You were told sex is binary, XX or XY, case closed. But what if we told you that’s just redhead math? We’re unpacking the intersex experience with two brilliant guests: Noise (the intersex karaoke witch) and Bailey (trans, intersex, and hot). We’re diving into the science, the history, the surgeries, the shame and why “normal” is a scam. Expect gay giggles, medical rage, and radical joy.

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00:00 intro
03:10 Finding out you're intersex
17:05 History of medicalization of intersex
26:41 Experiencing diagnosis
33:39 Existing in a binary world
41:24 Navigating dating
51:03 Advice for younger self

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Queer. Muslim. Rockstar. Activist. Urvah Khan is all of the above, and she’s here to spill the tea on holding identities the world says don’t mix. We’re talking queerness, faith, feminism, and the fight for liberation, plus why the West needs to stop acting like all Muslim women are oppressed. Urvah breaks down her personal journey, the power of community, and how she’s reclaiming the Azaan with a mic in one hand and a middle finger in the other. It’s raw, rebellious, and deeply queer. Let’s get into it.

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00:00 intro
01:58 Queer and raised Muslim
12:12 Coming out to a Muslim family
19:17 Coming back to Islam as a queer person
28:16 Why continue to choose Islam?
35:30 Wearing the hijab
39:39 Finding queer Muslim community
45:39 Advice for queer Muslims
47:31 Queer Muslim joy

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Losing your sapphic v-card? Terrified you’ll fumble the bag? We got you. This episode is your survival guide to sapphic sex, confidence, flirting, and ahem hands-on skills included. We’re joined by queer sex-ed pro Eva Bloom and sapphic dating expert Zhané to break down the do’s and don’ts of queer intimacy. From navigating your first time to mastering the art of the flirt, this one’s packed with hot tips (literally). Plus, we wrap things up with a round of Sapphic Smutty Mad Libs because education should always come with a little filth.

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00:00 intro
01:48 first time with a woman
14:54 ways to confirm your queerness
16:21 being a newbie means no one wants you?
18:21 Queer vs straight flirting
22:49 Sapphic vs straight sex
30:27 how to flirt with Sapphics
38:54 having Sapphic sex
47:59 Strapping advice
55:35 Top or bottom?
58:40 Trans femmes & neurodivergents
59:58 Sexy Sapphic Smutt