In this powerful and affirming episode of The Gentle Growth Podcast, Raine explores the transformative truth behind boundaries: they’re not just an act of self-care — they’re an act of self-respect. Whether you're just starting to explore boundary-setting or refining them in your relationships, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate take on why they matter so much.

Drawing from her own journey as a recovering people-pleaser, Raine invites you into a candid conversation about what it actually means to honor your time, energy, and values — even when it feels uncomfortable. She shares how boundaries have helped her feel more confident and aligned, and why so many of us fear setting them in the first place.

This episode isn’t about cutting people off — it’s about learning to open and close the doors of your life intentionally, rather than out of guilt or fear. Raine offers a mix of mindset shifts, gentle motivation, and practical strategies you can start using today.

Here’s what you’ll hear:

00:00 – The Importance of Setting Boundaries
Why boundaries aren’t selfish — they’re foundational. A lack of them can lead to resentment, burnout, and disconnection from your true self.

06:25 – Boundaries as a Sign of Confidence
Confidence comes from knowing what’s okay and what’s not. Learn how boundaries reflect emotional maturity and self-worth.

09:19 – Myths Surrounding Boundaries
Raine unpacks the myth that boundaries push people away, and shows how they actually build trust and safety in relationships.

12:40 – Practical Examples of Boundaries
From saying no to last-minute plans to expressing needs without overexplaining — these everyday examples show what healthy boundaries look like.

16:30 – How to Start Setting Boundaries
You don’t have to change everything at once. Raine encourages starting small, using “I” language, and building self-trust step by step.

Takeaways from this episode:

• Boundaries are doors, not walls — they invite intentional connection.
• People-pleasing can lead to burnout and resentment.
• Boundaries are an invitation to trust, not a threat to love.
• Saying no can be more respectful than a guilt-driven yes.
• Communicating your needs clearly can deepen relationships.
• Self-trust is magnetic — and boundaries help build it.

If you’re ready to stop shrinking to keep the peace and start setting standards that reflect your worth, this episode is your loving permission slip.

Protecting your peace isn’t selfish — it’s sacred. And setting boundaries? That’s sexy.

Listen in and take the next step toward growing gently, boldly, and with your whole heart. You deserve to take up space.

If today’s episode spoke to you and you’re ready to create real change — not just in your habits, but in how you feel day-to-day — I’d love to support you.

My coaching is built around personalized accountability, emotional wellness, and sustainable growth. Most of my clients come to me feeling scattered or stuck — and over time, they start showing up with more clarity, confidence, and follow-through than ever before. Together, we build simple routines, strengthen mindset, and work through the mental roadblocks that have been holding you back.

This is a non-judgmental space. Whether you’re working on setting boundaries, building consistency, or just learning how to prioritize yourself without guilt — you don’t have to do it alone.

Book a free clarity call using this link: https://www.gentlegrowthwellness.com/booking

We’ll talk about what’s going on, what support might look like, and whether coaching together is the right fit for you.

Let’s grow — gently, and on purpose.