Stop People-Pleasing: Here’s What Happens When You Don’tWhat actually happens when you stop twisting yourself into a human pretzel just to keep the peace?In this episode of Madame After Midnight, I talk about what it really feels like to let go of being “for everyone.” Not everyone’s going to get you. Some will misread you, shrink you, or flat-out not vibe with your joy. But guess what? That’s not your job to fix. I share some stories (and a few scars), a little philosophy, and a whole lotta freedom — for anyone who’s ever felt “too much,” “not enough,” or just plain misunderstood.✨ Let them misunderstand you. You were never meant to be mass-produced. Find the joy in not being for everyone!Watch and 🎧 Listen in if you:Are tired of walking on eggshellsNeed a reminder that your light is not negotiableWant to feel strong in your “nope, not for you” era—🌀 Like what you hear?Subscribe for more soulful, spicy episodes every Monday.Leave a review if this one lit something up in you.And send it to a friend who gets you 💌#MadameAfterMidnight #StopPeoplePleasing #SpiritualGlowUp #TooMuchAndProud #YouTubePodcast #AuthenticLiving

You Can Start Over Again (And Again)

What do you do when life keeps falling apart before you can even catch your breath?

In this episode, I share the real, raw truth of starting over — not once, but multiple times — through wildfires, heartbreak, creative shifts, and misjudgments that weren’t mine to carry.

I left Maui shortly after the devastating Lahaina fire… rebuilt my life on the road with nothing but donuts, dreams, and grit… then found a dream job cooking in this house with a beautiful vegetable garden in Malibu — only for a wildfire to claim that too.

And still… I’m here.

We talk about what it really means to begin again. How to choose your peace when others misjudge your worth. And why reinvention isn’t failure — it’s freedom.

✦ For the ones rebuilding in silence.


✦ For the strong women who won’t apologize for thriving.


✦ For the creatives who are tired… but not done.

💬 What’s something you’ve had to start over from? Share in the comments — let’s hold each other in the ashes and the bloom.

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I’m speaking directly to anyone who’s ever been misjudged, misunderstood, or painted into someone else’s story.

Welcome to Madame After Midnight — the podcast where we talk life, loss, resilience, and the persistent pursuit of sustainable happiness.This episode is about perception — how people decide who you are before you’ve even spoken.It’s about what happens when others try to write your narrative… and how to reclaim your own pen to write your own.✨ We talk:Why people project their fears onto othersHow to protect your joy and peaceThe power of reframing and sacred rebellionTurning frustration into creation — with love, with cooking, with truthIf you’ve ever been mislabeled or boxed in by someone else’s assumptions, this episode is for you.🌀 Let them project.You? You protect — your light, your truth, your future.🎧 Listen in, breathe deep, and circle back to what matters most.And if this resonates, share it with someone else who might need a reminder of their own power. 💛🔔 Subscribe for more late-night soul talks.🗣 Drop your reflections in the comments. Let’s build something healing, together.#MadameAfterMidnight #ItsNotMeItsYou #SelfWorth #Reframing #SoulfulResistance #PodcastTherapy #LateNightTalks