated songwriter, comedian, writer, and actress, Riki Lindhome, to discuss her personal experience with infertility and the diverse avenues she explored to become a parent—including egg freezing, IVF, adoption, and surrogacy. They also delve into the evolution of Riki's creative life and career, as well as her approach to the creative process since becoming a mom.

    Plus:

    + An Inside Look at the Surrogacy Process

    + The Moment Riki Met Her Son

    + How She Organizes Her Creative Ideas


    More episodes related to this topic:

    10 Fertility Myths Debunked with OBGYN and Fertility Doctor Natalie Crawford, MD: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/23741396/10-fertility-myths-debunked-with-obgyn-and-fertility-doctor-natalie-crawford-md

    How To Adopt A Child with Adoption Lawyer, Lucrece Bundy: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2dc4b6b4/how-to-adopt-a-child-with-adoption-lawyer-lucrece-bundy

    3 Moms of Newborns Tell All: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/317ab0f6/3-moms-of-newborns-tell-all

    IMOMSOHARD with Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2410683d/imomsohard-with-kristin-hensley-and-jen-smedley


    Support the podcast, vote on topics, and more: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    51 mins
  • Subscriber Stories: Submissions Now Open! (Instructions, Tips, and More)

    Subscriber Stories: Submissions Now Open! (Instructions, Tips, and More)
    Jun 23 2025
    Be a guest on Self-Helpless! Tune in for all submission instructions for The Subscriber Stories Series. Can't wait to have you on the show!How To ApplySend submission to selfhelplesspodcast@gmail.com by July 14th and include:+ Name+ Email address+ Topic(s)+ Any additional detailsPS topics and perspectives not yet explored on Self-Helpless will be prioritized. You can search keywords from our catalog of 450+ episodes here: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodesDelanie's BookMockTales: 50+ Literary Mocktails Inspired by Classic Works, Banned Books, and More by Delanie Fischer & Lindsey SmithSigned copies and bulk orders: https://www.delaniefischer.com/bookMockTales is available online at most retailers including Barnes & Noble, Target, Powell's, and more—and in select stores.Subscriber Stories Inspo:Lessons Learned From 5 Years of RV Life with Jamie Feinberg: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/23bebe71/lessons-learned-from-5-years-of-rv-life-with-jamie-feinbergWhen I Found Out I Had A Brain Tumor with Athena Trombly: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/25e37bb7/when-i-found-out-i-had-a-brain-tumor-with-athena-tromblyThe Power of 1 with Te’Jani: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/22447af0/the-power-of-1-with-tejani-the-artist-behind-the-latest-self-helpless-theme-songKeep Choosing Life with Sav Clements: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/23fec197/keep-choosing-life-with-sav-clements-depression-self-harm-suicidal-ideation-and-attempts-and-getting-supportMysterious Symptoms (And Finally Getting Answers) with Sharon Okun: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2248a087/mysterious-symptoms-and-finally-getting-answers-with-sharon-okunGet Unstuck And Think Globally: Tips For Living, Working, And Traveling Abroad with Will: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/234d73dc/get-unstuck-and-think-globally-tips-for-living-working-and-traveling-abroad-with-will-mulfordBurnout, A Breakdown, And Beginning Again with Jessica Gemme: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/249fe16a/burnout-a-breakdown-and-beginning-again-with-jessica-gemmeMy Dad Was Diagnosed With Lewy Body Dementia with Erika Martin: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/21b228bf/my-dad-was-diagnosed-with-lewy-body-dementia-with-erika-martinHow A Collage Changed My Life with Tatum Elizabeth: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/245a1122/how-a-collage-changed-my-life-with-tatum-elizabethWhen You're Single At 35 (+ Eldest Daughter Syndrome) with Natalie Katona: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/23f054b6/when-youre-single-at-35-eldest-daughter-syndrome-with-natalie-katona"My Life Is Different Because I Feel Different" with Kia (Rehab, Coping Skills, And A New Life): https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2265dd4f/my-life-is-different-because-i-feel-different-with-kia-rehab-coping-skills-and-a-new-lifeIt's Not Too Late To Start with Jared Champion: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/23f7190f/its-not-too-late-to-start-with-jared-championWaking Up With Amnesia, Unsolved Mysteries, And Life With Uncertainty with Olly: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/23189ad4/waking-up-with-amnesia-unsolved-mysteries-and-life-with-uncertainty-with-olly-doveCompounded Grief: Coping With Multiple Losses At Once with Stephanie Edwards: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/250aef7a/compounded-grief-coping-with-multiple-losses-at-once-with-stephanie-edwardsYou can join our Patreon community here: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    12 mins
  • Is It Porn Addiction? Inside the Impact, Neuroscience, and Recovery with Steve Moore and Mark Kastleman

    Is It Porn Addiction? Inside the Impact, Neuroscience, and Recovery with Steve Moore and Mark Kastleman
    Jun 16 2025

    Delanie Fischer is joined by Steve Moore (Certified: Sex Addiction Therapist, Partner Trauma Therapist, Multiple Addictions Therapist) and Mark Kastleman (Board-Certified: Clinical Chaplain and Pastoral Counselor), co-hosts of The PBSE Podcast (Porn, Betrayal, Sex, and the Experts), to share their personal experiences with pornography and sexual addiction—including root causes, signs and symptoms, raw inner dialogue around the behaviors, their recovery process and its impact on their marriages, and how they help others heal. The research suggests—you, or someone you know, is likely struggling with this. Parents, partners, and porn consumers—don't miss this episode.

    Plus:

    + A Shocking Stat About Porn and Divorce

    + How Addictive Is This Porn Thing, Really?

    + 3 Key Warning Signs You Shouldn't Ignore


    More episodes related to this topic:

    Sex and Love Addiction with Sex Addiction Therapist, Alex Katehakis: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/316e9795/sex-and-love-addiction-with-sex-addiction-therapist-alex-katehakis

    7 Shocking Truths About Codependency And Addiction with Heidi Rain: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/24c74079/7-shocking-truths-about-codependency-and-addiction-with-heidi-rain

    The Psychological Impact of Gaslighting with Dr. Stephanie Sarkis: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/2a31527c/the-psychological-impact-of-gaslighting-with-dr-stephanie-sarkis

    Support the podcast, vote on topics, and more: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless

    Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com


    * In this episode, we explore the mental health impacts of porn addiction and the path to recovery.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    2 hrs and 18 mins
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Found them by accident when looking for another popular self help person. Wound up listening to the first episode and FELL IN LOVE with the ladies.
They crack me up, are down to earth and hit so many subjects, super well rounded. I have shared the podcast with my friends, family and 14 yr old stepdaughter.

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